Sorry you havnt had any advice yet sweetie. I think this is one of those topics that everyone goes... gosh I dont know. So I really dont know either. It depends on your relationship with your mom I guess. Just be very calm yet to the point. Do you want to keep the baby? Is dad around? are you still in school? These are all things that she is going to be asking, be ready. Let her know that these are your concerns as well. And just remember 1. you are her baby and the last thing a mother wants is for her child to be in any pain, sadness, or crisis. She will be upset I am sure but she will get over. At least most moms will, even the maddest!
2. Just be honest with her... it really will be the best in the long run. ↑ |
are you with the father? if so, did you tell him already? if you are with him it will be easier to tell her, i'm 20 and found out i was pregnant in april, i was 19 at the time. i just came out and said "your going to be a grandmother" then i cried. ↑ |