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Name: dyana
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im a month preganant now and im terrified. Im financially stable but my boyfriend isnt. When i just turned 18, i had an abortion and it was one of the biggest regret ever. Now that i am again i dont want to lose it but what to tell my parents since they havent even met my boyfriend?
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Name: i_know_your _pain | Date: Nov 11th, 2005 12:22 PM
Dyana.. I know what you are going through because I had an abortion 2 years ago and it was just horrible..and that was before I even knew what actually goes on during one. So once I found out what I had done to my baby it devastated me. In my opinion you should tell your parents and maybe they will be upset at first but your their daughter and parents are meant to stick by their children no matter what. Having this baby will be the best thing you ever did..once you see that precious little face you'll wonder how you couldve ever thought otherwise. If you are finacially stable then thats a huge plus.. dont worry about bf..he'll get there too. It will be tough to raise a baby .I wont lie about that. but there are so many pluses I cant begin to write them all. good luck with your decision. and I would love to know what you decide. 

Name: heather | Date: Nov 11th, 2005 2:20 PM
do you have aim or yahoo messenger? if so, my sn is sekcmix.
anyways...how long have you and your boyfriend been together? im also 18. i moved to live with my brother in fort worth, my mom lives soo far away from here, so its just me and my brother that are up here together. no one lives near us but everyone is still pretty close. what im trying ot get to is that when i moved here, i started seeing this guy, 3 months later i got pregnant. i love him now and we live together, ive introduced him to my family throughout my pregnancy (ill be 7 months next week) my family seems to like him. i had someone tell me that i could do better, but i told them that were only 18 and 19, that no ones going to be a doctor right now. they werent really mad, but they want us to keep going and to make something of our lives, and ecspecially this baby. i love my fiance so i dont care what anyones opinion is now, i love my family too, but they have to face whats real and just accept it. i hope everything goes ok for you . good luck and let us know 

Name: Amanda | Date: Nov 11th, 2005 8:23 PM
Set a time for you and your boyfriend and parnets to get together and talk
Then when you do tell them the news 

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