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Im Pregnant and want to keep the baby but my boyfriend wants me to get a abortion. and told me if I Keep the baby he don't want nothing to do with me or the baby. ↓
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| Name: Gabi | Date: Dec 28th, 2005 5:11 AM |
| Name: Allyson | Date: Dec 28th, 2005 5:13 AM |
| if you want to keep the baby and you can make it on ur won with out the father then don't get an abortion! its up to you not him... you can always get him for child support if you want/need to. singel moms are great ! just do your best and everything will be fine! good luck! ↑ |
| Name: heather | Date: Dec 28th, 2005 5:24 PM |
| screw him..im tired of hearing how all of you honestly CARE what guys like that think. Hes not worth it...he made that baby, obviously putting fun before priority since hes acting like that. its just stupid. they will never feel what you feel for that baby anyhow, i would rather lose a guy than my child. ↑ |
| Name: GigiDawn | Date: Dec 28th, 2005 5:43 PM |
| Don't get an abortion if it is not what you want! To be honest with you, it sounds like this guy is not going to be your life long partner no matter what you do. Someone who is supposed to love you would not give you an ultimatum like that. Be glad when he is gone from your life. You have another priority right now and forever. Get involved in a support group. Involve your family and friends. You won't be the first single mom, and you won't be the last. This "boyfriend" won't be the last man in your life either. ↑ |
| Name: heather | Date: Dec 28th, 2005 8:35 PM |
| GigiDawn is a little straight forward but its the truth. what she just said basically said everything. you may love him and think he'll be the last but trust me...you will find new people. I had a bf for 3 long years and now im engaged to a guy ive known for 11 months. That 3 years is nothing compared to what me and my fiance have. There are other people around you that can help you out. Your parents may not be to happy but they arent going to let you suffer. ↑ |
| Name: to rain | Date: Dec 29th, 2005 7:36 PM |
| sounds to me like you need to get rid of that bf then. That baby is innocent and didint ask to be created. You dont need him anyways, there will be plenty of good guys that will come your way and want to help you raise your baby. ↑ |
| Name: Other Heather LOL | Date: Dec 29th, 2005 9:07 PM |
Yeah you should tell him that he should of thought about that before he got you pregnant and that abortions are not forms of birth control.
Also I was with my ex boyfriend for almost 3 years and he and I never had what me and my now fiancè have had in 1 year 1/2. You should abort your boyfriend and tell him to go find someone else to play around with and keep your child b/c they are the most wonderful things that a woman can have and some are unfortunate to not be able to have kids.
TAKE CARE AND I HOPE YOU DO WHAT IS BEST!! ↑ |
| Name: heather | Date: Dec 29th, 2005 9:49 PM |
| damn heather...we have too much in common...lol ↑ |
| Name: other heather | Date: Dec 30th, 2005 2:41 AM |
| but you all know its the truth----instead of aborting the innocent one abort the one who got you in the situation in the first place because it's not your baby's fault and he/she will love you no matter what as long as you are honest with him/her with who their father is they will give you unconditional love. ↑ |
| Name: Johnna | Date: Dec 31st, 2005 10:16 PM |
| hey rain! listen girl my boyfriend said the same thing, and my baby is now 1 years old! yes it will be hard to financially do it by yourself but girl if u go on what that horney no good irresponsible and dis-respectfull lozer of a boyfriend you got says, than you will regret it and have nightmares about it the rest of your life! this is your baby too, and right now it is in your body, you just tell him you want me to kill it than that is your issue not mine! dont sink to his level tell him to back off and NO! YOU WONT KILL THE LIFE INSIDE OF YOU THAT YOU BOTH CREATED NO MATTER IF HE IS GOING TO BE A GERK AND WALK AWAY OR NOT! THE BABY WASNT A MISTAKE THE ACT WAS BUT NOT THE LIFE! ↑ |
| Name: crystal | Date: Jan 3rd, 2006 6:47 PM |
| i am having the same problem so i kknow what you are going through iam 17 boyfriend 21 he said he wants to have an abortion but he want leave if i keep it umm dont let him stress you out sit down talk to him you both go through good and bads of having the baby it will help you deside to keep it or not yes it is a hard descion to make but what ever you too deside on will afeect you i would look at whatever is best for the baby if isnt going to be there for you then you need to deside hey can i take care of it can i get help if not i would have an abortion no i dont belive in it but u will have plenty of other chances good luck!!! best wishes email if u wnat [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Joni | Date: Jan 4th, 2006 10:32 PM |
| I would keep the baby and say you know what to him. My dad was like that with my mom and I don't miss him must be he's not Mr.right. So what did you decide to do? ↑ |
| Name: Tan | Date: Jan 4th, 2006 10:48 PM |
| I think if your boyfriend thinks that you should have an abortion you should let him go because ever child is an blessing and my boyfriend wanted to keep the baby i told him i wanted an abortion then he told me if i got one he didnt want to be with me so im keeping the baby and he is very suppotive so get rid of him he ant the one for you ↑ |
| Name: Jordan | Date: Jan 6th, 2006 4:04 PM |
| Keep your baby, no matter what he says, that child is a blessing and believe me even if nobody wants anything to do with that child, the Lord will watch over it as it is His will for your precious baby to be born. The Lord has a plan and a purpose for that babies life. Keep it and love and let that boy go! ↑ |
| Name: Kelly | Date: Jan 7th, 2006 3:44 AM |
