Okay girls my hubby and I are still TTC, after a miscarriage in early August, I have become emotional just for the past 2 days, just want to cry. My cousin had her baby girl 2 days ago, and I think this is what has brought on my sadness....
I am very happy for her just that I feel so sad that I lost my baby at 10 weeks, and I am so freeking scared that if I become pregnant again that I will have problems again. I know that I should not look at it that way but I would not be able to handle another loss.
Any of you had a miscarriage and felt this way and now are currently pregnant?
Did you feel insecure at first of losing the baby?
What scares me the most is that the doctor said back then in early August, was that my progesterone levels were very low, well one of my Aunt's lost 2 pregnancies due to NO progesterone produced by her ovaries, and I am afraid this is something that can be inharated... SO FRUSTRATING. ↓
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| Name: April Sue | Date: Dec 15th, 2006 8:58 PM |
| I have not had a miscarriage and I can only imagine the hurt of a loss like that. I know that there are many women who have had miscarriages and went on to have several health babies. My aunt had several miscarriages and now has three grown daughters and five grandchildren. So keep trying and know that there is hope. Good luck. I hope you are staring at a stick you peed on and smilling soon. ; ) ↑ |
| Name: anomaly123 | Date: Dec 16th, 2006 4:38 AM |
| i had a miscarriage at 6 wks, a little over a month ago.. our doc told us to wait 2 months, but we were pretty sad about it so we've been trying again already... i still havent gotten my period and its been 42 days now since the m.c. i took a pregnancy test earlier and it came back positive, but im not sure if it is a false positive since maybe i still have some of the hormone in my system? im also very afraid of having another m.c. especially if i really am pregnant so soon after having lost the baby. ↑ |
| Name: Logan | Date: Dec 16th, 2006 3:13 PM |
| Anomaly123, since you feel very sad over your lost just a little bit ago, I personally would wait a little longer, It will be very terrifying for us who have been through it. I think my body was still out of wack after my miscarriage, my first 2 periods were a little different but since November everything seems to be back to normal. ↑ |
| Name: christiansmommy | Date: Dec 17th, 2006 5:11 PM |
hey, logan. keep your head up girl. remember, our docs said our chances of another miscarriage are slim to none? (mine said that) i understand what you are going through as far as your cousin goes. remember i was having the same issue as well? i even had a dream about her and her big baby belly. i was so mad at her. so resentful. i know i am dreaming about this b/c i really feel that way. i am still mad as hell. i don't want her pregnancy in my dreams. i don't even want to know anything about her situation with that. i am even glad we don't talk anymore, so that i dont have to be fake and try and be happy for her when she calls to tell me stuff. we were already not speaking anymore about 2 years ago. only when i saw her when she came into town. we were cordial to one another, but no conversations, even though i could tell she wanted to. i will get over this situation when i feel like it.
it will happen for us. it might take a while, but it will happen. :-) ↑ |
| Name: Logan | Date: Dec 17th, 2006 6:19 PM |
| Christiansmommy, how are you? Thank you so much for your support. I am doing better, I go through ups and downs. I am over my ovulating period this passed week, so we wil C if it happens or not this month.. he he he... ↑ |
| Name: sweet tomorrow | Date: Dec 17th, 2006 9:11 PM |
| Hey Logan, Keep your head up. If and when you do become pregnant I am sure your doctor will keep an eye on everything to make sure it doesn't happen again. I know it's hard to move past those feelings and the worries it will happen again. When you become pregnant speak to your doctor and tell them your worries. ↑ |
| Name: Logan | Date: Dec 18th, 2006 2:54 AM |
| Sweet tomorrow, how are you? Yes I am planning as soon as I see a positive on the test to call my doctor right away. I in fact talk to him just a few days ago since I had an appt, he told me as soon as I became pregnant to call him. :o) ↑ |
| Name: sweet tomorrow | Date: Dec 18th, 2006 3:14 AM |
| Logan I'm doing pretty good. Well that's a good thing. I'm sure the next pregnancy will work out. Just keep a close eye on things. I know there is a machine you can rent to keep an eye on the baby. Maybe you should look into one of those to help keep your mind at ease. ↑ |
| Name: popes_gurl_54 | Date: Dec 19th, 2006 7:56 AM |
my husband and i went thru two miscarriages and i was miserable thru both of them. The first I had was because I slipped on the ice on the stairs at our apartment and fell down the whole flight of steps. I lost a little girl at 4 1/2 months......the second one was in july and i was only five weeks along....but I have finally been cleared to start trying again!!!!!
So, as a matter of fact, I'm late right now, waiting until Xmas Eve to take the test. I'm terrified of losing another baby, but my doctor has told me there is hardly any risk at another loss...so just keep you head up and keep on trying!!!!!
if you want to talk, my msn messenger is popes_gurl and my email is [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Logan | Date: Dec 19th, 2006 8:02 PM |
Popes Gurl, I am so sorry to hear about that. Gosh I dont really know what to say except that I hope you are preggers now as we speak...
Do you know the cause of your 2nd miscarriage? ↑ |
| Name: popes_gurl_54 | Date: Dec 19th, 2006 9:41 PM |
the doctor said it was a spontaneous miscarriage, not really much of an answer, but that's all that he told me
we thought we were, but I think in the next few days, I think I will get the proof that I'm not, if you know what I mean ↑ |
| Name: Logan | Date: Dec 19th, 2006 10:00 PM |
| Oh I see, same thing with me the doctor really didnt say much. He just said it was just natures way of getting rid of what was not forming properly. He said I am healthy and should have no problems next time. ↑ |
| Name: popes_gurl_54 | Date: Dec 19th, 2006 11:40 PM |
well, good luck, i just got my proof that we're not pregnant
so...guess we'll try again in a few weeks ↑ |
| Name: Logan | Date: Dec 19th, 2006 11:42 PM |
| Oh crappers, I will let you know when I test at the end of the month ↑ |
| Name: popes_gurl_54 | Date: Dec 20th, 2006 9:37 PM |
| well, i'll keep my fingers crossed for both of us!!! ↑ |
| Name: christiansmommy | Date: Dec 21st, 2006 1:52 AM |
| Name: Logan | Date: Dec 21st, 2006 2:18 AM |
| ...and for Christiansmommy also.. wink wink ↑ |
| Name: mommyinwaiting | Date: Dec 21st, 2006 2:41 AM |
| Hi Logan, I have been pregnant 5 times. I lost 3 my first preg, my 3rd & 4th preg. I have a 23 year old son and with my 11 year old daughter I was on bedrest for 7 months. I know exactly how you feel. Especially after the first miscarriage. And by the time I got to my daughter, I was so scared. After she was born, I was still scared because it took so long to make her. The doctor told me I couldn't hold her too much so I did! Then at her 2 month check up the doc asked developement questions and she wasn't doing those, because I never put her down lol. Most OB/GYN docs will work with you to help you become pregnant, share with your doctor your concerns :) good luck! ↑ |
| Name: Logan | Date: Dec 21st, 2006 2:44 AM |
| Mommyinwaiting, I am hoping and praying that next time everything will be okay, thanks for sharing your experience with me. ;o) ↑ |
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