jill - i read your message in my post on should i leave and i wrote this to coart when she had a topic about suicide. you know i didnt mean what i said or i would hae never wrote this in the post.
Name: mizzescalante • Date: 08/07/2007 14:57:53
NOOOOO WAY. DONT THINK THAT WAY. YOU DONT WANT BRADEN GROWING UP WITHOUT YOU. BRADEN CHOSE YOU TO BE HIS MOMMY AND YOU NEED TO BE THERE FOR HIM. I KNOW YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A HARD TIME AND EVERYONE GOES THROUGH THAT AT SOME POINT BUT HANG IN THERE LIFE WILL WORK OUT I PROMISE.
coart and you should already know we were just upset but if you ment it that whatever.
dont know what else to say. ↓
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| Name: Opheiliamath | Date: Aug 29th, 2007 6:27 PM |
I thought your name was deleted?
Why is it in red now? ↑ |
| Name: Brandiss | Date: Aug 29th, 2007 6:30 PM |
| BECAUSE IT WAS THE MIZZESCALANTE NAME THAT GOT DELETED. AND THE REASON I HAVE A MEMBER NAME NOW IS BECAUSE INSTEAD OF JUST MAKING TOPIC AFTER TOPIC I JUST MADE A NEW NAME SO I CAN POST IN A TOPIC. WHEN YOU ARE NOT A MEMEBER YOU CAN ONLY MAKE TOPICS. I WANT TO GET IN A TOPIC AND POST. ↑ |
| Name: Opheiliamath | Date: Aug 29th, 2007 6:31 PM |
Ohhhhhh
I really don't don't know what went on, execept what i was told, but clearing the air is a good start.
Good luck! ↑ |
| Name: Brandiss | Date: Aug 29th, 2007 6:33 PM |
| I AM JUST MAKING PEACE AND LEAVING AGAIN. ↑ |
| Name: Brandiss | Date: Aug 29th, 2007 7:16 PM |
| THEY ALSO SAID I WAS BEING ACCUSED OF COMMING BACK UNDER ANOTHER USER AND THAT IS 100% NOT TRUE. ↑ |
| Name: jillw | Date: Aug 30th, 2007 1:58 AM |
| brandiss I know that you said it out of anger. Emotions were high. Like I said I don;t think that it is cool, but it is forgivable. I am sure that you and coart may never get allong, but you are both mature to just not post in the others topics. Infact I think that most of the regular girls here are woman enough to say what needs to be said and then let it go. I don;t see a reason for anyone to leave, but I would hope to see more respect even when our feelings are hurt or we think that someone is being a lier. I'm not upset with you brandiss I understand how the entire thing got out of control. Coart said some mean stuff too, but I still love her to death. I know that she is not an evil person who wishes harm on people and I know that you are not like that either. ↑ |
| Name: Randi | Date: Aug 30th, 2007 2:45 AM |
I don't think anyone accused you of coming under a fake username... Someone posted as ME named ILoveBananas or something like that. I couldn't figure out who it was, but then realized I had posted pretty well everything that was written to Coart under that name in SAHMs... probably the same person who is that winniebear.
