First, how truly wonderful it is that your children & hubby are doing well together. That in itself is a such a blessing!
The only advice I can offer to you is go with your gut (instinct) on this. If you & hubby to have decided you want to have a child...go for it! I myself am in a blended family. I'm the step-parent to 3 (now grown) children. I understand your feelings for your babies. My hubby struggled with it also! All I can say is....we did the best we could to make the children feel loved & secure! We did sit them down at first and tell them we all loved them, always will and will be there no matter what. And to please give this new addition a chance. Honestly, I am not going to lie. It was touch and go at first. But...they came around. They love their baby sis...who's now 11! Just make them feel as secure as possible and involve them with everything. Your pregnancy etc. She will most likely come around. Good Luck on your tubal reversal! Best Wishes! ↑ |
