I realized you already apologized to me... but I was just reading another post where you were really really rude to someone else, and then apologized - and when confronted with what you said about me, you turned right around and said it again! I don't know what your problem is, and I realize you are very unhappy about your situation, but you're being really unecessarily rude. If you were smart you'd be respectful and supportive on here, and maybe some people would be able to help you through your unplanned pregnancy instead of constantly have to correct your behavior.
I came on here to get support from other women, and so far I've developed several friendships with people on here. Some I talked to a get support from just in the forum, some e-mail and call on the telephone now, and some actually SENT ME PRESENTS when they found out I was expecting! There is far more to be gotten out of this website if you change your attitude. ↓
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| Name: scared1906 | Date: Jul 16th, 2006 2:17 PM |
i totally agree with you nicole jones she replied to my post pregnancy as result of rape (not some made up story)
and was completely out of order then she apoligesed . ↑ |
| Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Jul 16th, 2006 4:10 PM |
Well said Nicole. However, I wouldn't let her get to you. She has made it clear to anyone and everyone who read her post that she doesn't want to pregnant. The reality is she is.
I don't want to defend her because what she has said to some of the people who are just looking for support was very un called for. She's having a hard time dealing with the fact that she is pregnant. He boyfriend (I believe she said boyfriend and not husband) was happy and I think this makes it even harder because she herself doesn't seem to be able to be happy about this baby. I don't think she can understand why certain people (it seems she attacks those who are young) can be so happy about being pregnant or wanting to be pregnant. She just needs to realize that this baby does not mean the end of her life. That whatever it is that she wants to accomplish in her life she still can, but it's up to her how much time she is willing to give to those goals. The timing might now have been an ideal time for her, but it is what it is. Things happen for a reason. I believe that we are never given anything that we can not handle. In some cases it may seem as if someone hates us, but these are the time that make us stronger. ↑ |
| Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Jul 16th, 2006 4:11 PM |
| There are more people in here that give there support then there are try to knock us down. ↑ |
| Name: nicole jones | Date: Jul 16th, 2006 6:37 PM |
| You're right Ethansmom - I just have kind of a sore spot for people with her exact attitude. If she was rude in general, it would be easily ignored. But I just don't think she realizes that even though she is bad mouthing her "pregnancy" right now.... that is her CHILD... and how horrible would that child feel if it ever found out? Besides the fact that there are women on here desprately trying for a child, or trying to keep a pregnancy going in the face of illness, or even trying to adopt, that don't care what kind of baby they are given, or when... they just want to be mothers. Babies are blessing no matter when or how people have them, none of them are mistakes. ↑ |
| Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Jul 16th, 2006 10:11 PM |
I too believe that babies are given to us not by mistake but for a reason.
Ktx told scared1906 that she was being selfish for bring her baby into the world because of how it was concieved. She did not ask to be raped but the reality is she was and as a result she now has a beautiful baby girl that she just had on the 14th. She has loved the baby from the start. I believe her daughter was given to her as a blessing in disguise. If she didn't end up pregnant where would she be right now? Would she feel the same way about life as she does at this moment?
It is sad that she feel the way that she does and hopefully for the sake of her son or daughter she will be able to overcome her feelings of anger towards the pregnancy. I would hate to see her have this baby only to still feel the same way about that child. I've seen other post where she actually isn't rude and then other times she just down right mean. She definately has a strong opinion as to what age is approperiate to become mother and as to how you go about concieving. I'm curious on whether she would feel the same way if she actually was enjoying every aspect of being pregnant. Why does she hate the fact that she is pregnant? No one feel this way unless there is a reason for it. ↑ |
| Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Jul 16th, 2006 10:20 PM |
I think you did the right thing by confronting Ktx. I think that I would feel the same way if she did the same thing to me that she did to you.
Babies are a blessing regardless of whether they are your own biological children or one that you adopted. And your baby or babies are also a gift. I have a feeling the same feeling for you that I had when my friend was looking at possibly losing one of babies. I had a feeling that her twin where going to okay and last year August she gave birth to two wonderful little boys. I have a good feeling that you baby/babies will be okay as well. Today technology has come so far that they can perform a surgery with no complication to the baby. You just have to keep thinking positive. Telling yourself that everything is going to work out for the best. ↑ |
| Name: nicole jones | Date: Jul 16th, 2006 10:33 PM |
Thanks Ethansmom. I hope you are right.
As far the the Ktx thing, I just think she really could be getting support on here, and getting tips, advice, etc. on being a good mother... I haven't really heard her ask a question or ask for support yet. I think if she got her attitude out of the way people could help her. ↑ |
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