first of all...congratulations. im also due in feb. when you say that your not married, do you have a boyfriend? why wouldnt the babys father also help? i dont work, im only 18 but i live with my fiance. i dont ever get to see him because he works long hours and weekends and when he gets home from work i go to college. im going to back to school after the baby is born. my classes dont start till 6 and he gets off at 6, so hell be here just in time for me to get to school. you cant rotate someones schedule with yours? like your babys father? this is his child too, he has to step up somewhere. how long are you taking leave for work? you pay all the bills by yourself? how is that on you normally? ↑ |