How long have you been with your husband or partner?
Did you fall pregnant before you got married or engaged if you are?
did you ever seperate?
If you did, do you count the time you have been together from when you first did, or from when you got back toether if that makes sense? ↓
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| Name: Nicolaaa | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 1:49 PM |
| Name: natalee-j | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 1:54 PM |
| Im 17 and have been with my boyfriend for 2years. ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 1:54 PM |
| I've been with my husband for 1 year next month..married for 8 next month..i got pregnant the same month we got married by accident and we've never seperated ↑ |
| Name: Nicolaaa | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 2:02 PM |
| thanks for the replies girls. ill be back later to see if theres any more. but do you think that if you have seperated, do you think you should count how long youv been together from when you first met or from when you got back together? ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 2:05 PM |
| i would count the time we were together up until we seperated and then start counting again after we got back together ↑ |
| Name: Nicolaaa | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 2:06 PM |
| thats a good idea...we would have been together 13 months then. ↑ |
| Name: natalee-j | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 2:06 PM |
| hmm... i say me and tom have been together 2 years but on and off, sooo. i count it from how long ago you first started. if youve had break ups its on and off, lol confused? i am. hope i helped :D ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 2:09 PM |
| Name: Nicolaaa | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 2:10 PM |
| we broke up only as he had to move away. He says he didnt see anybody else in between...but i had a one night stand (in the middle of the day lol) we were apart for about 4 months. ↑ |
| Name: Lola | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 2:19 PM |
Danese oh dear God you got married so quickly!
You're a shocker woman!
Lol.
I've been with my guy for 12 months. We were engaged, but I called it off. Lol.
Wow.
How's it goin'?!?! ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 2:22 PM |
| yeah i was married quickly....sometimes i wish we hd waited but under our circumstances at the time it was get married or wait about a year and 1/2 or more...cause we're both marines and were supposed to be deployed in january....(this past january) and so we got married in september..and then i got pregnant...and he still deployed but i didnt...obviously lol ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 2:35 PM |
I've been with my fiancé over 5 years.
We're not married yet, so yeah our little guy was conceived out of wedlock!
We have never seperated. ↑ |
| Name: automansgirl | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 2:37 PM |
| My husband and I have been together for 3 years and married for 1 year in May. I would say that if you've been together for a while, but seperated for a short time I would count from the very beginning, but just say that you were separated for a few months. You really don't even have to say that. It's really no one's business but yours. ↑ |
| Name: Lola | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 2:54 PM |
Lol.
So I take it you don't get payed then? Or what's the story? ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 2:56 PM |
| Ive been with my Husband 2 years on October 30th, and Married one Year on October 2nd, and we have never split up, and i moved in with him after 4 months of knowing him ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 2:59 PM |
| im a reservist so i get paid for the one weekend a month i work...but i havent been in 3 months now...so yeah i havent been paid lol ↑ |
| Name: 04nidak | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 3:07 PM |
| Hey Danese, when my husband and I got married, it was under similar circumstances as yours. He proposed to me 4 months after we had been together and we were planning to get married a year later, we were getting things planned and we found out he was getting deployed so we ended up getting married before he left because we didn't want to wait. We were together a little longer then you and your husband before we got married, but I understand when you say sometimes you wish you had waited. On the bright side, we just celebrated out 5 year wedding anniversary, we have a 3 year old son and ttc #2 and are very very happy. I hope things stay great for you guys too! ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 3:11 PM |
| yeah arent deployments hard....i hate them lol...it be easier if we were both over there....cause we'd be at the same base....but im way ove here and he is way over there..lol ↑ |
| Name: Angelcecilia2 | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 3:15 PM |
| My husband and I have been dating for 6 1/2 years, and will be celebrating our 2nd wedding anniversary in June. We dated all through college, and got married the month after I graduated! ↑ |
| Name: nicole miller | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 4:47 PM |
Been together for 9 months.. married for 1. No splits.
I was actually 5 weeks pregnant when we began dating.... but about a month into it Paul decided that Josh was HIS baby. lol. No arguments from the ex, of course. Paul signed the birth certificate and nobody is the wiser. ↑ |
| Name: breemichelle | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 5:24 PM |
| Husband and I have been together almost 7 years and married for 3 years in July. We split up for a weekend once so I don't count that. =) ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 5:25 PM |
| well me and my husband, were planning on getting married in 2009, and he was going to ask me to marry him on Valentines day this year, but in September is when we found out that i was Pregnant, so we got married in October, but we still plan on having a real Wedding, we had a small one at my parents house last year, but im not really sure when we will find the time or money to have a areal wedding! ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 5:26 PM |
| ya i wouldn't count that either, some times you just need your space lol ↑ |
| Name: 04nidak | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 7:53 PM |
| Deployments are hard Danese, I'm sorry you are having to go through it while you are pregnant. It sucks anytime, but I coudln't imagine being pregnant on top of it. My husband went to Iraq and Afghanistan, but luckily I wasn't pregnant while he was gone. If you ever need someone to talk to let me know. Good luck ↑ |
| Name: tubbybubble | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 9:51 PM |
| i've been with my husband for 3 yrs. this past jan. no, we haven't seperated...but sometimes i have thought about ringing his neck...haha. i got pregnant 3 months after we were married (in march, and my son was born that dec.) ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 9:53 PM |
| yeah i wonder if the deplowment would be easier if i wasnt pregnant..but also if i wasnt pregnant i'd be in iraq right now as well....i would love to talk sometime...do you have aim or msn? ↑ |
| Name: Kristy84 | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 9:58 PM |
| I was together w/ my fiance for 5 years before I got pregnant on accident..we were planning on getting maried before this happened...we've never seperated ↑ |
| Name: roseywosey | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 10:51 PM |
| only been with my boyfriend for 9 months.. and im 30 weeks pregnant with his baby lol..so yes i fell pregnant before i got married / engaged etc.. ↑ |
| Name: Meagan | Date: Apr 22nd, 2007 11:51 PM |
| I have been with Leigh for 5 years next month.. we have never serperated or anything like that.. We haven't even had a huge argument before.. we got engaged after 2yrs of being together... ↑ |
| Name: RESOLUTION | Date: Apr 23rd, 2007 10:51 PM |
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