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I have seven days before the baby is due. Last weekend I asked my boyfriend like all day Fri & Sat if he wanted to do something before the baby comes. He kept saying we will tomorrow. So Saturday night his friend came over and he said he was going to hang out with him. Of course I got mad because I had been asking him to go do something and it was always no. So after I tried telling him why I was so mad he got mad stayed home and was grumpy the rest of the night. I got so upset because he thought I was just being a you know what that I was crying and he just said stop crying before you go into labor. So what would you do???? ↓

Name: Nora | Date: Mar 17th, 2006 12:43 AM

Let him go play with his friend.. and remind him that he made a promise to you to spend time together before the baby arrives.. have a sit down with him and figure out together what the 2 of you can do that will be enjoyable like stay at home with popcorn and a movie, or have a picnic at the park... also ask him why he's been putting off wanting to spend time with you.. back him into a corner and make him talk.. there is no excuse for him to ignore you like this. ↑

Name: sonia | Date: Mar 17th, 2006 1:04 AM

When I was pregnant my husband was the same way. He would make me cry and did not understand the emotional period I was going through. Now that the baby is here he realizes how we should of had our time to ourself. Eating out is a task. Tell him he can spend time with his friend and then you. Time goes by fast so enjoy it and don't take it for granted. ↑