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Hello im Ashlee i just found out that im pregnant and im scared to tell my mother...can sombody give me some advice on how to tell her please! ↓
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| Name: patricia | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 10:16 AM |
| Hey ashlee, im currently 30 weeks pregnant and im 19 so i can relate to u in worying about telling ur mum. Do you have any big sisters or a family friend that u can trust? If u really r that scared to tell her perhaps they could break the news for u? please don't worry about it ur mum is after all ur mum and she will support u in this!! ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 4:09 PM |
| I was 17 and pregnant also im 19 now and have a beautiful lil girl and currently pregnant with my lil boy. I was scared to tell my mm but you can do it in a cute way if your mom has a sense of humor like take her shopping and buy her a grandmother card or tshirt or something thats fun, but if she is a serious person i would just sit her down and talk to her and tell her you want her to be there and that it was not plannned but its not a mistake either and you really hope she will be there for you ect. it all depends on how your mother is about stuff. So maybe if you let us know a lil about her we can maybe help find a way to tell her with you ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 5:02 PM |
| Your name says it all psycho. I was a teen momther my self and no it does not ruin any plans you have made and yes a 17 year old can take care of her child my daughter is 2 now a\has everything she needs, is very bright so you have no idea what you are talking about and I dont even know why someone like you are on this forum if you are going to be so damn rude. You dont know about Ashlee's life maybe she has a wonderful family and maybe she is finacially stable you should just keep your rudxe comments to yourself ↑ |
| Name: keke | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 5:05 PM |
| Name: angel of mine 2006 | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 5:06 PM |
| to psycho you have been reported for poor taste, I hope YOU learn to grow up! ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 5:08 PM |
| Good I hope everyone reports every lil comment of hers as poor taste because they all seem to be very rude ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 5:27 PM |
| I correct myself only ones she isnt rude about is ones she feels are morally right and the babies mother and father are together ↑ |
| Name: keke | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 5:57 PM |
| Hi ashlee i had my first my first child at 17 when i found out i almost died the hardest part was tellin my family because i was still in colledge. I got over it now i am 19 and pregnant again the only difference between then and now is that i live on my own. I have a job and i am educated. My advice to you is it is not the end of the world in evrything trust in god for evrything he place the correct words in your in your mouth and tell you what to say. My advice protect yoursself. ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 6:12 PM |
| KeKe when are you do? Im just curoius cause I got pregnant and 17 and am 19 now and have a beautiful lil 2 yr old and am currently pregnant with my lil boy due in October ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 6:16 PM |
| Name: elliott_baby | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 6:38 PM |
Hi Ashlee,
Well, I"m not 17 and pregnant but I'm 25 and pregnant. My bf and I have only been dating for a couple of months (met on the internet) and his mom is PISSED right off that we are having a baby now. She even asked him if he was sure if this baby is his. HOW F'ING INSULTING!! So seems like the BS in life just never ends, whether you are 17 or 25. I would make sure she is in a good mood and tell her you have something to tell her but that you don't want her to get upset. I think she would rather hear that you are pregnant rather than figure it out on her own. Hope this helps.
Elliott_baby (Sandra) ↑ |
| Name: SenseOfPoise_n_rationality | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 10:57 PM |
| Hi im 25 weeks pregnant and i had trouble telling family to! My mom and some siblings knew right away. But i didnt tell my fiance's parents untill i was 12 weeks pregnant. So i suggest tell your mom right away becaus my dad and his parents were upset about finding out so late. I guess you make it seem so scary . . but in the end its not that bad! I really dont know what to say to her because someone opened there mouth about me! ↑ |
| Name: Ashlee | Date: Jul 7th, 2006 12:56 AM |
| Thanks so much for the advice you guys...You all have been very helpful!! To Physco..Get a life...And as for keeping my legs together..I have only had sex 1 time and here i am!! So dont make me seem like a whore when you dont know anything about me! Me and the father are still together and very happy! And fnancially stable..so dont worry about and and you are the one that needs to grow up....Good Luck to you! Sara M thanks my mom has awsome sense of humor ...i never thought about doing that...i think thats what ill do!! Your awsome! Thanks everybody so much I feel not so worry now about all of this! I love you guys! lol ↑ |
| Name: Rebecca | Date: Jul 9th, 2006 2:32 AM |
| Just say hey mom i gotta talk to u and be like im prego ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Jul 9th, 2006 4:07 PM |
| Let us know how everything goes and how you told her lol. Good luck ↑ |
| Name: Aharris | Date: Jul 11th, 2006 5:37 PM |
| I am 23 years old and i was scared to tell my mom that I was pregnant. I don't know why I was scared because we have always had a close relationship. I guess I was just scared that she would be mad. I am telling you if your mom knows you then she will know soon that you are pregnant. Sometimes it's best to tell now instead of waiting. Who knows your mom might turn out to be like mines. My mom is so happy and can't wait for her first grandchild in October. Trust me it's your mom she will be okay. ↑ |
| Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Jul 11th, 2006 6:01 PM |
Ashlee-
Don't even bother with people like Psycho. No matter what the subject is there will always be that one person who has nothing better to do then write something nasty like, "Just tell her. Tell her how you couldn't keep your legs together long enough to think of the ramifications." Life simply would not be complete if they didn't create some sort of drama in their lives. Some people just have a whole lot of time in their lives.
But I do believe you need to tell as you already know you have to, whether it is with just the two of you or you take someone along with you when you talk to her. Tell her that you have something important to talk to her about. Let her know that you've been trying to find away to let her know something but have been to scared to because you didn't know how she will react. You mother of course will be disappointed this is to be expected. Our parents just want what they think is best for us. Whether you tell her now or when you start showing, the reality is you have to tell her. Out of everyone in your life she will be your best support system. Just remember she loves you and no matter what she says the day that you tell her she still loves you. ↑ |
| Name: mom1975 | Date: Jul 13th, 2006 4:20 AM |
| Hi, I am not a teen anymore, but, I was 14 when I got pregnant and had my daughter when I was 15...(My first sexual experience) I have had 4 children and they are all wonderful. I consider my daughter that I had when I was 15 my Angel Girl... I was hanging out with the wrong people and doing things that I should not have been doing. But, the moment that I found out that I was pregnant with her, my entire life changed...for the GOOD! Baby's are precious Gift's from God... Just remember you may be in a bad sitiuation being so young...but God can make all bad GOOD if you will let him. Now, I have to practice what I preach...I have taught my 15 yr old daughter everything about safe sex But, she is now pregnant herself...12 weeks. Dajui Vou... But, I truly believe that everything happens for a reason...I have been through it all and I wanted better for my daughter, however we have to except what comes our way and do the best we can... As for telling your mother, you can always do what I did...tell her that you don't feel good and get her to take you to the doctor...then let the doctor tell her...and then you have someone there with you...if you have any questions, feel free to contact me at [email protected] ↑ |
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