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i am a mommy of 3 beautiful kids 8,2,from my first husbend & 2 month'sfrom my new boyfriend he try's his best to make me happy but i cant seem to feel that he loved his ex more then me .i hear the way he talk's about her ..like she was the best looking girl he had ever been with, he was going to get her name tattoo on his body ...but has never said the same about me ...am i just beeing silly? ... ↓
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| Name: Serina | Date: Mar 31st, 2006 3:46 AM |
Yo are not nut. Get out this guy sounds like he is still hooked on his old girlfiend. Well better yet why do'nt you talk to him about how youfeel. He may not even realize how he is coming accros.
Best regards! ↑ |
| Name: sonia | Date: Mar 31st, 2006 4:31 AM |
| A man who talks about his ex this way is likely to talk about you the same way when it is over. A man who talks bad about his exes will talk bad about you when it is over. Ask him not to talk about it at all and never ask questions either you will be much happier in the end ↑ |
| Name: Carrie | Date: Apr 7th, 2006 4:02 PM |
| my soon to be hubby did the same thing!! i think they "think" it was that good!! but if it was then why is he not with her now?? u kno? well do what i did.. get really sad one night tell hem u fell like he loves her more than u and see how he acts!! HE LOVES U MORE!! or he would not b with u! just let him kno it hurts u to here im talk about her like that!! tell him ur happy they had a goog life togather but that u r going to try to make yalls life much better if he will just give u the chance w/o her name in yalls relationship ↑ |
| Name: Donna | Date: Apr 13th, 2006 2:52 AM |
It sounds like he's still stuck on his ex. Most of us aren't each other's first love but we don't dwell on our past relationship's with our current partner's. It's harmful to a relationship. You're not silly! Your feelings are very real and need to be protected from this type of emotional roller coaster.
Share your thoughts with him! ↑ |
| Name: JESS | Date: Apr 20th, 2006 8:00 AM |
| He shouldn;t be doing this! he needs to stop the talk of his x to a certain extent. i have been in a similar situation and it hurts. you feel like you can't compare. your better. ↑ |
| Name: pam | Date: Sep 7th, 2006 8:25 PM |
| yes, but sometimes we all need resurance. remember he is with you know ↑ |
| Name: roxy | Date: Oct 25th, 2006 1:28 PM |
| hi there, i am in a simmilar situation, my partnet whom lives with me has called me his ex name twice, lied about a meeting between them, had nude photos of her in my home which i told him to get rid of, he said in was jelouse of her looks and her figure. he has a child with her who stays over once a week with us she also has a son from a previous relationship and he says i am mean because i wont let him stay over too. i already have two children of my own and two other children of his living with us full time. now call me mean if u want but taking 3 of his children on is enough for me without having any of her other kids there i think he is been unreasonably. we argue about it well its the only thing we do argue about. he knows how i feel as im sure your boyfriend does u must have told him how this is making u feel, yet he still makes comments to me about her and her son. i am constantly telling him we are a new family now leave her and hers out of our lives but he seems unable to do so. i am afraid i wont be putting up with this for much longer for my own peace of mind and confidence. hope your ok jessica xxx ↑ |
| Name: tweetybird4 | Date: Oct 26th, 2006 3:34 PM |
| No, your not being silly. It's sort of wrong because he had a baby with you. If she was to pop back up into his life would he want to rekindle his old relationship again? I would be concerned if he's seeing or talking to her again. Your boyfriend could be comparing the qualites of you to his ex. When he talks about her, there was something that she did that tripped his trigger. You could explain to him in a loving way how much you don't appreciate him constantly bringing her up. Come right out and ask him if he would rather be with her instead of you? If you talk about your past boyfriends, does he listen or take offense? Or do you just not talk about them at all. My boyfriend used to talk about one particular girlfriend alot in the beginning of our relationship. I realized that at one time, he was really in love with her but there were qualities about her that he didn't like, yet he said that we had similiar qualities. They were very compatible with each other. However, their relationship didn't last for various reason. He was looking for someone, who had similiar qualities without the complications. So, one night, I did mention to him that I didn't like how he talked about her so much. Overtime, he stopped and now when we do talk about our past relationships, we pick apart the things we didn't like and try not to do them in ours. Sit down and talk with him to see what he says. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Oct 26th, 2006 6:10 PM |
| I'd say well obviously the love wasn't too strong or else he would still be with her now wouldn't he?! Ask him if he would like to call her beings he seems to be so obsessed with her! ↑ |
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