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Name: AivenorBB?

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Well if you read the other post, my best friend found out she was pregnant and due three weeks after me. I was so excited at first, and I'm going to move up to ohio to be with her(that was already planned). Now the only thing that worries me a bit, is we have always been frienemies. I love her to death, but we have fought over a guy b4 who is the father of her baby. Now we have long since made up, but now im kind of hurt and scared. I dunno. I'm so happy for her and excited, but the father is my ex, and with my placental abruption, im terrified that something unthinkable may happen. I try not to think about it, cuz deep down in my heart of hearts i know this baby will make it, but what if it doesn't and she gets everything I want. She got the guy, and what if she gets a baby and I lose mine? I don't know. This is conofusing. I know it sounds like a soap opera but i just had to get it off my chest. ↓

Name: April Sue | Date: Apr 20th, 2007 3:01 AM

I really hope that life wouldn't be so cruel as to do that to you. Sounds like you're already planning to move. I say go through with it and hope that everything works out. Or wait till you're a little further along before moving that way you are more assured of a healthy and happy pregnancy.

My best friend started ttc the same time as me and she already has her baby and I'm still ttc. It is hard to deal with and I have another friend who recently started ttc. I wish her all the best but I will be crushed if she concieves before me. Selfish, yes, but that is how I feel. ↑

Name: missheather | Date: Apr 20th, 2007 3:11 AM

I understand how you feel. I think anyone would be going through those same emotions. I hope everything works out for you.
April Sue, I'm sorry you are still ttc after going through your friend's pregnancy. That must have been hard. I know someone who has been wanting kids for years and I showed up pregnant a year after getting married. I almost didn't want to talk to her about the baby because I felt bad and knew if must be hard for her. Keep trying, you'll get your turn. ↑

Name: AivenorBB? | Date: Apr 20th, 2007 3:14 AM

Yeah April, you will have your baby. I hope sooner rather than later. I know it will work out the way it is meant to. ↑

Name: Lola | Date: Apr 20th, 2007 3:36 PM

Put the past behind ya.

It's nice to have a bump buddy :) ↑