I never responded to your should I leave post. I couldn't think of anything to say. I don't hate you. It is true that most of us are better friends with Coartney and you have to understand we are defensive when things are said against them. I don't have a problem with you UNTIL you say things without thinking. You run on emotion and that can make you hard to deal with and get close to. I know this post wasn't mean for me, but I had to say that. If you stay, I wouldn't have a problem with it, but we all have to be honest and respectful. Reread what you write before you post it. You asked me in the other post why no one attacks me when I post about Kaden. It is simply because I do not exaggerate about his accomplishments. If he isn't doing something, or he has only done something one or two times, I don't come post about it. It's all about how you approach things. ↑ |
| Name: Randi | Date: Aug 30th, 2007 2:46 AM |
| *I didn't post under that name in SAHMs... I posted almost exactly what was written under the banana name in SAHM under my own name. It was basically copied. ↑ |
| Name: Brandiss | Date: Aug 30th, 2007 8:28 PM |
LAUREN DID ROSEY :)
Name: zoey9810 • Date: 08/28/2007 22:52:05
is prob Brandiss haha ↑ |
| Name: Brandiss | Date: Aug 30th, 2007 8:29 PM |
| Name: Brandiss | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 1:57 PM |
| OOOPS I MENT RANDI. GGGEEEZE LAUREN LIKE YOU NEVER MADE A MISTAKE WITH A NAME]]]. I WASNT BEING RUDE WHEN I TYPED THAT EITHER RANDI SAID NO ONE ACUSED ME OF USING A FAKE NAME WHEN YOU DID. ALL I WAS DOING WAS SHOWING RANDI SOMEONE DID AND IT WAS YOU. GEEEZE..... ↑ |
| Name: Brandiss | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 1:58 PM |
| AND COARTNEY I DIDNT BAD TASTE U SO I DIDNT GET YOU KICKED OFF THIS BOARD. WE BOTH GOT KICKED OFF FOR WRITING WHAT WE DID SO IT WASNT ME. ↑ |
| Name: Brandiss | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 1:59 PM |
| AND MALLORY IF YOU HATED ME SO MUCH WHY IN THE HELL DID YOU SEND ME A PIC OF EVELYN? ↑ |
| Name: FatallyYours | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 2:22 PM |
| wah wah wah but shes not done taking everything back n making up excuses yet so ppl dont not like her .. lol how old r u? 15 right? ↑ |
| Name: Randi | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 2:22 PM |
Brandiss, I never said NO ONE accused you. I said I didn't think anyone had. I read Laurens comment when it was posted and I personally thought she was joking. I even laughed... a little.
You said someone told you that you were being accused of coming on as a fake. I had heard nothing about that. ↑ |
| Name: FatallyYours | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 2:24 PM |
| no one did bc no one talks to her she is the one who messaged lauren saying pwease dont hate me, i like you .. boohoo ↑ |
| Name: Brandiss | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 2:31 PM |
RANDI IN THE OTHER POST I SAID I HAD SOMEONE ON MYSPACE MESSAGE ME SAYING THAT I WAS COMMING ON HERE WITH A FAKE NAME AND THEN I SEE THAT LAUREN SAID THAT IT WAS PROBABLY ME AND THAT IS WHAT I WAS TRYING TO POINT OUT AND I AM NOT TRYING TO BE RUDE ABOUT IT.
I THINK I HAVE A SAY SO WHEN PEOPLE WRITE TO ME SO THIS IS WHY I AM WRITING BACK NOT BECAUSE I CANT LET IT GO BUT WHEN SOMEONE DIRECTS A POST TO ME I WILL WRITE BACK. ↑ |
| Name: Brandiss | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 2:34 PM |
and when did i write lauren boohooing all i wrote her was that chris is in my prayers why he is iraq actually this is the message i sent her.
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Subject: bye
Body: bye lauren i really liked you but i guess you dont feel the same. haved a great life and may god bless your family and my prayers are chris while he is there. bye ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 3:26 PM |
| brandiss what about all the other messages you have sent me about you leaving that one wasnt the first ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 3:31 PM |
Jun 11, 2007 2:21 PM
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Subject: i just wanted to say
Body: i am sorry if i pissed you off the other day. seriously i am not like that and i am not a rude person. i know i caused alot of the girls on babycrowd to get upset with me friday and that other day in my phentermine post but i really didnt mean it the way it was said. i never called anyone a bad mother nor said i was better than anyone esle. i wish i could go back and take it all back. i hate that i made alot of girls feel like they were bad mothers because they are not. i probably will not return to the forum because of this but i just wanted to leave by saying sorry. i want to say sorry to the rest of the girls but i know it will not make a difference at all so i will just not say anything at all. i dont know what came over me that day i could say its my birth controll and my hormones being screwy from it but i dont want to make excuses. well if you would like to keep me on your myspace thats cool if not i understand. tyler is a cutie and you have a beautiful family. may god bless you and your family.
