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Okay like I said I feel guilty,....about 2 weeks ago I found out I was preegnant, before I knew I was a HEAVEY drinker....THE DAY i found out which was feb 24th I stopped completley. but I am about 7 weeks along maybe a bit more, How the heck was I supposed to know? I am just worried because I did consum liqor before I knew alot of it, and another confesstion i smoke too but have cut way back a pack last me about 3 days, I know for those of you whom do not smoke or drink you make think I am the devil but i a not i am just worried, like i said i havent had a drink since i found out. ↓
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| Name: Heather | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 6:49 PM |
| Basicly all I would like to know is do you think that early on with out knowing i was pregnant, will my baby be at harm,? I did stopp anything for my unorn baby, its not like I did it on purpose I dident know. ↑ |
| Name: Heather | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 6:53 PM |
| ??? anyone have anything for me..... ↑ |
| Name: jenn | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 7:03 PM |
| tons of us have done the same so dont worry too much about it! whats done is done... however your baby is probablly fine! just dont drink anymore and try to stop smoking! ↑ |
| Name: Heather | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 7:05 PM |
| thanks alot jenn but I cant stop thinking about it online the FAS and reading all that I am so worried i am only 23 my soon to be husband has 2 other kids butiful i might add he's 30 been through it but he says never been with somone whom partyied like i did ↑ |
| Name: jenn | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 7:10 PM |
i have lots of friends who partied and the babies are fine! i also have friends who didnt party and the babies are not fine! you just never know.
if every mother who partied while pregnant gave birth to babies with problems then i think that every person who was born in the 60s and 70s would be seriously messed up, but they seem fine.. lol. ↑ |
| Name: Heather | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 7:11 PM |
| thank you for that smile you make a good point ↑ |
| Name: Christina | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 7:25 PM |
| Hey that's so true about the 60's and 70's! When I first found out I was pregnant I too worried about the partying I had done for the 3 months that I did not know, and what she told me was that she drank the whole time she was pregnant with my brother because back then they didn't tell you that alchohol caused birth defects, she had also done acid too before she found out (she was 15! and this was 35 years ago).......I wasn't comforted completely by this though, cause my brother isn't the brightest light bulb on the block.......but it still made me feel better. ↑ |
| Name: Christina | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 7:27 PM |
| Oops I was talking about my mom....I didn't use the word but I'm sure it could have been figured out. ↑ |
| Name: jenn | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 7:37 PM |
| my aunt said that in those days she would drive around with a baby in her lap, the other crawling around on the front seat, a cigarette in her mouth, and a beer in the other! haha just that they didnt know any better in those days! ↑ |
| Name: Heather | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 7:39 PM |
| its kinda werid stopping all the party nights but I did and You both make a good point they dident have all these warnings back then like they do now... this is easeing me up a little my first doctors appt isent till march 17th ↑ |
| Name: heather | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 7:52 PM |
| Name: Christina | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 7:53 PM |
| woo hoo! St. Patty's day.....No green beer for us lol.....I'll have to have some green apple juice hehehe ↑ |
| Name: Heather | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 7:54 PM |
| LOL yeah...hehee Its nice to know I am not the only one eh?? green apple juice....virgen daqori ↑ |
| Name: Christina | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 8:17 PM |
| Speaking of dauqari's....a virgin strawberry dauqari is very good! My friend who's a bartender at a resturant made me one and it was sooo good! All it is, is ice, cut up sugary strawberries, slice, and whipped cream on top with some cherries. Yummy, not green, but still Yummy! ↑ |
| Name: Heather | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 8:18 PM |
| Healthy and good for you and the baby! mmmmm I should try it ↑ |
| Name: Heather | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 8:40 PM |
| what about lower ab pains in early stages of pregnancy? ↑ |
| Name: jenn | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 9:14 PM |
| its weird i got this weird craving for beer the other day, a really strong craving! for a brand of beer i dont particularly like. and it had to be in a glass. (i dont like beer in a glass) i wanted a cold glass of beer! of course i didnt drink it or anything it was just a very intense, strange craving for me! ↑ |
| Name: Heather | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 9:27 PM |
| hmmm beer I love beer but no cravings yet earler on before now i did even when I was pregnant ↑ |
| Name: heather 2 | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 9:48 PM |
your baby should be fine...make sure you tell your doctor just in case he wants to do more test. i also consumed a HEAVY amount when i was pregnant...i didnt know i was either but i can tell you i had a perfectly healthy 8 pound 11 ounce baby. they say that you shouldnt worry if you werent 2 or more months along. your baby is just a little peanut, but when its 2 months into pregnancy, it really starts to develop. i hope everything goes well.
about the smoking, there are plenty of girls that smoke during pregnancy..do i agree with it? no. but thats not me. i know alot of girls though that their babys came out healthy too and they smoked. ↑ |
| Name: Heatyher | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 9:54 PM |
| thank yo heather2.....I really pray everything goes well.....i drank somtimes when i even blacked out but like i said the DAY i found out it all went out the window so i hope my baby is healthy ↑ |
| Name: 8 | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 10:36 PM |
| what feeling do you have now ↑ |
| Name: heather2 | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 11:50 PM |
oh heather..i know what you mean. that last time i drank before i knew i was pregnant was the worst time i have ever gotten!!! i was a party girl at that point to at the clubs and such and then that one time i went to a house party and got REALLY REALLY wasted. the last thing i remember was swimming naked in the pool and puking over the side and on the kitchen floor...and then i woke up in the morning clean with my shirt and panies on!! that was scary...thats what stopped me from drinking before i found out.
trust me, ive been there.
