| what is it, a boy or a girl? we are hoping for a boy first so he can be the big brother and protect our daughter, cuz we only plan on having two children, but thats in a perfect world to come out as we would hope, one of each... but we will see, you just have to set your mind that if it is a boy and you wanted a girl that its ok and thats its a beautiful thing.. i wanted a boy so bad, that the thought of me having a girl first upset me, but then i relized hey its ok its our baby that we made together and girls can be just as fun as boys in there oven way, but we find out what ours is on the 3rd!! so excited cant wait ↑ |
How sad that you're gutted about having a healthy baby and it's not the sex you want! I lost my baby to a miscarriage and never knew what we were having, but all I know is that I would have been overjoyed boy or girl. You've been blessed with a gift and should be happy no matter the sex.
I've never been gutted because of this, how selfish. Sorry this is harsh, but it's the plain truth, be grateful for your beautiful gift. Would your feelings change if you lost that baby. What if you carried your baby 9 months and he or she was stillborn? Would the sex of your baby matter then? What if this is the only baby you will be blessed with? ↑ |
| I was really hoping for a girl, and I am having a boy. I was a little bit dissapointed at first - but I was just happy to know what we were having. I don't know if I'd feel different if I thought this would be my last baby, but we are just happy he's healthy now. Maybe you'll get the gender you want next time? ↑ |
| I've heard of women being disappointed because they wanted the other sex. It's not much of a big deal.. I'm sure it'll wear on you having the gender of baby you're having. Good luck. ↑ |
| I was alil upset at 1st myself..we wanted a boy and we are gettin a girl =D I couldnt be happier now tho =D ↑ |
| I was actually disappointment when the tech told us that the baby was a girl. But I am now so excited that I can't believe that I actually ever felt the way that I did. ↑ |
i think its sad that you would be upset whether its a boy or girl!!! I didn't care what it was, as long as its healthy. Its truly a gift that women are able to create such a miracle in life. Some women can't even conceive at all....i just think it's incredibly selfish to feel disappointed about what sex it is....You should embrace this moment in your life and embrace the fact that you're bringing a human being into this world....
Hope you're not offended by this, but it's only my opinion!! ↑ |
| Like you said it's your opinion. And like I said I actually look back at the day that I found out I was having a little girl and can't believe I felt the way I did at that moment. But at that moment I felt the way I felt and unfortunately there is nothing I can do to change that. If I could go back in time I would change how I felt. But I am extremely excited that I am having this little girl and can't wait for her arrival. It took me a long to time to conceive my little girl with many months of disappointments. At one point in my life I was told that there was a possibility that I may not be able to have children. So yes I was disappointment for a moment but that all went away not to long after and she will be loved not because she is a girl or a boy but because I am her mother and she is mine. ↑ |
| thanks for all your advise guys. sorry if i upset some of you by my topic. I didnt want to feel like this and i am truly pleased that the baby is healthy. I am grateful for the gift of pregnancy. sorry again. ↑ |
