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Name: twincrazy

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So I'm 19 weeks preggo with twins and I feel completely overwhelmed. I feel like I should be happier then I am about being pregnant. I put on a good face, but I am completely petrified!!!! What if I'm not a good mother, what if I don't love them enough? My doubts keep growing and grwoing, and I don't know how to resolve them. ↓

Name: DRB | Date: Apr 20th, 2008 7:58 PM

all mom have those fears even ones who only have one baby.... ↑

Name: Lola | Date: Apr 20th, 2008 8:00 PM

You shouldn't worry.
You'll be a good mother if you want to be.
You don't have to know everything, just have the desire to do right by them.
:) ↑

Name: twincrazy | Date: Apr 21st, 2008 1:18 AM

For those who have twins, how do you budget for them? It seems like it is so much more costly with two. What are items that I really do not need?
When do I get over this feeling of drowning? ↑

Name: DRB | Date: Apr 21st, 2008 1:47 AM

you dont need a diaper geni....you do need diapers...lol ↑

Name: briseis | Date: Apr 21st, 2008 8:48 AM

Completely natural feelings. And remember you have another 20 weeks or so to get used to the idea of being a mother and preparing for your twins. x ↑

Name: cjsims | Date: Apr 22nd, 2008 7:26 PM

Hey there twin crazy, I don't have twins, but I can tell you that you will be just fine. Jon and Kate plus 8 do it with a set of 7 yr old twins, and a set of 3 year old sextuplets. Have you seen that show? Well, either way, you may be exhausted at times, and the house may become a pit, but you will be just fine. GOOD LUCK. ↑