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I just need to vent. I am so tired of my husband's ex-wife and her little letters. Every time she writes him a letter she trys to sound so cooperative. She writes in the letter that the kids are in new activities that "require them to travel around the state and here is the schuedule and that JJ would enjoy him being there to support her and taking her to any other tournaments. Please talk to her about it and JJ is so excited and it is a great opportunity for her. If he is not williing to take her she is willing to take them to the activitities." Is it just me or is she trying to manipulate his time with the children? She goes on to say that "they play a vital role on their team (goalie) and not being there hurts the kids and their teammatees rely on them to be there." Of course she has signed them up already so if he decides not to take them 400 miles opposite our home to a tourney, the are 7 and 9, then he gets to look like the BAD guy again by tellinig them he can't do it. I am thinking to myself...it would of been nice of her to involve my husband prior to signing them up or am I just being insane here? Exchanging weekends would not matter as they have to practice so either way its lets do what Mom has scheduled. Any advice on this and how to make her stop? Obviously she has extra money to travel and tote the kids around the neighboring state, we on the other hadn do not have extra money. ↓
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