Ok, here is me bitching so you better listen up and be nice LOL
Ok, well I put one of our dogs on Craigslist a few weeks ago. We just don't have the time for him and it's not fair. He doesn't want to come in the house, but barks when my other dog does and she is just not an outside dog like him. I feel bad so we listed him.
Immediately we got several responses. One family met him, loved him and said they would get back to me. They didn't so when another family called me and said they will take him Wednesday and to take the ad down, I said ok and we made arrangements. The original family said they wanted him and I had to tell them it was too late, but if things fell through they wanted me to call them. Wednesday came and the couple never showed. I finally called them at 8 pm and the guy sounded drunk. He told me his wife was not home (I could hear her say "I don't want to talk" in the background) but I talked to him and he said they still might want him but they are not sure. I told him I was not interested in giving my dog to them. I called the other family, they are out of town and so I relisted him until I hear back. I am so pissed though.
THEN, me and Kaden had a bath and I went into my room to get some clothes for him out of the laundry pile. I found the cat we are (sorry were, I took her back today) fostering had shit on my floor and was in the middle of pissing on our pillows, my body pillow and our king size down duvet. I grabbed her and threw her outside, and took her to the shelter this morning. She has never done anything like that and it just fucking pissed me off. Me and Tyler had to sleep on the futon last night. Of course Kaden was up for about 3 hours in the middle of the night too, so our sleep sucked.
Then I found out Tyler is probably leaving for Alaska in the next few weeks. He will be gone about 20 days and back for 8. I don't know why he has to leave the country, there is no cell or internet where he will be and the only good thing is the awesome money. He just called me from work and he won't be home tonight, and he will be doing 16 hour days for the next week. Kaden is being a terror and I have no family here to help and with Tyler gone so long I won't have any time with him before Alaska.
Sorry for this, I am just so stressed right now and shit just seems to pile up. Things have been going so well until the past few days :( ↓
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| Name: lil_dancer77 | Date: Sep 13th, 2007 11:10 PM |
Oh thats not good!! Try not to stress you really dont need it!!!!!!!!!!
Hope things turn out ok!!! ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Sep 14th, 2007 12:27 AM |
aww im sorry randi, try not to stress too much, well you got the cat out so thats one less stress at least, and soon to be the dog too, do you know when the family gets back into town?? and what does tyler do that he has to be gone for so long??
and dont be sorry for venting we all do it esp me! ↑ |
| Name: Randi | Date: Sep 14th, 2007 1:08 AM |
Ok, I feel a little better now. Thanks guys.
The mother from the original family called me about an hour ago (she asked if my mom was there LOL) and we talked for a long time. I told her what happened and why it fell through and we are going to get together this weekend. They are moving into a house, but need to clean and remodel for the next week and a half. They are going to take him for sure (and I believe her 100%) and if things go well in the next couple days it will be this weekend rather than in a week or two after everything is done.
Tyler is a welder and the US is hiring a lot of Canadian welders right now because the difference between the US and CDN welders is huge. They are having a lot of problems in Alaska right now and need more qualified people. It's great money, but I won't be able to get ahold of him. No cell or internet... only a satellite phone for emergencies. He will be gone 20 days and home for 8, gone for 20 etc.
Oh and on top of that, Dick and Daniele are in the final two on Big Brother and I feel like smashing my TV haha I hate them. ↑ |
| Name: lil_dancer77 | Date: Sep 14th, 2007 2:45 AM |
hahaha take the anger and frustration out on Big Brother!!! WE have it here in Aus too its just finished and its such a waste of space...once all the good people are gone it gets boring...ours is so cencored aswell they cover every swear word, every "private body part" and they used to hve uncut where you could see them doing things they would not show ont eh regular show then heaps of people complained and now..well its just boring!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Glad you have got someone to take the dog!! Pets are so much like family too and it helps when you know they are going somewhere that is safe and they will be well looked after!
Its going to be hard with Tyler being away for that amount of time.. is it for long? It would be easier if you were actaully able to stay in contact! You will just have to treasure every moment you get together in the 8 days he is back!
Hope your starting to feel a bit better! ↑ |
| Name: NIKKIS | Date: Sep 14th, 2007 3:25 AM |
i too am pissed about big brother!
i'm sorry things are sucking so bad. at least the nice family will be getting the dog. it sucks about tyler leaving but the money will be good since number 2 is coming along. maybe kaden will start sleeping while he is gone. (what? one can hope :) ↑ |
| Name: Randi | Date: Sep 14th, 2007 3:30 AM |
Thanks : )
I think I am just hormonal. With Kaden I was never like this, but with this pregnancy I am so sensitive and I worry about everything so much. I don't know how long Tyler will keep this job. He makes awesome money now, but this will be about 2 or 3 times that. We would be able to pay off a bigger vehicle right away and a down payment for a bigger house closer to family. My problem is not that he will be away, he is gone some nights as it is (like today, he is working a 22 hour day) and I don't see him, but I can call him anytime. It bothers me I won't be able to touch base with him unless something is wrong and it scares me because I am 18 hours away from family and friends. I have no one here :| ↑ |
| Name: Randi | Date: Sep 14th, 2007 3:31 AM |
I know Nikki! When you called me I was trying so hard not to get mad. I watched Dick win and turned off the TV. I felt like yelling but you told me you didn't want me to give it away LOL
I hope Dick wins over Daniele though. I hate her. I also can't wait until they tell everyone about Eric! I love him. ↑ |
| Name: NIKKIS | Date: Sep 14th, 2007 3:34 AM |
I LOVE ERIC TOO!!!!!!!
i wanted him to win sooo bad!
well thanks for not giving it away. if you want to keep the conversation from earlier giving give me a call. brooke's asleep and i'm not doing anything else ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Sep 14th, 2007 2:03 PM |
| LOL i don't watch big brother but i do watch Top Chef, and i cried the other day when they got rid of CJ, he was my favorite of the ones who were still there, i never cry about a reality tv show, maybe i'm pregnant too! LMAO!!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: NIKKIS | Date: Sep 15th, 2007 3:12 AM |
| lauren i also watch top chef. when cj went home it was sad. my mom was bummed when tre went home. i want casey to win! ↑ |
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