i hope the best for you though ↑ |
| Name: Heather | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 11:52 PM |
| Well I found out the day after I got tore up i mean i blacked out the night b4 then woke up took a test loong story i have been meaning to take one for a while just somthing told me to take one that hung over mornin and BOOM pregnant! ↑ |
| Name: Heather | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 11:53 PM |
| thats why I am alot worried the amount I drank over that month then come to find out i am pregnant ↑ |
| Name: Jennifer | Date: Mar 3rd, 2006 12:25 AM |
i found out i was pregnant the night i almost OD on ectstacy, i was rushed into hospital and they told me i was pregnant, they gave me scan cause i had no idea i was pregnant cause one i was away on holidays for 3 months so i took pill to stop my period completely, i ended up being 16 weeks pregnant,
i stopped taking party drugs and alchahol asap, but sadly to say i miscarried at 18 weeks,,,
i m now pregnant again, and i havent even touched drugs, i still smoke and drink though but only when we go night clubbing which is 2 nights a week,
i occasionly smoke pot, just because im having a baby im not about to stop doing the things i love and thats party till i cant stand up..
i love being single and sleeping around, one night stands are the best cause you dont have any strings attatched,
its actully for the best i miscarried cause i wouldnt have known who the father was, it was a choice out of 7 different guys in the 3 months away, so that was out of the question, now i know that its either out of 3 guys and they are still in the picture, ones an ex boyfriend, the other is his best friend, and the other is my dads apprentice!
im 8 weeks pregnant and scan came up good so i have no fear...
it was difficult and very shocking to come to terms with it, i just wish i looked after myself ↑ |
| Name: jenn to heather 2 | Date: Mar 3rd, 2006 12:38 AM |
heehee i was skinny dipping too like a week before i found out i was.... my best friend and i went to a guy friends house, he had this mansion overlooking this beautiful cove, and it was night time, and there was some sort of microscopic creature in the water that lights up at night when you touch the water and move it around.. it looks like fireworks in the water... we were joking that if you were preg. the creatures might swim up your vagina and eat the baby... lol the guy owns a restaurant and had brought pitchers and pitchers of margaritas for this little party, its was sooooo much fun and i remember being sooooo drunk and then we all lost our clothes on the beach and we were making so much noise the neighborhood police came and escorted us home.... naked...lol... heehee i remember being so not embarassed to be naked cause my boobs were suddenly so much bigger....
then i found out i was pregnant. the guy wouldnt talk to me or look at me, i think he thought that somehow it might be his baby... (see topic:"can i get pregnant from toilet seat, sharing a bathtub, etc") lol.... like maybe he had ejaculated or something in the water.... he was acting like that if he looked at me, then it would be his... lol...
gosh i miss those crazy times, i lived in such a fun place where you could do whatever you wanted without consequences and here i am back in the states living with mom and dad. yipee. but it is all definitely worth it! ↑ |
| Name: jenn | Date: Mar 3rd, 2006 12:38 AM |
| we should just rename this forum, : back when we were non pregnant and partied hard, wasnt that fun.! ↑ |
| Name: TO HEATHER | Date: Mar 3rd, 2006 1:01 AM |
| AS YOU I WAS A HEAVEY DRINKER I SMOKED DRANK AND PARTYED LIKE HELL I WAS 4 MONTHS PREGNANT WHEN I FOUND OUT I FELT THE BABY MOVING AND NEW WHAT WAS GOING ON (I NO EVERYBODYS WONDERING WHY I DIDNT NO BEFORE 4 MONTHS SEE SOME TIMES I CAN GO 5TO 6 MONTHS WITH OUT A PERIOD SO BACK THEN I DIDNT THINK NOTHING WAS GOING ON)BUT NOW SHES 14 SHE WAS A HEALTHY BABY 7 LBS AND I DID SMOKE THREW MY WHOLE PREGNANTIES SASSY ↑ |
| Name: Christina | Date: Mar 3rd, 2006 2:06 AM |
| Can you believe what Jennifer wrote. You know, you're not going to fit in with us by your story! We were talking about what we did "before" we found out we were pregnant! You are such a selfish asshole to keep that partying up! "you're not going to give up the things you love..." Well you should have kept your legs closed you selfish snatch. I so wish this wasn't a computer and was in person so I could bitch slap you! What if your baby is born with disabilities? Or with down syndrom? Or birth defects? That would be YOUR fault and you don't even care? You discust me as a human being. I seriously hope that it was someone lying that wrote that! And to others I'm sorry about the cussing. There's just only so much that I can tolerate, and the abuse of a pregnant body is one that I can not. ↑ |
| Name: Kathy | Date: Mar 3rd, 2006 5:14 AM |
| I think all of you need to grow up, what kind of examples are you being to your babys talking to other people that way? Whatever Jennifer did is her business and yall should have nothing to say about it. Whatever Jennifer wants to do in her life is her problem, so yall can't say nothing to her or put her down because everyone lives their lifes differently. I am not promoting what she is doing but I'm just letting all you females know that being Catty on a baby forum is not it and your not making yourselves look good by the way your talking. ↑ |
| Name: Christina | Date: Mar 3rd, 2006 5:27 AM |
To the person who put (to Christina).....I'll make it a little easier since you are in fact the one who needs to read a little better
And I quote.....
"i m now pregnant again, and i havent even touched drugs, i still smoke and drink though but only when we go night clubbing which is 2 nights a week,
i occasionly smoke pot, just because im having a baby im not about to stop doing the things i love and thats party till i cant stand up.."
And to the others who say it's her business and we shouldn't have anything to say.....I could care less about you, yes it's "her" body, but NOW it's the BABY'S BODY too!!!! And I'll say what I want. Period! Sorry if it offends you but "I" get offended when people post stuff about them abusing their unborn babies on purpose. If she can't handle it then, she shouldn't get on a pregnancy forum, and post this ignorance all over when we feel the pain she's inflicking on this poor innocent baby. ↑ |
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