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Name: justine

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hi , everyone & im 16& im 12 weeks pregnant i left hom to be w/my ex and on my stay he told me his real age. i was with him for 4 months& he told me everything i wanted to hear. so we had unprotcted sex b/c he told me he wanted my to have his child &berfore him i lost my virginty to someone who used me & so i didnt do anything w/anyone b/c i wanted to wait until i found the right one & i found him well he told me he was 17 & it turns out hes 25 and when i met him at landa park he told me that girl he was w/was his cousin well the other couple he was w/turned out to be my friends sister!! its a small world well that girl was his wife & they have a llittle boy & he has a little girl by someone else & he was married to 2 girls & it just hurt me when i found out all i did was love him i left my family for him & yet it wosent enoughh. so now im pressing charges on him and now i met someone and he konws im pregnant & hes ok w/it & he goes to my school & hes 16 also but i dont want to ruin his life b/c he has a lot coming for him &i dont want him to have to take care or a chid that isnt even his but there is hope i prayed and prayed and we fonud each other!!! what sholud i do i dont want to mess up his life just for me? ↓

Name: MARIE | Date: Feb 28th, 2006 6:38 PM

Wow that's quite a story. I'm glad you found someone that will help you through this difficult time. I'm here too ↑

Name: justine | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 5:02 PM

thanx marie i need help b/c i started bleeding yesterday but it was very light and i was cramping all week andabout a month ago we were packing and i was lifting heavy things and that night i woke up bleeding and it hurt so bad but i tried to ignore it and i felel asleep crying and in the morning it still hurt but not as bad. i had to use a tampon and a pad b/c it bleed through so i dont know what to do ↑

Name: MARIE | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 5:22 PM

Oh honey i'm sorry your in so much pain. If you keep bleeding you should go to the doctors immediately. ↑

Name: heather | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 10:08 PM

good job on pressing charges..he deserves it!!
my sister was 15 when she had her baby...the babies father is 18 and has nothing to do with their son. During pregnancy she was with another guy because the father is sorry. her and the other guy are still together and now theyve been together for about a year. as long as hes accepting, then i guess w/e...but you might bump heads with his parents on that one because hes so young. hope everything goes ok for you.

GO TO THE DOCTOR JUSTINE. ↑