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Name: Marlene
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I was wondering how she was and if she had went back to the doc i been thinking of her alot and worried at the same time if anyone hears from her let me know how she is please!!!!
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Name: jillw | Date: Oct 17th, 2006 6:46 PM
No I sent a message asking if she had an update because I have been thinking about her, but I have not seen anything. I am worried about her too. I hope that everything is ok with her. 

Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Oct 17th, 2006 6:50 PM
Didn't she have an appointment yesterday for another ultrasound? 

Name: mommyagain | Date: Oct 17th, 2006 7:04 PM
I was thinking about her too. I sure hope everything turned out ok. 

Name: mom to many | Date: Oct 18th, 2006 1:15 PM
Hi everyone, Well I went back to my Midwife on Monday which was a total waste of time....I had my blood drawn to check HCG levels and I have to call this morning for the results. As far as the ultrasound went...She had told me she is not certified to do them but she would do it for me and try to see what she could, well it turns out she did even know what she was looking at. She first had trouble locating my uterus and when she did she could only see a section of it on the screen. What we first saw was part of my uterus and it was completely empty...that's obviously impossible because there was a baby before and i haven't miscarried yet , so it can't just dissappear. she kept on looking and found some scattered white dots and I asked "what is that?" and she said well it could be the babay all broken down ??? I just thought to myself "ok she has no idea what she's looking at" she kept looking and then found some more white dots more clustered together but it had no shape what so ever. So then she said "well that looks like the fetal pole" and i'm thinking "hmmm, how can it revert back to a fetal pole when a week ago it was a full baby? " I asked another midwife her opinion on that and she said it's simply not possible....after she told me it looked like a fetal pole she kept looking and then said "oh wait...there is the head" I was able to see the head it was round and you could see where the baby's eyes were, but she couldn't get anything below the neck into view, I guess because of her inexperience with ultrasounds..she was having a really hard time with it. I didn't know that she bought the birth center and the ultrasound machine was already there and that she's only used it a handfull of times. Had I know that, I wouldn't have wasted my time. to finish telling you what happened she said she saw some motion in the sack but it may not be fetal movement, it could just be amniotic fluid movement...again it leaves me wondering. Finally she said to me " I haven't showed you anything convincing have I ?" I told her "Sorry, i don't mean to be rude , but this really didn't show anything" not to mention she changed what she thought she was looking at 3 times???? So neddless to say i walked out of there just as clueless as when I walked in, so i have an appointment scheduled with an OBGYN at 2:30 today. Maybe today i will finally find out what is going on with me. i'm starting to get really frustrated and I feel like this is torture. I just want to say thanks for all your support and please keep me in your prayers today! 

Name: jillw | Date: Oct 18th, 2006 1:31 PM
Oh I am so very sorry to hear that. there is nothing worse then feeling like you know more than the person you are paying to take care of you. I hope all is well when you go to the appt today. Please let us know we have been worried about you. Have you had any other symptoms of a M/C ?? 

Name: mom to many | Date: Oct 18th, 2006 2:37 PM
jillw-
I still have not had any symptoms of miscarriage. I just found out that my HCG levels were 49,425 and the my midwife said that they are highly elevated and definitely not indicating miscarriage at this point but I will have to do a repeat today to see if they continue to increase or not. I have decided to put all of this in god's hands and it is truely the only thing that is letting me feel at peace right now. i will try to leave an update later after my appointment at 2:30. Thank you !! 


Name: jillw | Date: Oct 18th, 2006 2:42 PM
mom to many- that really sounds alot like what happened to me when I was only 6 weeks. I will send lots of prayers you way that the same mistake was made with you. Let us know 

Name: Marlene | Date: Oct 18th, 2006 4:35 PM
Mom to many I hope every thing turns out ok today. I had a really good feeling as i read your post you are in my prayers GOOD LUCK!! 

Name: jillw | Date: Oct 18th, 2006 6:44 PM
any news about the appt?? 

Name: jennifer early | Date: Oct 19th, 2006 12:20 AM
bump. 

Name: jillw | Date: Oct 19th, 2006 2:26 PM
bump---we are worried about you mom to many 

Name: Petrona | Date: Oct 20th, 2006 3:03 PM
bump - I'm starting to be afraid that no news is bad news? 

Name: Marlene | Date: Oct 20th, 2006 3:09 PM
Just wondering if anybody heard from her yet? 

Name: Logan | Date: Oct 20th, 2006 3:11 PM
She did to see a doctor and responded back but not on this posting, now I cannot remember what was the tittle on the posting if I find it I will let you girls know. 

Name: Marlene | Date: Oct 20th, 2006 3:12 PM
thanks Logan 

Name: Logan | Date: Oct 20th, 2006 3:18 PM
I cannot find it yet, she basically said the midwife had told her she was not an expert on u/s but still would do one, I guess she was not sure what she was seeing on the u/s first she said the baby was not there then she said oops there is the head, so she said she still has not symptoms of miscarriage I think she mentioned going for another u/s 

Name: Marlene | Date: Oct 20th, 2006 3:21 PM
Logan that one is on here from the 18th and was giubg to her doc 2:30 that day nobody has heard from her since. 

Name: jillw | Date: Oct 20th, 2006 3:22 PM
ya when she responded she said that she had an appt at like 2:30 that same day, but I have not heard anything about that yet. She was going to an ob instead of the midwife who didn't know what she was looking at. 

Name: Logan | Date: Oct 20th, 2006 3:24 PM
Oh okay,,, Oh man I am worried now then, this may be bad news, her not getting on and responding 

Name: Marlene | Date: Oct 20th, 2006 3:27 PM
i know i have worried and prayed every night. 

Name: jillw | Date: Oct 20th, 2006 3:51 PM
me too. If it is bad new I am sure that she just needs some time to take it all in and heal. I will keep praying for her 

Name: amy | Date: Oct 20th, 2006 3:53 PM
hiya mom to many im just wondering does this mean you might not of miscaried im praying for you my thoughts are with you sweety keep us up to datedx 

Name: melmoney | Date: Oct 20th, 2006 4:30 PM
Mom to many, just wanted to let you know there is one more person here thinking about you. Hopefully all is well and you're just taking a short hiatus from the board. Know that we're all here and thinking about you though if it was bad news and you need to talk. I know everyone here can offer a wonderful cyber should for you to lean/cry on if you need it. 

Name: jillw | Date: Oct 20th, 2006 8:47 PM
bump again----sorry I want her to see this when she get on so she know that we are all thinking about her. 

Name: BabyKandy5503 | Date: Oct 21st, 2006 2:16 PM
Keepin u in my thoughts and prayers mom to many!! ***HUGS*** 

Name: jillw | Date: Oct 23rd, 2006 12:43 PM
bump 

Name: VeggieMom2B | Date: Oct 23rd, 2006 2:46 PM
Keeping you in my thoughts as well!!!((((((((((((mom2many)))))))))))))) 

Name: christiansmommy | Date: Oct 23rd, 2006 11:52 PM
I AM WORRIED ABOUT HER AS WELL. 

Name: jillw | Date: Oct 24th, 2006 1:31 PM
just want to keep this at the top so she can see it. We are thinking about you mom to many 

Name: Marlene | Date: Oct 24th, 2006 5:23 PM
Still nothing?? Anybody?? 

Name: jillw | Date: Oct 24th, 2006 5:25 PM
no everytime I see this go to the top though I keep hoping that it is her responding. 

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