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Name: Mo0906

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So i am 22 years old having my first child. I am due march 30th and i am going crazy. I am so emotionally up and down that i dont know what is true and what is just me over reacting. My boyfriend and i were always out together before the pregnancy, i think he may be cheating on me now. He is a bartender and would normally come home when he closed around 11 now he isnt coming home until 1 or 2. I know this is bad but i snooped through his phone and found messages from a girl asking him to meet up for drinks. there was a couple texts from this girl. Also he stopped having sex with me. I know that it isnt easy to have sex now that i am much larger then before but he barely touches me. on top of all this he is not saving any money for our son. I have opened several accounts and have put away money out of my check every week. He is spending his money on football jersey's and $185 hockey skates alcohol and pull tabs. I cry myself to sleep about 4 nights a week which i'm afraid is going to hurt my baby. How do i address this. I would normally just leave him but i am in love and want to start our family together. is there anything to all of this or is it just me being crazy??? HELP PLEASE ↓

Name: Elizabeth28 | Date: Jan 18th, 2010 6:08 PM

Mo0906,
I am sorry to hear that you are having to go through this. Well, for starters, what I would do, is address him and ask him straight up, is he seeing someone. Depending on what he tells you, I would go from there, but I personally would never stay with anyone that cheats, espesially when you are pregnant. If he is cheating, nomatter how much you love him, he is not being reliable, faithfull, or responsible for that matter. I know that it is hard to even amagine not being with someone that you love, but you have to look at it this way, would you rather be with someone that makes you cry yourself to sleep every night, someone that you can't trust, or really hurt for a short while, and get on with a happier life with your baby.
I wish you the best of luck, and I am so sorry, I hope that your suspitions are all wrong. ↑