| Kristina, sorry to hear of your problems. If i were you i would definetly talk to his mother. Be specific and be as positive as possible. ↑ |
| hey, kristina where are you from? jw. anyways, does she listen on the phone when ya'll are on, or what and how old are you? moms sometimes wanna know everything. just relax and butt her out..so ya'll not have cell phones? ↑ |
| I am from MI and I'm 17. We have cell phones but she still listens in. ↑ |
| I would have your boyfriend talk to his mom also so she can stop butting in. Maybe you should ask if theres somthing shes worried about. ↑ |
| Hi Kristina, my mil does not like me other she has never taken the time to get to know me and that frustrates me the most. About 4 years ago she told my husband that if he didn't leave me his 3 sisters and her would cut her off, so he stopped talking to them. Well he recently got back into contact with his sisters and found out it was a lie. So 4 years were wasted because of her life is to short for that. Anyways I know its hard but don't worry about her just focus on you and your baby. ↑ |
Hi Kristina my fiances mom drives us crazy to she loves me and all but everytime we talk on the phone she has something to say about us getting married like when are you gonna get married just get married by a jp bla bla bla bla.. you see my fiance already has to kids with his ex and she dont want what happend to them happen to use if you know what i mean.. I guess shes just looking out for us but loves to drive us crazy lol.
it stinks that you BFs mom butts in all the time i just think she should mind her own and if you guys really love each other you will try and work it out try and sit down all 3 of you together and ask her if she could let you guys be alone and have your own privacy. once she relizes that your right she just might leave you guys alone.. try not to hurt her feelings though be nice about it cause then that will make it even worse.. good luck hun.. ↑ |
| Family members UGHHH! I know exactly what you mean ! My Grandmother is the worlds worst! She's even planning on taking care of the baby and I'm like ugh NO! She's already telling me how to raise her and I'm only 24 weeks now that's insane! My poor husband can't stand her but I think she means well. His mom is a dope whore and his Grandma is the world's nosiest person she even said she was against me having a epidural during delivery and I said "this is my baby and my body...I think I can handle making the decision for myself" either I'm just mean or my hormones are out of control :) ↑ |
| hey sorry to hear!! i have been having little problems with my boyfriends mom too here and there... she can be very intrusive. jeff has actually said shes "boarderline raymonds mother" (from everybody loves raymond). anyways, first off although jeff sees it too i try not to complain to him about it b/c that is his mother and he just doesnt need to hear it. keep in mind that the mother really might not be aware that her behaviour is inappropriate so ease into the topic. i say talk to her about it but make sure its not right after she has upset you... youre more liable to freak out and say something silly. good luck! p.s . remember to use "i messages" ex. "i feel bad when..." as opposed to "YOU piss me off when you..." if she already freaks out ya gotta be careful!! ↑ |
