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Name: Ayame

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I am utterly disgusted with a few people! What the hell do you have to go about using swears and insults! Dear god, some of you need to take a chill pill and calm the heck DOWN. Ladies, do I need to tell you to grow up? Come on, we can be mature here! ↓

Name: Meagan | Date: Oct 25th, 2006 7:25 AM

where is all the swears and insults? ↑

Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Oct 25th, 2006 7:26 AM

Oh apparently it is no better in this crowd as it is in the SAHM crowd. ↑

Name: Meagan | Date: Oct 25th, 2006 7:32 AM

i think you will find that you get it in every forum! It will always be like it ↑

Name: Ayame | Date: Oct 25th, 2006 7:37 AM

It's disgusting! there is no need for it, we are grown up, we can act calmly and accordingly, so I don't understand why it is needed, a bit sad, isn't it.. ↑

Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Oct 25th, 2006 7:41 AM

I will say what I said in the SAHM crowd in case anyone who is doing the belittling to come into this topic.

I feel that as soon you start to name call and belittle someone the topic is nolonger a debate but a fight. There is no use in continue the conversation because no one is listening anymore. You have already lost trying to get your point acrossed. Children resort to name calling and putting down one another because they have nothing else to say. So leave the belittling and the name calling to the children. ↑

Name: Meagan | Date: Oct 25th, 2006 7:46 AM

I think that its hard to back away from it all really! There is a point that you want to prove and feel that you cant give it up until you have proved it! ↑

Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Oct 25th, 2006 7:57 AM

But at the same time there is a point where you have to tell yourself it doesn't pay to continue because it is obviouse that the other person is never going to get it because they simply do not want to open themselves up to the possibility that you may have a point. Doesn't mean that either one of you are wrong. You can not have a good debate if neither side is willing to be open to what the other side is saying. If we go into these conversation not willing to be open to others opinions with the possibilty of knowing we may change how we feel on the topic or we may come up feeling strong about the topic then we did going in, then the conversation is just a car reck waiting to happen. ↑

Name: Ayame | Date: Oct 25th, 2006 8:25 AM

I definitely agree with you EthansMom0213. At the point where you use insults, you aren't debating, but it's a fight. It's no point. You should be calm, and if you use insults in a debate, it just shows you cannot think of anything better to say, and frankly, that's sad. ↑