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I don't understand. I just read like 4-5 topics of girls being pregnant at like 12 and 15...thats horribal...I didn't loose my verginity until I was 17!!!!! And I'm only 19 now. It amazes me..it really does...does anyone else find it messed up??? ↓
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| Name: no | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 6:26 PM |
| Name: disturbing | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 6:41 PM |
| yes i do find it messed up. some of them dont even know how to insert a penis if you read some of their stories. one thought you could actually get pregnant from having anal sex. then when they get pregnant they're like "oh no dont know what I'm going to do" give me a break you should of thought of that long before you spread those legs.. and yes that is where the penis goes.. between your legs. ↑ |
| Name: heather | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 7:04 PM |
| like your name says...who cares...why does it bother you so much? im 18, but ive learned alot from my experiences. i started having sex at 12 and drinking and whatever else, im 18 now and i have my head on straight...all of them f*ked up experiences got me to who i am today. im almost 7 months pregnant and im putting myself through college. since ive straightened up, im really close to my family that i dont even care about friends. at 12 its bad and people look at you like your disgusting and you might just be, but its true that people do change. through all of this ive learned soo much. i would kill my daughter if she had sex at 12, but its a whole different story when you put yourself through it. im glad you had your head on throughout your life. it must be nice. but its also nice to know that someone can give all that up and start over again. there is a second chance and god doesnt throw anything at us that we cant handle, we learn and always get around it. im really sad to say that i was one of them girls and i will also say that i will NEVER give advice to a 12 year old that wants to have sex or a 15 year old that wants a baby because through all this, life is hard. babies arent just cute and theyre not there for you to show them off...you cant have a baby with someone because you THINK you love them, thats just not how it works. i had a bf for 3 years when i was in high school and we always had unprotected sex, thank god i never got pregnant, because you girls out there that havent graduated are going to see how hard it is trying to get on your feet and raise a baby (unless your mans rich, but that doesnt come around very often) 18 is the age that im supposed to be doing something with my life and bettering myself, how the hell would i afford and manage to be a mother at the age of 12-17? i couldnt do it. im glad god blessed me when he did, you girls just dont know. ↑ |
| Name: heather | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 7:07 PM |
| I lost my virginity when I was 15 and I didnt know anything about sex except for the 5th grade sex ed they give you and that was it. I regret doing it but I heard other girls talk about it saying it hurts and stuff so I wanted to see how it felt and they were right. I am 21 yrs old now and will have my 2nd child in may. My son is 3. But when I had sex it was protected sex not like now adays when teens know about condoms and dont want to use them cuz it doesn't feel right Yeah right i'd rather it not feel right then have an std or aids. What I do think is messed up is 12, 13, 14 yr olds having sex HELLO I was still playing with barbies at 12 and at 13 I had just got my period so I didnt want to know anything about that and at 14 I was just starting highschool trying to fit in too much to think about sex and boys. ↑ |
| Name: clk | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 7:10 PM |
| i dont blame the kids i blame the parents...my mom never talked to me about sex and most of these girls say they want to try it cause they dont know anything about it...well maybe parents shuld talk to there kids more ↑ |
| Name: heather | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 8:23 PM |
| thats somewhat true..i agree. at 12 years old i was stuck every single friday and saturday watching a 2 year old and a some odd number month old..i dont remember how old my little brother was. so thats why i started to sneak out...i love my mom though. we went through some difficult things but shes my best friend. ↑ |
| Name: clk | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 8:30 PM |
| most parents are embarrased to talk to the there kids about sex and drugs or they pressure them to hard so the kids rebel...parents need to talk to there kids and know where there kids are at at all times ↑ |
| Name: Gill | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 11:12 PM |
| I wouldn't say that any pregnancy is horrible. Giving birth and loving your baby, though I have no experience as I'm not yet a mother nor was I ever mothered, is probably the most beautiful thing in the world. The problem is 12-15 year olds are still young and immature, they don't have the financial or emotional means to support their baby, and rely on others, moreso their parents or the State in order to help them raise their child. Many 12 year old still have to be babysat, wouldn't know how to wash, cook, or clean; it's frightening that a fragile little baby is being placed in their care. Chelsie said that she didn't even know how to make grilled cheese on toast, but may be pregnant. That seriously worried me. Responsibilies can be forced onto a person, even a 12 year old, but maturity and ability can't. I'm 22, engaged to my fiancé, we both work full time, and own a beautiful house together. We've recently decided to start trying for a baby, and even I am worried I might be trying too soon. My parents think I should wait till I'm married. But I think differently. But remember that many 12-15 year olds could probably make better mothers than many adult women who, like my mother give their children away, or subject them to neglect and abuse. Many years ago it was quite commonplace to have a child at 12-14, and in some countries such as India it still is. Young girls are married off asap. It's taboo in Western society, but not all that horrible. Gill :) ↑ |
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