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Before I was pregnant my fiance wanted sex all the time and recently he's been almost avoiding it. I'm in the mood most of the time and he says that he's tired from work since he works all night long (I tag along for the ride) but I'm still up for it...why isn't he? My mom said that guys go through hormone changes while I'm pregnant. Anyone else similar? We're always together also...could that be the problem? I mean I'm 5'5 118 lbs right now and attractive so it's not like anythings changed. Please help me figure this out...I'm outta ideas. ↓
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| Name: heather | Date: Sep 12th, 2005 5:09 PM |
| how long were yall together before? thats kind of odd. my fiance wants it all the time and now that im pregnant it turns him on knowing that we're getting places in life. although, guys dont usually need sex as long as there is affection. is there alot of that? ↑ |
| Name: Rachel | Date: Sep 12th, 2005 5:13 PM |
| Hey Sylvia sorry to hear your fiance isn't in the mood. I'm on my own here my bf left me. I'm in the mood and he's nowhere to be found. What is a woman supposed to do? ↑ |
| Name: jen | Date: Sep 12th, 2005 5:29 PM |
| could he be afraid he might hurt the baby? some guys think that. also, he might have a lot on his mind right now, thinking of being a daddy and how he will provide. maybe he is a little overwellmed. ↑ |
| Name: Sylvia | Date: Sep 12th, 2005 8:43 PM |
| Actually we've been together for over 5 years now and we're both 21.. He's really supportive and into the baby but I think it's work stress and money issues even though we're doing really well right now. He's very affectionate I think it's just stress all in all. Thanks you guys for listening though. We're insepretable also so maybe being around each other 24/7 is kinda a lot LOL...with me that is. Hopefully things liven up, I mean we've been trying new things and getting "kinkier" LOL so we'll see. I guess I might have to pull out my lingerae one night. [3 ↑ |
| Name: Rachel | Date: Sep 12th, 2005 8:45 PM |
| hey slyvia the lingerie sounds like a good plan. Plus it may help to spend some alone time. Ya know do different things for an hour or two. Just some ideas. ↑ |
| Name: heather | Date: Sep 12th, 2005 8:46 PM |
| lol..thats cute..actually i did that last night and it was so cute because you see my thighs and all the parts you see on a sexy woman and then you see my big o belly..lol...keep it up, it sound like you two are fine.. ↑ |
| Name: Sylvia | Date: Sep 12th, 2005 8:49 PM |
| Aww thanks. I'm showing which I love cause I think a pregnant belly is one of the cutest and sexiest things ever. I've been trying to give him his time and I have mine so we'll see. ↑ |
| Name: Rachel | Date: Sep 12th, 2005 9:00 PM |
| Have a great night i hope you get what you want ,soon you sexy momma. I too feel so sexy with my pregnant belly. ↑ |
| Name: Sylvia | Date: Sep 13th, 2005 4:16 AM |
xoxo thanks xoxo
Have a great night too ↑ |
| Name: Rachel | Date: Sep 13th, 2005 1:49 PM |
| Hey Sylvia how'd your night go? Did ya have fun? ↑ |
| Name: Sylvia | Date: Sep 13th, 2005 11:02 PM |
| Hey Rachel, I just slept....a lot. I went to bed last night around 11 then woke up for my fiance to go to work around 1:30, then went back to bed, woke up around 6:30 then fell asleep again from like 9:30 till almost 3. Talk about lazy huh? I'm going to babies r us today in Van Nuys with him to redo our registry since we know it's a girl. ↑ |
| Name: Rachel | Date: Sep 14th, 2005 1:45 PM |
| Hi Sylvia good to hear you got so much sleep. Hope you had fun at Babies R Us. ↑ |
| Name: Rebekah | Date: Sep 14th, 2005 4:43 PM |
| My husband went through this at the beginning of my pregnancy. Come to find out he was scared that having sex might hurt the baby. I'm not sure if this is the case with your fiance, but it's possible. I am now 19w and our sex life has gotten much better within the past few weeks. ↑ |
| Name: Tabitha | Date: Sep 19th, 2005 9:59 PM |
| Sylvia, this happened with me and my fiance as well. After I broke down because I thought he didn't want me anymore, we talked and I learned some very interesting things. He was scared to death of being a father and didn't know how to deal with it. The stress was killing him so he just pushed me and baby away so he didn't have to think about it. Well, after we talked, he felt much better and I tell you what... sex has never been better since. The talk brought us closer intimately... more than I ever thought imaginable. Good luck to you. ↑ |
| Name: Sylvia | Date: Sep 20th, 2005 2:42 AM |
| Thanks Tabitha, I know he is nervous but he is still younger then me mentally. You know how they say guys minds are that way? He still likes video games but is very mature when it comes to finances and planning our future so I'm guessing he is just kinda fighting the whole growing up thing in his own way. He's a great guy and I wouldn't trade him for the world. He's tired a lot from working his night job which he is at from 1:30am till sometimes 7 am and sleeps a lot. Well off to get some food cause I am starved. xoxo ↑ |
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