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Name: maryjane4175

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For the past 3 nights my husband has been really mean to me! Coursing, chastising me, and extremely critical of me, no matter if what I do or say is wrong or right.
I do realize that he had to work all weekend, and his truck is about to die on him, but does he have to make me feel like I would be better off dead, like I'm not worthy of his love, like it would not matter if I was there or not. His words can hurt so bad!!! ↓

Name: Lory | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 6:45 PM

Hi mj4175!! I'm sorry you've been feeling like this! Do you think there could be something bothering him...something on his mind?Although it is no excuse...sometimes we have a way of taking it out on the people we love....and the people who are around us the most. I'm def. guilty of it at times. He should not be saying hateful things to you! Me personally...I would ask him what his problem is...and tell him you don't appreciate how he is making you feel. I hope it goes well. Take Care!! ↑

Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 9:04 PM

Your situation sounds EXACTLY like mine!!!!!!!! My husband treats me the same way too! Things go wrong,he knows they aren't my fault but yet he gets in these bad moods and takes them out on ME!!!! He never hits me but the mental abuse is just as bad! ↑