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Name: ..RoSey..

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Lately i have been sleeping on the couch, because isabelle just will NOT sleep in her cot in mine and my boyfriends bedroom... it dosnt matter if i put her to sleep 1st then carefully put her in the cot .. either way she will always wake up about 10 - 20 mins later. so pretty much im up all night every 20 mins !!

i find if i sleep on the couch she sleeps for hours at a time and i get a good nights rest.. cause i mean my boyfriend never gets up to her in the night.. ONLY me !

Anywho my boyfriend is complaining of being lonely and depressed about me not spending that time in bed with him anymore because before isabelle came along we used to enjoy our time in bed cuddling..

i feel like my boyfriend is being really selfish and thinking about his own self... im bloody tired.. i clean the house.. even take out the rubbish.. get upto the baby all night long.. and spend all day long with the baby.. and hes complaining im not spending enough time with him !!

MY question is.. AM i being selfish ?? or is it him ??
SHOULD i make more of an effort to meet his needs too ??

i just want a good nights rest.. and if sleeping on the couch lets me.. then i want to =( ↓

Name: ..RoSey.. | Date: Aug 26th, 2007 2:42 PM

if i sleep on the couch WITH her on my chest... ** ↑

Name: Randi | Date: Aug 26th, 2007 2:54 PM

Honestly, I would have left the loser a long time ago. He is a selfish bastard. ↑

Name: mizzescalante | Date: Aug 26th, 2007 3:32 PM

you are meeting the needs of your daughters first screw him your baby is first on your list and needs more care than him. i feel he is being selfish and if he wants to spend more time with you than he can sleep on the couch with you and also rosey leave the low life looser. ↑

Name: mamal | Date: Aug 26th, 2007 7:03 PM

Baby 1st
Rosey 2nd
Boyfriend dead last

Tell him welcome to fatherhood, he will never come first again! ↑

Name: Coartney | Date: Aug 26th, 2007 7:05 PM

lol mamal rosey have you tried her on her stomach?braden hates his back i usually rock him to sleep wait about ten mins then move him to make sure hes not faking ↑

Name: automansgirl | Date: Aug 26th, 2007 7:28 PM

I think you are being a mom! He needs to realize it's not about him right now. I can understand wanting to spend time with you like he did before, but those days are nonexistant now. You may want to try a new mattress. My niece would not sleep in her crib at all (she would rather sleep in a pack and play), so my sil tried getting a different mattress and she started sleeping through the night. Just a suggestion. ↑

Name: zoey9810 | Date: Aug 26th, 2007 8:21 PM

lol Coart to make sure hes not faking lol tyler fakes all the time!! lol ↑

Name: DaneseS | Date: Aug 26th, 2007 10:15 PM

gabby fakes too ↑