I am having my first baby. I have already lost a baby a little over a year ago. and had a close call with this one. but for the last couple months everything is going great. still lots of worrying, should i be? ↓
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You alomost past the point where your baby can live out of the uterus if need be but you are doing pretty good if you made it to 22weeks. im 23 so thats cool hehe. Worrying is part of being a mommy just dont make yourself sick over it ↑ |
I'm getting better about it. for the first couple months i had nothing but nightmares about my last pregnancy and it happening again. every trip to the bathroom is one of those things where i'm like ok? is everything good? alright! ↑ |
Im lucky to have never experienced that but it doesnt make it any easier lol but now im alot more calm than with my daughter since I kinda know what to expect. Im due one week before you about so thats fun maybe we will have them the same time lol ↑ |
i'm really hoping for a halloween baby. i think that would be great. that would be 3 in our family then. ↑ |
Hehe my baby is due the 21st so im hoping he wont wait till Halloween. Do you know what your baby is yet? ↑ |
i actually find out on the 6th of july. i can't wait. then i know what i can buy. i'm due on nov 3rd so i have a really good shot of hittin the 31st ↑ |
Oh yea thats good hehe. What are you hoping for? When you buy stuff keep reciepts and tags incase the ultraound is wrong hehe ↑ |
I don't really know what i want. Both i guess. My husband wants a boy. infact he's certain that's what i'm having. that's what i thought from my first ultrasound. i couldn't tell of course but that's all i could think. ↑ |
Are you big for your amount of weeks?
Cause with my daughter I wasnt big at all but this baby wow im sticking out there and everyone says boys carry to the front so you look bigger ↑ |
oh ya i look huge. i had a guy ask if i was having twins. everything i'm gaining is all in front. from behind i look normal. ↑ |
Hehe maybe its a boy then cause that has been my experience so far. lol We will see you have to let me know haha ↑ |
Ya forsure. i can't wait till i get to go and find out. i go the day after my birthday. so it's my baby's gift to me. lol ↑ |
I see my doc every 2 weeks cause my son is breech and they want to see if he is gonna turn or not so my next appointment is the 7th ↑ |
i wish that i could go for ultrasounds more often. i'm always so worried when i don't feel kicking during some of the day. i swear i need to have a machine hooked up to me 24-7 just so i know that everything is going right. i know that it is. but i just want that extra reassurance all the time. ↑ |
When you want to feel your baby for reassurance drink cold water and eat a lil food and lye on your left side the baby will move almost everytime my doc told me that and it actually works ↑ |
are you serious? that's awesome. i'm so going to try that. ↑ |
lol Well I have to go till tomorrow my bf is home so I will talk to you then leave me messages and I will get Back to ya ↑ |
i have had three babies that i lost, two pregnancies...twins in one... and in this pregnancy i worried, ALOT..i feel like i am finally able to breath..i'm now 27 weeks along...i'm startign relax now..but worrying in normal..its not necessarily good for the baby b/c it can stress him/her out..but it is VERY normal..as long as your not having panic attacks because your worrying so much or anything like that i'm sure your ok ↑ |
I'm almost 23 weeks and just spent the last couple days going from hospital to hospital. i started bleeding again. i get to go and see my doctor today finally and find out what's going on. and make sure my baby is ok. i'm so tired of this. i just want my baby to be ok. ↑ |
was back at the doctor yesterday. and guess what!? from all the doctors pocking at my over the last 4 days. they gave me a really good infection. ain't life grand. :P Happy 22nd Birthday to me! lol ↑ |
lol Stupid docs. How are you doing and your baby? Hope all is good and Happy B day to u ↑ |
right now he said the baby is doing great. which i couldn't be happier about. but i am off work and am suppose to just take it eazy. not a problem. i am willing to do anything to make sure my baby is ok. and tomorrow i get to find out what i'm having!!! i'm so excited. this is like the best thing that has ever happened to me. ↑ |
I know I love it when you get to see your baby on the ultrasound and its even better when you get to see what sex he/she is I was so excited yet nervous at the sam time with this one and its my second lol ↑ |
i just think it's crazy that after tomorrow i can stop saying "oh he kicked. or she" lol but i should get going. it's gettin close to lunch time. talk to you tomorrow when i know what i'm having ! ↑ |
You are right, EVERYDAY IS A MIRACLE, and that is why I chose the name miracle forever when I created my journal. I worried EVERY FREAKIN' DAY up until my blessed daughter came into the world. I also lost a baby in the past, so my pregnancy was like riding on a rollercoaster (as far as my worrying). No one knew I worried, but that's just the way it was.
When she was born I worried about her breathing (the first few weeks) because infants make such strange noises, but I worried more during the pregnancy. As a matter of fact, I kept my pregnancy confidential until I knew she was here. I didn't show much, so most people never even knew. Hell, some family members just found out a few weeks ago :)
Although you'll worry just continue to pray consistently, and in a few weeks start drinking sweet juice in order to get your baby to move. I'm suggesting that because all babies aren't real active.....mine wasn't, and that also made me wonder if she was breathing. Purchase a fetal monitor too, so that you can listen to her (or his) heartbeat, hiccups, and other movements.
I wish you and the baby a very healthy delivery :)
Renee ↑ |
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