| I definitely agree he is a loser. If he had any respect for you in the first place he would not put you in that position. That is a horrible position for anyone to have to be put in. Guess what either way he will have something to do with the baby if you enforce it. Keep your baby, or at least put him/her up for adoption. ↑ |
| Name: Kirsty Robinson | Date: Jan 9th, 2006 11:34 AM |
| I am in exactly the same position as Rain what do i do its so hard n my family dont help im not aborting my baby but i dont want 2 lose its father ↑ |
| Name: Ash | Date: Jan 9th, 2006 7:15 PM |
| If you feel that you won't be able to be responsible for this child, rather than having an abortion, put it up for adoption. There are hundreds of couples out there who would love to have a baby but can't. Give them the opportunity to give your child what you you think you'd never be able to. ↑ |
| Name: catgirl | Date: Jan 27th, 2006 2:50 AM |
| GET RID OF HIM ITS GONNA BE HARD BUT ITS FOR YOUR OWN GOOD ↑ |
| Name: Christina F | Date: Feb 2nd, 2006 8:46 PM |
| Hey sweetie, when I first found out I was pregnant, my boyfriend acted anything but happy. He wouldn't say anything really at all and he didn't want me telling anyone or anything. Finally when I asked him the problem, he said that we weren't prepared. Which we're not really. But you know what. I told him that I would have the baby with or without him. It takes two to make a baby and they know how to put on a condom. Luckily for me though he's changed his tune. But I can tell you something. If he didn't, he'd be gone!!! ↑ |
| Name: Liz | Date: Feb 3rd, 2006 7:36 AM |
| actually were in the right age to get married, were 23 years old but both of us are scared to tell our parents that i'm pregnant... we scared the reaction, all what they can say to us. pls help us, what should we do? Pls... here is my email address please mail me... [email protected] THANK YOU VERY MUCH! ↑ |
| Name: justine | Date: Feb 3rd, 2006 5:15 PM |
| i think that if you really want this baby well then keep it you dont need him if he truely loved you he would be there for you but dont have an abortion anything but that why would you want to kill your baby just bc he didnt want to have one then your going to have to live with this for the rest of your life and you wont be happy ↑ |
| Name: Philisiwe | Date: Feb 4th, 2006 8:08 AM |
| This helped a lot galz,im 6 weeks pregaz and dont know what 2 do.dont hav a playc 2 stay,horney bastard told me 2 abort or he wont b part of the baby's life.dont wana go 2 work,bath or 2 b wit people.just wana sleep and not wake up.my friendz r very supportive.scared 2 tel my mom who lives 900 miles away from me.dont hav a family in this state.ive fell inluv wit ma fetus&wana keep it.my job aint payin very well also woried bout rent when on maternity leave.dont bliv in abortion.thank u Americans 4 forums lyk this they really help people all over da globe.im in johanesburg south africa. ↑ |
| Name: peggy mom | Date: Feb 4th, 2006 8:26 AM |
| I am a teen mom that is 19 and I am going to tell you that I would say screw that, and well I know you love him and well you don't need that problems wile you are pregnant and I hate abortion. I hate it!!! I think you made a good dision ( I am a bad speller) and I was 17 when I was preggy with my first one and me and my hubby (boy friend at the time) said that his quote "if you are stupid enough to make it you should be stupid enough to keep it and take care of it"!!! ↑ |
| Name: annoyed | Date: Feb 4th, 2006 12:25 PM |
| Why do you young girls refer to a baby as an :"it:"? A baby is not an it, this really annoys the crap out of me, and I only notice this with the younger mothers. Quote :"If you are stupid enough to make it then you are stupid enough to keep it:" That has to be one of the most iggnorant comments I have ever heard. A better way to put it may be if you were mature enough to have sex then you should make sure you are ready to become pregnant. It just shows the lack maturity in these girls that are just popping out babies left and right. ↑ |
| Name: Hannah | Date: Feb 4th, 2006 11:35 PM |
| Name: Ashley | Date: Feb 5th, 2006 12:26 AM |
| He's a loser and trust me you don't need him. I have a 3 1/2 year old girl and i broke up w/ her dad just before she was born and i was only 17 i now am w/ a man that love sme for me good luck ↑ |
| Name: bela | Date: Feb 5th, 2006 12:09 PM |
| i'm kinda of lost right now, i'm pregnat and i dont know whats gonna be my boyfriends reaction when i tell him i want to keep the baby....will he leave or stay? ↑ |
| Name: bela | Date: Feb 5th, 2006 12:10 PM |
| he wanted me to get an abortion but the doc said i couldnt cause i had 3 miscariges before......i'm scared now, i love him and i dont want to lose him ↑ |
| Name: rebekah | Date: Feb 5th, 2006 3:29 PM |
| hi i am 11 and i want a boy friend ↑ |
| Name: ashley | Date: Feb 5th, 2006 11:30 PM |
| hi rain, my name is ashley. Back in 2004 i was pregant and i started showing,my boyfriend at the time for the first 3 months was excited, but then realized we we're both toooo young ( both at 15 years old ) told me he wanted me to get rid of the baby and if i kept it i would be dealing with it on my own and he would NOT be there for me what so ever. Well i got really really stressed and went into a deep depresion and he broke up with me, i miscarried at 6 months and it was the most horrible feeling in the world. Keep the baby, who cares about what he thinks, i think you will be able to do it on your own and you will be a great mom, he might change his mind after he sees the baby but i would not get an abortion because its just wrong. good luck and let me know how things go you can email me if you want [email protected] i will be more than glad to talk to you !! ↑ |
| Name: ANGELA_N | Date: Feb 13th, 2006 7:42 PM |
| DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO! IF HE IS TALKING TO YOU LIKE THAT DO YOU REALLY WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM, BESIDES HE COULD UP AND LEAVE YOU EVEN IF YOU HAVE THE ABORTION AND THEN YOU WILL HAVE TO LIVE WITH THE REGRET, IF YOU KEEP THE BABY IT WILL BE SOMETHING GOOD THAT HAS CAME OUT OF A BAD SITUATION. ↑ |
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