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anyone know if its difficult to concieve after a mc? I know to wait a few mths before trying but since my 1st pregnancy was a mc how hard is it to concieve....im blabbing lol... ↓
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| Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Jul 10th, 2006 6:48 PM |
| I never experience a mc myself but one of my close friends did. She found out that she was pregnant with twin about 6 months later. ↑ |
| Name: Denise | Date: Jul 10th, 2006 7:59 PM |
| I would give myself at least 6 months. There might have been something wrong with the last pregnancy and you wouldn't want it repeated. My sister had a MC and she just couldn't wait, she got preg. within 2 mths. and he suffers from many delays. PS. Not trying to scare you, just being honest. ↑ |
| Name: Brandy | Date: Jul 10th, 2006 9:21 PM |
| Miscarring with first baby is not all that uncommon. I had one with my first pregnancy and found out that my blood type was the cause of it. I now have 2 beautiful healthy boys. Give a little time before you try again but I am sure you will have no problems. Sometimes it's just something that happens for reasons you will never know. Good luck! ↑ |
| Name: firewife | Date: Jul 10th, 2006 9:35 PM |
| Most MD say wait 3 cycles, I did and concieved the first month we tried, although I do not agree with Denise, how can one MC cause problems with a future child? Nothing you did caused the MC, most of the time it simply happens for reasons unknown. My sister and I both MC with in 2 months of each other (both very early around 6 weeks), I waited, she didn't: she became pregnant before she even had her period and we both gave birth to healthy babies in March ↑ |
| Name: Denise | Date: Jul 11th, 2006 12:00 AM |
| My sister got pregnant while on the pill both times, maybe the pill had something to do with it (I don't know), but if it were me I would still wait. ↑ |
| Name: firewife | Date: Jul 11th, 2006 12:43 AM |
| I have heard of birth defects from pregnancy occuring while on the pill. As far as the waiting game you really don't know how you would feel until you are in that postion, losing a pregnancy no matter how early, is tramatic and often we feel that the only thing that will make us happy is to be pregnant again. I know that probaly isn't good for our psychy, but thats what I have found after talking to a lot of people who have had MC. ↑ |
| Name: zasamich | Date: Jul 11th, 2006 3:40 PM |
My miscarriage was very early, so my doctor said only to wait one cycle so that my uterine lining was in the best shape. He said that in a lot of cases, the 'three months' rule is for the benefit of the parents so that they have time to greive.
We took one month off, then got pregnant the first time after that! So far I'm at 39 weeks and have had no problems, except for killer heartburn, swollen feet, all the normal stuff.
Remember early miscarriages are often because either the sperm or egg wasn't quite genetically sound. It has no bearing at all on your future chances. You'll be just fine. ↑ |
| Name: zasamich | Date: Jul 11th, 2006 3:42 PM |
| Oh, that being said, I did use ovulation test sticks (the ones you pee on) the month we conceived. That helped, as I ovulated four days early that month and would've missed it had I not been using the tests. ↑ |
| Name: jela05 | Date: Jul 12th, 2006 1:22 AM |
I really shouldnt be here as I miscarried about a month ago but I started my pregnancy here and cant help to come back and read all the excitment you are all sharing :)
I miscarried my baby when I was going to be 12-13 weeks but the baby had died at 8 weeks. I had to have a D&C as my body was not expelling the lost after 4 weeks. I asked my dr when I can try again, I have read so many different opinions on the topic. My dr said after my first cycle due to the uterus just being scrapped and having to rebuild itself before a baby could possibly survive. Through all of my research about pregnancy after M/C I realize that 1 month gives time for the uterus to reline itself to carry a baby again. I have read numerous things about ppl getting pregnant right away and having healthy babies. Also from what I have read you are more fertile after M/C and I think it mainly comes to this.. if it was an early m/c naturally your fine to TTC anytime afterwards.. the farther along you are and depending if you have a D&C is when you should wait 1 cycle at least. I have had 3 babies and M/C with #4 at 3 1/2 months but I will be trying again after my first cycle.. Sorry for rambling here.. Good luck BreCha with TTC!! I will be right there with ya! ↑ |
| Name: KimH | Date: Jul 12th, 2006 9:01 PM |
| My friend miscarried in Dec. . She is now at 19 weeks, it happened fast for her. ↑ |
| Name: Livy | Date: Jul 13th, 2006 6:08 PM |
| I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks and it happened in May. I was counseled to wait til I have a normal period before trying again. I had one normal period before getting pregnant at the end of July. I have heard that it is sometimes easier to to get pregnant right after a miscarriage becuase your body is already prepared for it, but I also now you should give your self time to heal and for your body to replenish. I had a friend who got pregnant the same month she micarried though, so talk to your doctor and do what is right for you. in general I don't think it is harder unless there were complications from the miscarriage that aren't taken care of. Good luck! ↑ |
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