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My baby's father is married. He and his wife have been through all sorts of drama with her cheating on him a few times, and leaving him while he was out of town. He eventually went back but things were never the same. So now he has done the unthinkable and cheated on her with me. We are expecting a baby. I don't know what the future holds, but know that it is going to be extremely crazy once she finds out about the baby. I think he might move in with me. Anyway, I know this will be extremely tough on his kids. In this situation they are who I worry about the most. He has an awesome relationship with his kids and I wish he could maintain that relationship in spite of the fact that he and his wife will be splitting up soon. I told him to tell her about the baby and see if she would let him stay. I would bow out gracefully as long as he maintained a relationship with our son. I am not heartless and never meant for things to go this far. So if she ends up telling him to get out or if he leaves of his own free will, is their any advice that can be given if I were to have to take on the step mom role? My 2 older boys have a step mom. We don't have any issues at all. We never talk and that is okay. My relationship is with my son's father only. If he wants to know anything all he has to do is ask. As long as she is good to my son I don't have a problem with anything they do. Anyway, tell me what you think I should do if he and I end up being together and have to deal with his wife. I know it's going to be hard. ↓
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