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I've posted on here several times concening my husbands ex-wife. Just to refresh, my husband was married twice before. He had two children with his 1st wife, which he gained custody of when they were 2 and 4. He met and married his 2nd wife and had another child. His 1st wife gave up her parental rights to the two oldest and his 2nd wife adopted them. Oh yeah, she had two children from her 1st marriage so they had 5 all together. My husband and his 2nd wife divorce when their bio daughter was 2, his ex-wife gives custody of her two oldest to their father, my husband gets custody of his two oldest and they share custody of their bio daughter. Visitation was week on/ week off till she started school then my husband would get her two weekends a month. Before she started school, I met my husband, and his ex moved closer to us so my husband was able to continue with the week on/week off visitation. The ex agreed to continue it. Problem came when she would get pissed about something he did, didn't do, or said and her 1st instinct was to pull his visitation and go back to the papers. My husband is a wonderful father and the quickest way to hurt him is to keep his children from him. I have been begging my husband for 4 years to take this woman back to court and have the papers changed to the week on week off. I hated seeing him bow down to her every request and him getting hurt by this woman. FINALLY, she pulled her custodial parent card just one to many times. She did it again and this time threatened to move out of state with their daughter to NJ where her 5 husband lives. We went to see an Attorney that week, she was served with papers on the 15th. And my husband is going after full residential custody and child support for all three children even though she chooses to have nothing to do with his two older, they are still legally hers. His ex has moved around, every 6 months she is moving, which means the daughter is moving schools. (5 schools and she is just finishing the 2nd grade). We would have to travel to where ever she was going to school on our week to get her to and from. My husband and I changed our work schedules each and everytime to accomodate the change. Now that she is angry for him coming after custody, she won't allow their daughter to go on vacation with us this summer. She won't allow her to come over any extra during the summer. She wouldn't allow her to fininsh out her baseball season that we paid to sign her up for. Finally my husband is taking steps to protect his rights as a father. There are so many fathers out there that don't do the right things by their kids, mine is the total opposite. She has no idea what she has in a father for her child. I wish my ex would fight as hard to have a relationship with his kids. ↓
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