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Name: kelly smith

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I need help real bad , I feel so embaresed by this whole thing. I have a bf of a year and half and I thought he loved me and we had a child together. I always told him I love him and he has only said it to be a few times. He said recently that he hates our realship and always has. He said we are two different people , I thought that was a posstive thing. He also says he will go to keep baby if we dont work out. See we broke up 5days ago and he back only because I beg and cryed. Today he said nothing changed...I tried to fix things that r wrong. He even said I yell 24/7 am I really that bad. Do I not who I am ,....a crazy person...did I dream of our realship...but it was never real???? I cry every day ,what is so wrong with me...well I know everthing...he even claimed I didnt love baby?? I cry every day...I dont want to go out.. how can love hurt soo bad.. does only good people get lucky to have nice gue. I failed with him ,he was my nice gue. ,If only i was better. any advice would be nice. ↓

Name: shelly | Date: Jul 25th, 2008 4:28 AM

i am new here ...my story is almost same. ↑

Name: sidesmile | Date: Jul 25th, 2008 4:46 AM

that happen to me to...email if you like to talk ↑

Name: D. Rush | Date: Jul 25th, 2008 3:57 PM

Kelly, I am so sorry. My daughter is 24 and has been through the same thing. I would say that most women have had their heart broken by a guy. My question to you is-why would you beg and cry for him to come back when he told you that he hates the relationship? I know it hurts very bad. but, you will get through this. You deserve a guy who will love and respect you as much as you love and respect him. Love truly is blind. One day you will look back and ask yourself "how could I have been so blind." Only time will heal your pain. Try to stay away from him. Keep yourself occupied. He does not sound like he is the one for you. You will eventually find the love of your life. I did. Good Luck. ↑

Name: debbiea12 | Date: Aug 7th, 2008 6:27 PM

I have been through the same thing with my ex. Trust me honey sometimes it's better to just let him go even if it may hurt. There is light at the end of the tunnel and I have since found a wonderful man that loves me as much as I love him. If you need to talk email me at [email protected] ↑