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Name: babygirl26
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I had a baby shower this past Sun (yesterday).... well one of the ladies that was at my shower was pushing quite hard on the baby... trying to get her to move, and she moved to the other side it seemed. I went to the doctor today, and it took them a little big longer to find her heartbeat.... she said she thought the baby might have turned... Do you think that the lady had something to do with that, because my doctor had told me that the baby shouldn't turn, cause I am 36 weeks.
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Name: babygirl26 | Date: Aug 1st, 2006 1:40 AM
Sun.. as in Sunday just incase yall didn't know!!!! 

Name: Sarah M | Date: Aug 1st, 2006 2:16 AM
My doc told me they can turn at any time even the day before you give birth. I dont know if what she did had anything to do with it but just dont let anyone do it anymore to keep harm away from your baby. 

Name: babygirl26 | Date: Aug 1st, 2006 4:41 AM
Yeah.... I'm really particular who I let touch my belly now!!!! I don't want n/e one to hurt her!!!! 

Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Aug 1st, 2006 11:54 AM
Oh I so hated the stomach touching. I'm actually going to purchase a TShirt this time around that reads, "Can I touch your stomach first." I know it's kind of mean but I can not stand having people touch my belly. I just don't understand it. It's not as if people go around touching each others bellies everyday, but the minute your pregnant everyone seems to think it's an invitation.

Anyways, I would have said something to that lady especially since it hurt. But chances are she didn't do anything to cause her to move. As mentioned by Sarah M babies can turn whenever. One of my friends had her baby this summer. The day before her daughter was actually head down, when she went into labor the next day she ended up having a c-section because he baby turned and was now breech. There is still a good chance that she will position herself back down in the next couple of weeks. 

Name: Loritolay | Date: Aug 3rd, 2006 12:17 AM
OMG, I totally know what you mean about people just coming up and feeling they have every right to touch your belly. When I was pregnant with my son, I had a co-worker actually come up to me and pull my shirt up so she could see my belly!!! I was mortified!!! 

Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Aug 3rd, 2006 1:36 AM
I think I would have been slapping some hands in that situation. I wouldn't have thought twice about it. I understand your at work but what gave the person the idea that it was okay to invade your personal space like that. I think this could have been label as sexual harrassment.. 


Name: Loritolay | Date: Aug 3rd, 2006 5:31 PM
I think I was in shock more than anything. I just figured that maybe it was just me that had a problem with it and didn't want to make a big deal about it. But after reading that a lot of you feel the same way, maybe I should have slapped her!!! 

Name: Kristy84 | Date: Aug 3rd, 2006 9:21 PM
I think that everyone reacts to situations like that differently. Here in San Antonio, there is alot of hispanic influence, which is a little more "touchy feely" than Americans. It's just natural for everyone to touch your belly and for complete strangers to touch your baby as well. I don't have a problem with someone touching my tummy; although I can see how it offends some people. I'm 21 weeks and no one knows I'm pg. I actually just seen a friend that I hadn';t seen since I first found out. He thought I m/c b/c I don't have a belly, but after I told him I was a little girl he nonchallantly placed his handson mybelly. I don;t mind...it's not like they're grabbing my butt:) 

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