brandiss - mizzescalante on babycrown ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 3:32 PM |
Date: Jun 12, 2007 7:29 AM
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Subject: RE: RE: i just wanted to say
Body: well all i was trying to say was that i have responsibilities at home like my sons school and homework and my daughter that i really dont get to get out to do anything to help loose any of my weight. "i" was the main word. if i ment it towards coartney i would have asked her "dont “you” have more responsibilities at home" but i didnt. but i see where it sounded bad. i know i also said alot of things after that, but all that is my opinion and how i live my life and i dont expect anyone to think that i am a perfect mother and this is what a mother should do and if you dont your a horrible mother. in my world my children are the most important thing, i dont want to miss anything. i hate the fact i have to work because i am not with my daughter and son this summer. i would do anything to stay home with them. when i wake up in the morning and i go to my sons room and he is there asleep i just smile because he is my world, i walk into my daughters room and she is sleeping and i just look at her and smile becuase she is my world also, everytime they smile at me i just melt because these are my babies they depend on me and dino for everything.
i am not saying that no one else feels this way because they decide to go out for the night i just hope anyone that does is responsible and know they have a lil one waiting at home for there mothers safe return. my life has changed since i had children and i dont ponder about the things i use to do because i dont desire that anymore. i am 100% happy at home with my children and husband that i dont need anything else. call me close minded and sheltered but i am happy at home. now me and dino have went out since xylea but like to dinner like at 5:00pm and we went to go and get her like at 8:00pm and only when my parents have braylan.
(my parents take braylan everyother weekend and every wednesday because of a deal we made when braylan was born to not have this father there) we are going to go to the movies tomorrow but not if the show is late because we are taking braylan. dino, braylan and i can not function with less than 9 hours of sleep.
call me a bad mother for always wanting to be with my children because it probably is but i can not help it i am addicted to my children and i hate every second i am not with them. i guess deep inside the reason is because i dont want anything bad to happen to them and if it did i want to be right there to take care of them. i always get this bad feeling that something bad is going to happen when iam not there that i would honestly hate myself if it did. i remember one time when braylan was like 8 months i went out with some close friends for dinner and i remember buying a new outfit that day and i swear doing my make up and hair for like 2 hours and when i walked down the hall in my parents house i went to kiss him on his forehead he was warm. i got the thermometer and he has a 99.9 fever. now thats not considered a fever but its borderline and i just remember turning around and going into the bathroom and taking my hair down and changing cloths washing my face and forgetting about that night. i stayed home because i would have hated myself for leaving him with my parents while he was sick. i would have not enjoyed my night out at all. what took me almost 3 hours to do took only 5 min to undo. and i was not upset at all.
i remember a while back there was this girl that had 5 children the oldest was 14 and the youngest was like 10 months. she left her eldest child in charge of the children and all the children were in bed at a reasonable time. she went to a bar here where i live and when she came home her house was burned down and all her children were killed. something happend in the laundry room and by the time the kids saw fire the carbon monoxide poisen killed them. i dont know what different would have happend if she would have stayed home she may have died also but i think of that story and cry. i think what if that was my children and i cry.
all in all i just want to be there for my children i want to be there to protect them because you and only you have the motherly instinct for your children. i honestly dont think i could enjoy a night out with hubby or friends because i would not enjoy myself thinking about my children the whole night. sometimes when my parents have braylan i cant sleep at all. even though he is 5 min away i can not sleep or i get sad during the day. this year at school was the first time i let braylan go on a field trip to a barn yard 1 1/2 hours away from victoria. i was nervous the whole day and i kept telling dino that i feel like the bus is going to crash and he told me to let him grow up and let him go and do the things he wants. i tell you what the motherly instinct kicked in becuse i knew something bad was going to happen the first time i let him go somewhere without me or my parents and sure enough on there way back someone ran into his bus and busted out some windows and he cried for me and i couldnt be there for him. he said alot of the kids cried for there parents and there was nothing we could do. i hate being so protect over my children but if he would have gotten seriously hurt in that wreck i could have never forgave myself. reason was because i felt something was going to happen and i still let him go.
