| This is my 2nd and I worry every second that something is wrong. ↑ |
| I think you are worring way too much, relax and enjoy your pregnancy.. this is 2nd time around for me to, and I was worried and uptight the first few months.... but then I realized that baby is growing good and appears to be healthy and I feel much better. ↑ |
| thanks guys. I try and tell myself not to worry but its easier said than done expecially when you then have a dream that knocks you for the rest of the day ↑ |
| I am having my 3rd also and I am just like you I worry myself sick about this one. I think somehow we thing deep down everything was good the first 2 times so this must be the one bad time. ↑ |
| I have my 20 wk Us on nov 10 I will be 21 weeks then. I know that most people are looking forward to finding out what they are having, but I am so scared. I just want them to tell me that the spine is good heart lungs and kidneys are good brain and hear are good basically your baby is fine. Maybe then I will stop being so worried. I am almost afraid to look at the screan. It give me butterflys jsut thinking about it ↑ |
| me too im on my third child as well my youngest has autisum so i worry about that and any cramping i get i worry i am having a misscarage (but its only gas lol) its normal to worry about your unborn child u just want the best im only 25 and by the time i have this baby i will have grey hair ↑ |
| this is my first and I worry all the time if my baby is going to be healthy.. I lost a baby lastyear and was told I couldnt have kids... as for the Dreams I was told its call prego dreams.. I have weird dreams as well but i cant ever remember Mine LOL... Im sure everything will be fine Love ↑ |
Ya know, I hate what doctors do to women of what they call "advanced maternal age". I was 34 and would only be 35 for the last month and a half of my pregancy. All it did was make me worry sick and unfortunately, it ended in a mc at almost 11 weeks. I'm not sure what I plan on doing if I get pregnant agian.
You really have to dig deep within yourself and ask, will these tests make a difference if I know about my baby's health? Would it cause you to terminate or just worry more? Or would it put your mind at ease? I wish I could help you better, but odds are, your baby will be fine. You're not old and you're not paranoid. Try not to worry and enjoy your pregnancy. And Congrats!!! ↑ |
| thank you so much for all your helpful advice. Its so reassuring to know its not just me. If any tests did come back bad news I know I wouldn't terminate so I don't know if I even should have the blood tests. Will they make me worry more or less? ↑ |
| cath--- I choose not to do the test because the is upwards of a 88% false positive rate. Then you get an US then an amino and that can cause a M/C. We are jsut going to do the US and if there are abnormalities then we will go from there, but chances of a false pos were jsut too high of me and I know I would be so worried ↑ |
| is that a false reading for the blood tests that I've been offered at 16 weeks. Did you refuse all the tests then or just the downs test? ↑ |
| sorry I'm sounding dumb now. I've just read up on the test and their all together aren't they. It's just my pregnancy brain lol. ↑ |
