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Name: Jessica1815
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hey everybody let me now if you have this problem to, lately my boyfriends sister has been very controling and is trying to pick out all of my baby stuff for me and if i tell her i dont like it or if i say i dont like the color of it than she gets all mad and tells me im picky and i just want expensive stuff. For example for my baby shower she wants to get me a bathtub and she showed me it and i really dont like the way it is made and i already picked one out so i told her the one i want to see if she could get it and she freaked out and said that she is getting the one she wanted ans she also did the same thing with my diaper bag but i ignored her and just bought the one i wanted but what should i do she is so controling.

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Name: chrissie6988 | Date: Feb 12th, 2007 10:20 PM
this is like the wedding invader, but with babies lol. i think the problem is ppl try to pick what they would have or wanted when they had there children and don't take in to consideration that this is ur baby and ur life. i suggest next time her birthday comes round take her shopping for a dress or something ask her wot she likes then when she picks something , pick out the ugliest clothes you can find and tell her "you" like it so that's wot shes getting! 

Name: Coartney | Date: Feb 12th, 2007 10:26 PM
tell her to go to hell and not buy you anything. its your damn kid, your damn shower and you'll cry if you want to! haha 

Name: Jessica1815 | Date: Feb 12th, 2007 10:49 PM
lol ya ive tried all those she wont listen she is more like a tom boy and wears like boots and hangs out with the guys alot and doesnt really have alot of friends that are girls (by the way im having a girl) but i picked out a cute dress and she sat there and said you know shes not gonna wear that right and i was like why and she was like she is going to be a tom boy and were gonna make her tough and by the way her two daughters are violent and they are only 2 and 4 but if she trys to make my daughter a tom boy im gonna have some words with her ass 

Name: breemichelle | Date: Feb 12th, 2007 11:31 PM
I'm not usually a very picky person and I am very welcome and open to suggestions, but I picked out the stuff on my registry for a reason, it's because I liked it, or did extensive searches and reviews, or opinion polls on the products before I picked them out and have decided those are the right products for me, so if people get me a diaper genie original instead of the diaper genie II it's going back to the store, same with pretty much everything on my list unless someone gives me a good explanation for why a different product is better. =) 

Name: Marti | Date: Feb 12th, 2007 11:47 PM
I hear you Jessica. I made the mistake of asking my sister to hlep me with my registry. I just needed help with practical stuff. Now we fight whenever I try to change something. UGH. I just needed help I didn't need it to become HER registry... 

Name: sweet tomorrow | Date: Feb 12th, 2007 11:49 PM
Tell her to screw off this is your baby you want what you want not what she wants.. if she'd like to buy ugly things then tell her to keep them at her house when the baby visits 


Name: VeggieMom2B | Date: Feb 13th, 2007 12:25 AM
OMG! I have the same problem with my mother inlow. The worse was when she got us a little baby sandals made out of lather knowing we are vegan and against using any animal products She gets as so much stuff, and lots of it my hub & I do not like at all. We don't know how to tell her with out ofending her. 

Name: VeggieMom2B | Date: Feb 13th, 2007 12:27 AM
besides, she smokes a lot so everything smells like cigs. yack!!! I had to wash something few times before the smell totally disapear. Sucks!!! 

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