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Im 38weeks pregnant and im fricking out because I've been keeping that fact that I cheated. I had sex with this guy on May 28/29, but I got my period in June I'd say around the 10th, I only slept with him 1 time, then July rolled around and I didnt get my period, but I was having sex with my boyfriend all the time and I found out I was like 5 weeks or so on July 13th....is there anyway possible it could be that guys I slept with in May?? Anyone think they know for sure or have anything good?? I know I fucked up and thats not what I want to hear so please dont tell me that. ↓
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| Name: Chris | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 5:47 AM |
Infamous,
According to what you have stated, there is no way you could be pregnant by that other man.
Once you conceive you will not have another period until your pregnancy is over. If you have had your period after you had sex with the guy, then you are not pregnant from your time with him before menstruation.
Learn your lesson well my friend. ↑ |
| Name: Irene | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 6:05 AM |
| if what you say is true that you had a period on june 10th the week after you had sex, well then your not pregnant by this other guy... ↑ |
| Name: Isabella | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 6:38 AM |
| I had a baby and just dont know who the father is. I was with him 10 days before my period and when I was suppose to get my period I only got it for 2 days and a month later I found out I was pregnant. the mest up part about it, is that I was with husband also,but at that time I wasen't trying to get pregnant. and now I just dont know what to do! can someone please give me some good advice. ↑ |
| Name: isabelaa | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 6:42 AM |
| I did learn my lesson my friend. for your information there are sittuations that woman get there period the whole 9 months, did u not know that. My friend ↑ |
| Name: Irene | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 6:45 AM |
if you were not trying to get pregnant , why wouldn't you use protection,
I'm sorry you're going through this, and I can not begin to imagine how scary that must feel to be in your situation, you better start praying that this baby is your husbands and not this other guy,
i wish i could give you better advice, but i cant..
i wish you came in here for advice before you were about to sleep with this other man,
anyway isabella, i hope all goes well for you, and i hope you find what it is you are looking for,
take care ↑ |
| Name: Isabella | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 6:46 AM |
Irene,
so it wouldn't be from the 1st guy, than? For example I was with him on the 4th and I got my last period on the 14 or so but for a day in a half and than the following month witch was 1/27 I found out that I was 6 weeks ↑ |
| Name: Isabella | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 6:49 AM |
| I guess in that moment I wasen't thinking about it. I wasen't t hinking about what was going to happen next. but that's cool, thanks for your advice. I guess this is why people chat , either to get advice or get judge. no one is perfect and i take nothing personal. ↑ |
| Name: Isabella | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 6:53 AM |
| InfamousMommie. I'm in the same situattion. and going through the same problem, don't fell bad about what people say, don't take it personal. same thing happen to me. if you need someone to talk to. go right ahead. ↑ |
| Name: Isabella | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 6:54 AM |
| Chris, if you have nothing good to say, dont chat at all. people are here for advice not to read stupid comments. ↑ |
| Name: Irene | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 6:56 AM |
please dont think im judging you, im not judging you...
if you were with him on the 4th and then got your period 10 days later, than this pregnacy is not from him, even if it was shorter than usual, so then on 27th of jan you were 5 weeks pregnant, thats only going by your last menstural period isant it?
wait till you have your first ultrasound, you might be less than what you think you are..
but i can tell you that if your datyes are right on when you got your period 10 days after you slept with him, than relax, its not his, and I wish you all the best, and nobody has right to judge anyone, and im sorry if it seemed as though i was, but i wasnt,
if you want to chat im here for you, God bless you Isabella ↑ |
| Name: Isabela | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 7:10 AM |
Irene,
Thank you, I Really do need someone to talk to, it's like I have no one to talk to or go to. I feel as if I've told everyone my problems and it comes back to be the same answer. I was taking care of myself for 3 whole years with my husband and we weren't thinking of having another baby. so it's like I dont know what to think??? cause with the 1st guy we didn't use nothing or he didn't even bother to pull out and my husbabnd always did.. ↑ |
| Name: Chris | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 7:55 AM |
Isabella??
Uh, what did I say that was 'nothing good'?
InfamousMommie asked a question, I answered it. Then I just added to learn her lesson well. Is there something wrong with that?
I'm sorry I offended you by making that comment.
I'm a bit confused I guess, are you the person that posted as "Infamous Mommie"?
Oh, and did I understand you correctly that you think that women can get their menses while they are pregnant? ↑ |
| Name: Sally | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 9:32 AM |
are you Isabella...Infamous mOMMIE??
yay or nay...
anyway just wanted to say To Isabella whos your fella?
your husband or the Guy? ↑ |
| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 12:31 PM |
I have 2 queries with this whole thread... are there 2 Isabellas? From my perspective of reading this entire thread it looks like there are either 2 Isabellas or she is writing all the posts and spelling her name differently.
Secondly, if you have a problem with a post why do you back off rather than getting agro and trying to diciplin people who offend you? From what I have read, there is nothing that is offensive or rude and I think that your comments to Chris were a little unnecessary.
If you are seriously needing some medical advice, I would strongly suggest you seek medical advice from a professional practitioner as aposed to irationally over-reacting to normal woman who are quite entitled to expressed their opion.
Oh and by the way, if you don't like what I have to say, tell me in what ever manner you see fit, then I can respond to you in a calm way that I care sub-zero cos I'm due to have a baby in 2 days and I have plenty on time on my hands to read and reply to comments on here. Have a nice day! ↑ |
| Name: jenn | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 1:56 PM |
well i did get a period for like two days, which i guess wasnt actually a period, but i did bleed for a couple days, pretty heavy and then it stopped.... so i didnt think i was preg... and when i tried to tell the father he didnt believe me since my "period" had come on in the middle of... you know....and he saw the blood.
i wasnt trying to get pregnant either, but this guy was alot older and kept saying he wanted kids more than anything, and didnt use protection, and like a stupid idiot i believed him..... well guess who wanted me to get an abortion???? i dont even think he believes im pregnant since he saw the blood for himself....
infamous you should count back 5 weeks from july 13th.... no, i dont think theres any way this guy could be the father, im sure you had a normal period and conceived after it....
just pray that the baby comes out looking like your boyfriend!!! lol
the worst is when a woman has cheated on her boyfriend/husband with an african american guy and doesnt tell him and has to wait the whole nine months to see if the baby comes out black cause then the secrets out! lol that happened to a girl i know but luckily the baby turned out to be the boyfriends. ↑ |
| Name: Chris R | Date: Mar 9th, 2006 7:45 AM |
| I just found this thread and realized there's another Chris here too. Just wanted to mention that...I chaven't posted here at all, but just want to wish InFamousMommie good luck. My husband would seriously leave me ina heartbeat if I ever cheated. That's the one thing he could never handle. So I have no idea where you're coming from, but I think you probably need to be open and honest with him, if he finds out later he will be really hurt. Plus, how mad can he stay when he holds that beautiful baby in his arms? ↑ |
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