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Hey, I'm Brittney! I'm 16 years old and I'm 6 months pregnant! This is my first baby and I'm scared to death!! I somtimes stress about labor and is my baby going to come out healthy! Me and my baby's father aren't together, so that puts even more stress on me! I know it's bad for the baby when the mother is always stressed out all the time! But I can't help but worry! Please Help Me!!!!!!!!!!!! ↓
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| Name: Sarah M | Date: May 23rd, 2006 7:14 PM |
| Im sorry that your in the situation you are but all I can say is just think of the beautiful baby that you will be giving birth to. Dont worry about your baby not being healthy unless the doc says othewise because if you do all you can to keep you and the baby healthy Im sure you will have a healthy beautiful baby. If you need to have any ?'s answer or you just want to chat let me know. I was a teen mother also and now am going on my second baby. Congrats and come talk ↑ |
| Name: nora | Date: May 23rd, 2006 9:44 PM |
Brittney, as long as your getting yourself to the doctors for monthly check ups, and are taking care of yourself, then don't stress out so much... there are tons of support groups out there (other than the internet) that can help you cope with the anxiety you're going through...
Do you have family that's helping you or that you can at least talk to? ↑ |
| Name: littleangel | Date: May 23rd, 2006 11:50 PM |
Brittney,
I would love to talk to you... Feel free to email me at anytime.
[email protected]
Good Luck
chas ↑ |
| Name: thompson3 | Date: May 30th, 2006 12:29 AM |
| I know a lot of stories of mothers who have made it on their own. You just always have to stay strong. Is your family very supportive? Because that could help a lot too, if not you will still be able to do it. I am 16 also but I am still with the babies father. At times it still was hard but its nothing that cant be overcame. You can do it, just stay strong and Good Luck! :-) ↑ |
| Name: brittnie | Date: Jul 1st, 2006 12:23 AM |
| Hi, my name is Brittnie too!!!!! i am 17 years old and on June 29th i had a miscarriage. I was about 3 months pregnant. I was under alot of stress working 7 days a week, high school, starting night school online, and yes me too... the father not in the picture. when i went to the doctor he asked me a little bit about what i had been doing, so i told him. He told me the i had stressed myself out to the point that the baby got "stressed" too. So please noone deserves to go through what i went through at our young ages. just calm down...... things have a way of working themselves out and turning out for the BEST!!!! and after all, you will have a BEAUTIFUL baby... im sure of it. ( o yea... and who needs men..... :):):):):)) ↑ |
| Name: Faith | Date: Jul 2nd, 2006 8:36 PM |
Hey Brittney,
This may not help but take a day at a time, and it's okay to be stressed out a little, if you think about it, your already hormanal and dealing with everything else on top of it. but try taking one day at a time and if you have a friend or mom their,not sure but try and rely on them for some support if not keep checking back and talk to everyone here. Good luck. ↑ |
| Name: mariela | Date: Jul 3rd, 2006 6:27 PM |
| Hey my name is Mariela.I am 17 years old and i am also 6 months pregnant. I feel you since i am not with the father of my baby at this time either and am feeling really stressed out too!! But you want to know what helps me, touching and talking to my baby. My baby is what keeps me going now and you should just try to think about the positive side, your child! =) Good luck with everything and i hope you feel better! ↑ |
| Name: jessie2 | Date: Jul 5th, 2006 3:33 PM |
| grl u need to stop stressin if ur so worried about da baby being healthy...u can make it w/o da baby father trusr me my mom did it wit me...im soon 2 b 19 and almost seven months pregnant wit my first baby and im wit da baby father and yes it security but i have seen many grls wen i was in high skool pregnant at 15 161 7 w/o their babyfather and they have survived jus fine ur lucky in most cases i was at da doctor there was a grl who jus turned 12 pregnant!!!!! she was oniy wit her mother imagine bein dat young ↑ |
| Name: babygirl26 | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 6:13 AM |
| Hey Brittney, I"m also 16 and 8 mo's pregnant w/ a little girl. It is also my first baby... Stress is a big factor, especially being young, but I am with my baby's father still... i guess i'm one of the lucky one's... but I have several friends who have done just fine by their selves.....Just think of the baby, and relax for him/her!! ↑ |
| Name: psycho | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 4:49 PM |
| That poor child! I hope you have the sense to think about what is good for that child and give it up for adoption. You are just a child yourself and it's unfair that this baby be brought up in a world with no father. This child needs a secure home with both a mother and father who will raise him/her in a secure environment. Sorry you didn't listen to all the obvious advice out there telling you to abstain from sex at your age. Now you involved a precious and innocent little being to live with your mistakes. Think about it. It really is the best thing for the baby and don't even try to argue about how you can do it yourself because that just proves you are not thinking about what's best for the baby and really, that's the only thing that should be of concern right now. ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 5:07 PM |
| And yet again this wench is being rude. Talking about psycho. I hope you dont have any children of your own cause god forbid they do anything that isnt morally right at the time you feel. Just because they are a single mother has nothing to do about them being a good mother. You dont need a guy in your life to be able to raise your children thats just rediculous. ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 5:16 PM |
And though it may help sometimes to have the babies father in the babies lkife its not always for the best because after a baby the guy changes and some change for the worse and even some change into control freaks because they created something and they think that you are stuck with them forever.
Im with my daughters and my current babies father and he is great so I am lucky but we arent married and I dont d\find that makes any difference ↑ |
| Name: tammie | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 9:10 PM |
| hang in there brittney,,,,,,,,my best friend got pregnant at 16 and she is a college grad.....and that little baby is 11 years old now...doing perfect........life is what you make it and just because you have a little one's life in your hands now doesn't mean yours has to stop........take it day by day and enjoy that little baby........its a blessing in disquise belive me..... ↑ |
| Name: SenseOfPoise_n_rationality | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 10:28 PM |
| Hi, My name is kelly. Im also 16 and 6 months pregnant! I really dont have good advice just maybe relax and plan ahead. But if you want to talk . . im here! ↑ |
| Name: Danielle | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 10:54 PM |
| I was 16 years old when I got pregnant.I don't think you should be that stressed about it.There are places that will help you.You could still finish school and everything. ↑ |
| Name: mom1975 | Date: Jul 13th, 2006 4:37 AM |
| Hi, I am not a teen anymore either, but, I was 14 when I got pregnant and had my daughter when I was 15... I have had 4 children and they are all wonderful. I consider my daughter that I had when I was 15 my Angel Girl... I was hanging out with the wrong people and doing things that I should not have been doing. But, the moment that I found out that I was pregnant with her, my entire life changed...for the GOOD! Baby's are precious Gift's from God... Just remember you may be in a bad sitiuation being so young...but God can make all bad GOOD if you will let him. Now, I have to practice what I preach...I have taught my 15 yr old daughter everything about safe sex But, she is now pregnant herself...12 weeks. Dajui Vou... But, I truly believe that everything happens for a reason...I have been through it all and I wanted better for my daughter, however we have to except what comes our way and do the best we can... And my advice is that never believe that you have to have a man in your life to be a great mommy...if you have any questions, feel free to contact me at [email protected] ↑ |
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