It is absolutely not normal. I mean there's no definition for what normal is, but if you haven't had sex in 9 months, then something is definitely wrong!! You either need to seek counseling or consider a seperation. I'm a product of a bad marriage, and let me tell you I would have rather them ended it long ago. They dragged it on b/c my mom was too scared to leave. Is he being unfaithful? I mean most men won't go w/out sex for 9 mths. I wish you the best of luck w/ your baby, but you need to stop worrying about this a**hole and start worrying about your children. ↑ |
I would have to say that this would probably be considered not normal. I think after 9 months counseling probably would be your best bet if you want to save your marriage, since it sounds like he won't talk to you about how you are feeling. ↑ |
Did he act the same way with the other two pregnancy's? I know my hubby is scared to have sex with me cuz he thinks he might hurt the baby....Maybe he feels alot of stress from having another child. I woudnt just end it, I would see how he is after the baby is born *since its due tommorow, and good luck* and if hes still the same seek a therapist, and dont worry I know many men that have gone 9 months without sex dont worry yourself with that issue unless it comes to it....best of luck ↑ |