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i am having alot of problems wit my mom so now i am living wit my man but i feel so low and dont know what to do wit my baby i am having a boy and am 20 weeks prego HELP !!!!!!!!! ↓
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| Name: lil_dancer77 | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 1:56 AM |
| just take it each day as it comes, your mum will be ok but give her time. In her eyes your are still her baby. Its hard for parents to accept things sometimes but they always love you and will come around eventually. If you want to have a relationship with your mum keep trying dont give up. They are the best supports. ↑ |
| Name: lulubell16 | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 1:59 AM |
| ya but when i got prego she juss lost a baby so that is why and she hit me in my belly she wants me to lose the baby thank you 4 talking to me ↑ |
| Name: Randi | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 2:00 AM |
| Name: lulubell16 | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 2:01 AM |
| Name: Randi | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 2:16 AM |
| You are rediculous. Put your baby up for adoption and go to school. You are only 16 and obviously not very educated. You can not support a child or a family and if you keep him he will grow up to be just like you. Give him a chance at a good life and fix your relationship with your mother. ↑ |
| Name: harper1990 | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 2:29 AM |
First of all its not 'wit' it's 'with' ok?
Just is spelled J-u-s-t and stop using the number 4 to spell for..it makes you sound like an idiot.
I was 16 when I had my daughter, but at least I can spell. ↑ |
| Name: lulubell16 | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 2:30 AM |
| Oh ya and about my mother why would i talk to her if she hit me in the belly to lose my baby boy?????? ↑ |
| Name: Randi | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 2:30 AM |
You asked what to you with your baby, and asked for help. I gave my opinion.
Your little girl is gorgeous harper : ) ↑ |
| Name: lulubell16 | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 2:32 AM |
| so what you trying to tell me to give my baby up to or what ↑ |
| Name: harper1990 | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 2:33 AM |
| Aww thank you Randi...I am kind of upset because she is growing up on me. boohoo. ↑ |
| Name: Randi | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 2:39 AM |
I know, my little guy is over 6 months now!
I was saying put your baby up for adoption. Give it a better life. You seem really immature. ↑ |
| Name: lulubell16 | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 2:41 AM |
| how old were you when you had your baby? ↑ |
| Name: lil_dancer77 | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 2:43 AM |
| don't get upset Lulubell Randi is just giving her opinion. You are young but with the right support you can do this. Stay positive. Yes your mum was inthe wrong to hit you. No one should be hurtful in that way ever. I don't know what you want to do in regards to your mum, is your bf supoortive? ↑ |
| Name: lulubell16 | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 2:50 AM |
| Yea he was happy when i told him, his family loves me and helps me with every thing that is going on. I am happy i have his family because i would not know what to do! It has been crazy this last week so im ok right now and I was in the wrong but all i can say is im sorry and i am! ↑ |
| Name: lil_dancer77 | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 3:17 AM |
| well its good that you have support, its so important. Its also awesome that your partner is sticking around. Just take it day by day your a rea half way there. ↑ |
| Name: harper1990 | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 6:23 AM |
| Randi- Charlotte is now 8 months. ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 11:01 AM |
You're old enough to take responsibility for your actions. The government will help you financially so you can continue to go to school.
Randi, adoption isn't something you should be throwing in this girl's face. I was adopted, and it ISN'T always a better life. I would rather have lived in a car with my mother than been adopted. But I wasn't given that choice, and I ended up with an appauling adopted family, who found they couldn't even look at me half the time as I didn't look like them. Adoption is a cruel fate for a lot of children.
http://www.keepyourbaby.com/ ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 11:07 AM |
| I'm sick of adoption being put forward as an easy option to solve everyone's problems, and why is it that everyone always assumes that the baby is going to be better off being rejected by his mother? Have any of you any idea of the turmoil being adopted has put me through? Knowing my mother wanted her son, but then got pregnant with me and gave me away? There is NO excuse for putting your baby up for adoption, unless you will be an unfit mother, or a complete monster who finds she can't love her own baby (as my mother was) and nothing suggests that Lulubell will be anything other than a wonderful mother. She already loves her son; she needs to be away from her mother certainly, but she's with her man; and if he proves not to be good enough, there's housing benefit, child benefit etc. She didn't get pregnant to provide an emotional outlet for the childless! And just because they are adopted parents does not mean they will be good parents! ↑ |
| Name: lulubell16 | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 2:58 PM |
| Brisesis and lil_dancer77 Thank you for helping me out with that it does mean alot to me! Brisesis thank you for putting your story out there and i am sorry that happend to you in a way i know the feeling my mom was like that with me and her two other kids so if you ever want to talk you know who to talk to ok! ↑ |
| Name: kkarli | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 9:14 PM |
| hey lulubell16 lol im karli and im 15 12 weeks pregnant. and my family and my bf and his family want me to put my baby up for adoption, and i agree with briesis you should be shoving adoption as an easy way out method to this girl. you should be supporting her and least ask her question on maybe how there gonna afford this baby and stuff ... not putting her down because they both want to continue with keeping there child.. thats wrong. ↑ |
| Name: kkarli | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 9:15 PM |
| and i agree with briesis you shouldn't* be shoving adoption as an easy way out method to this girl. ↑ |
| Name: sarah1681 | Date: Jun 22nd, 2007 3:45 AM |
| lulu im really sorry your mom hit you just do what is best for you and the baby and everything will work itself out god will bless you with the help you need ↑ |
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