well i have to get to work i kinda got caught up in this but i just want you to understand me and know where i am comming from when this is how i live my life and if i have a opinion that this is my opinion and anyone has the right to comment on it, but not put down my way of life. :) (-no mean or rude comments in this email nor did i say any sentence in a rude - i hope you dont take it that way-).
thanks for keeping me on your myspace your a sweet girl and really when i was talking on babycrowd i had no idea you were zoey because i would have not acted that way towards you. i shouldnt have done it to any of the girls but what is done is done and i am glad you dont hate me for it. well gotta get to work.
brandiss ↑ |
| Name: Opheiliamath | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 3:41 PM |
| I would also like to add when i first joined the forum, i remember a post Brandiss put up about leaving the forum....so yea, not the first time. ↑ |
| Name: Brandiss | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 3:44 PM |
| LAUREN I DO LIKE YOU BUT I DID NOT BOOHOO TO YOU TO STAY MY FRIEND I JUST TOLD YOU IF YOU WANT TO STAY ON MY MYSPACE THATS GREAT IF NOT I UNDERSTAND. ↑ |
| Name: Brandiss | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 3:46 PM |
| YANICA WHAT IS YOUR PROB WITH ME NOW? ↑ |
| Name: Opheiliamath | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 4:00 PM |
*It's Yanick* I don’t take it personally, I get that you’re not good with names.
Others were remembering times where you wanted to leave; I just thought I’ll add my two cents.
I honestly don't have a problem with you.
I'm just skeptical of your motives for being on here, that's all.
I judge people on their character, and yours is Iffy. ↑ |
| Name: Brandiss | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 4:14 PM |
SORRY I AM NOT GOOD WITH UNIQUE NAMES LIKE SOMETIMES PEOPLE MISPELL MY NAME ALSO.
AND MY MOTIVES WHAT DO YOU MEAN. I AM HERE TO TALK. ↑ |
| Name: Opheiliamath | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 4:33 PM |
I think your motive is to just get atttention. I think you thrive on being right and you just can't let things die or let it go.
When you support someone its an ALL the time thing. You just can't be supportive when you feel like it and a total B the next, and threw stuff in their face. Its not right, then you backtrack and try to make it up.
I think you're fake.
Being nice to their face and slapping them the next. That's not cool at all.
I TOTALLY understand having a bad, but with you it seems like its a pattern. Its you ARE, not who you were for that day. ↑ |
| Name: Opheiliamath | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 4:35 PM |
*PS*
I would just like to add, i honestly do not have a problem with you. All i know is that i need to watch out for you. ↑ |
| Name: Brandiss | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 4:48 PM |
| lauren i did take responsibilities but saying sorry for what i did how else do i do it. i thought saying sorry ment you were wrong. and yes i agree i want it to stop also. ↑ |
| Name: Brandiss | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 4:55 PM |
| yanick i am not here for attention i can get that at home. and yes ask my fiancee i fight to death because i always think i am right thats just me. i need to work on that yes because i am not 100% perfect nor right and i need to realize that. and i hear ya about being supportive of someone and it shouldn be just part time. i do care about cortney and the things she has went through in her life i see alot of what has happend to her and i feel for her. i have been through alot too and i guess its just something called "past agression" and you can change at a drop of a second. my fiancee even agrees i am that way and mabye i am bipolar i dont know but i am trying to work on it. i did say mean things to coartney and i am sorry i hate that i said thoes things becuase i trully did not mean them at all. as you can see in the letters i wrote lauren i never mean things the way other people take it. i dont explain myself 100% and people take it the wrong way and when i try to explain what i ment everyone gets thrown in a 360 not understanding. i am sorry if i come off fake to you but i am not. ↑ |
| Name: mallory | Date: Aug 31st, 2007 7:50 PM |
| i sent you that pic of evelyn BEFORE you called me immature ↑ |
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