| it could be both......your so close and have had to manythings happen that you may have bloody show..but if you were checked it may be that...how much blood was there......bloody show usually looks like period blood and would atleast fill one pad ↑ |
I don't remember getting a bloody show. I probably didn't really noticed it, as it probably occured after my waters went.
But I did have a cervical erosion at 23 weeks, which caused some bleeding. So it could well be the aftermath of the checking for dilation. ↑ |
| not everyone has bloody show...i did...but then they had to break my water.....it depends on the person ya know ↑ |
Im pretty sure it was just the aftermath of them checking me 10 times yesterday, cause its gone now. Havent had any serious contractions yet though. Just the same oh mild one's that I was having at the hospital. Im so glad I left even though the doctor didnt want me to.
Im getting nervous though cause if it takes to long I'll probably end up having this baby alone. :( My husband/ fiance (whatever we want to call him) has school in Dallas next week so If I have here while he is at school he wont be able to make it. It was my choice for him not to leave school though. Cause if he leaves he doesnt get the dollar raise for completing it in addition we have to pay $100 for him leave without completing it since his work is paying for it. So in the long run it would be better for him to stay and see her after school if I went into labor. He is ok with it but were both kinda bummed about the fact that he might be there. Im just thinking if I call him cause Im in labor if he leaves school thats an hour or more trip depending on traffic to get to the hospital. And if I still end up having her before he gets there then he misses out on 2 opportunities. I dunno just trying to convience myself that it would be ok if he wasnt there. ↑ |
| my ex husband(soon to be) was in iraq when i had gabby (we were still together then and "happy") so he didnt get to see her until she was almost 3 months old. Youll be fine if he isnt there..is someone going to be there with you though like your mom or something if he cant be there? ↑ |
You dont think if you asked your parents to book a flight to be there they wouldn't ?? Maybe stay at yours for a week when u think your REALLY close ??
Giving birth is such a huge thing.. and support is VITAL !!
I had my daughters dad ( when we were together ) and my mum there....there is now way in hell i would have done this alone without my mums encouraging words.. my mum was over the moon about coming to my birth.. really special experience..
I hope someone will join you. ↑ |
your family wont come up to see you?
Chris missed Tylers too! ↑ |
| LOL rosey same thing said!!! my mom HAD to be there lol and my dad wanted to be n the room too, but i made him stand out side lol ↑ |
| Nah my parents nor I have the money to fly anywhere. If it happens that Im alone then I will be ok. Just alittle scary. ↑ |
