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I've been having problems since 7 wks such as being dehydrated, fever, and spotting to bleeding...and If you remember about 2 weeks ago i posted about my threaten MC...well...July 2....almost 10 wks it happen. It's so heartbreaking...Its been a week now and well I cant help but to feel VERY sad...depressed...just emotional...not mad just ...ya know? My doc. said it was nothing i did and that its very common that 1st timers end up in MC. Its hard. My husband is there for me though...We have been through SO much the past 6 yrs we have been together and IM truley Blessed that he is MINE. But I hurt that he is hurt. He was really excited about the baby , and now i know he is in pain....heartbroken, but doesnt want me to really know cause he doesnt want me to hurt any more than i already am. Every time i touchmy belly...i feel empty...I find myself laying in bed at night still having dreams about being pregnant and well feeling the baby move, then i wake up holding my tummie...and start to cry. I KNOW I will get past this...and I try to think that this did happened for a reason. God had a reason.... But...the pain in my heart, my feelings...they still hurt. My husband and I talked about it...and we have decided to try in a few months. It's painful to think about it but helpful....Thanks for all your support and Best of luck to all you great mothers....Thanks ↓
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| Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Jul 10th, 2006 3:24 PM |
| I am sure that this won't make you feel any better right now because only time can heal a broken heart. But I am truely sorry about your lose. ↑ |
| Name: patricia | Date: Jul 10th, 2006 3:27 PM |
| Im so sorry for ur loss, i can't begin to imagine wat u are going through and i hope i never get to experence it. U seem such a strong person from ur post and that is something to b proud of especially at such a hard time like this. My friend also had a miscarriage and really time WILL make it better. I also believe that everything happens for a reason evn when it can be something horrible. Any ways....Good luck to u and ur husband in the next few months, u are in my thoughts xx ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Jul 10th, 2006 3:28 PM |
| I am sorry for your lose but im glad you are trying to be strong through it and that you will be trying to have another one in the furture and not just giving up because I have a few friends who have misscarried and they wont even try for another baby which I know could be hard ↑ |
| Name: BreCha | Date: Jul 10th, 2006 4:58 PM |
| I just want to thank you all for your comments and concern...You all make me feel better and stronger...Thanks soooooo MUCH! ↑ |
| Name: nicole jones | Date: Jul 10th, 2006 5:53 PM |
| I am so sorry Brecha... I can't even imagine... I'm 5 weeks into a high risk pregnancy right now - and I'm terrified of MC, constantly I'm thinking about it. It really helps me to know that if that if God decides that it isn't time for me to have a baby I will be okay, and not be alone. You must be a really wonderful person to handle a horrible thing like that so well. I hope you will again be blessed soon. ↑ |
| Name: BreCha | Date: Jul 10th, 2006 6:19 PM |
| nicole-i pray everything goes well try to keep off your feet, rest as much as possible, drink lots of water...and dont stress...But again....God...He has it all planned out for us all...If its not meant to be now...doesnt mean its not meant to be ever. Every moment that passes I get stronger...Every comment i get i feel better. Good luck and again...I will keep you in my prayers...all of you. ↑ |
| Name: Denise | Date: Jul 10th, 2006 7:56 PM |
| I am so sorry, I know this want make you feel any better, but you will see this baby again some day ( in heaven). Keep up the faith and may God bless you. ↑ |
| Name: zasamich | Date: Jul 11th, 2006 3:30 PM |
You're right, it is very common for first timers. My doctor told me that after I miscarried at 5 weeks. I only knew I was pregnant for two days before I started bleeding.... It is heartbreaking. The doctor even said that almost every single woman has at least one miscarriage in her lifetime, but often they just happen so early that the women don't know that they were ever pregnant. Just in your case, you knew and you had time to get attached.
The good news is, this probably has no bearing at all on your future pregnancies. My husband I took one month off after the miscarriage, and got pregnant the month after that. I'm now at 39 weeks.
I'm so glad you have a supportive husband, it makes a huge difference. And all of us here look forward to congratulating you in the future. ↑ |
| Name: jela05 | Date: Jul 12th, 2006 1:27 AM |
BreCha I should have seen this post first.. I feel your pain as I went thru a M/C at 12/13 weeks. I guess it is common to M/C no matter which # you are at.. This pregnancy was my 5th one with 3 healthy babies..I will see you back on these boards somewhere when we get pregnant again!! My thoughts are with you.
Is there a M/C board on this site? I have been at this one since my M/C it might help you with alot of questions you might have.. I have found it to be comforting..
http://www.pamsupp
ort.org/forum/viewforum.php?f=33
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| Name: KimH | Date: Jul 12th, 2006 8:57 PM |
| A friend of mine had a miscarriage in Dec. It was so hard for her, I don't think it ever really goes away but will get better. I know it is hard to think of other pregnant women right now, but I wanted to share her story a little. She had tried for a long time and finally became pregnant and miscarried at 12 weeks. She was pregnant again by March and is now at 19 weeks, Yeah! I think good things will happen to good people and your moment will come. Keep on trying, they say it is best to wait one full cycle and to be emotionally ready first. Good luck ad I am very sorry! ↑ |
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