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Name: mommy2be416

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i have a question. i was kinda worried last night before i went to bed and i think everythings fine but just to make my self feel better i wanted to hear it from other people too lol last night my fiance and me had sex and at one point he was on top and i dont think he realized it but he was laying really hard on my stomach.. i mean he really wasnt holding himself up at all.. and i kept trying to push him up a little w/ out saying anything and completely ruining the mood.. and i think he finally realized it and sat up more. it worried me though afterwards. i wasnt sure how bad it is to have pressure put on your stomach while being almost 6 months pregnant. i figured its not good though. So from now on im going to try to get him to do different positions to avoid that situation again! Do you think the babys okay being he wasnt laying like that for too long? ↓

Name: Coartney | Date: Dec 18th, 2006 4:00 PM

i am 22 weeks, and not really all that big, but its hardening, and it does hurt if he lays on it during sex, but i have no problem in telling him, ur hurting me, get off my stomach. but im a bitch so ive been told. but ur baby should be fine, ive bumped into things, i have a habit of walking into walls in the middle of the night when i have to get up and pee, andmy baby is perfectly healthy lol ↑

Name: jillw | Date: Dec 18th, 2006 4:01 PM

I am sure that the baby is just fine. They have lots of cushion in there. ↑

Name: mommy2be416 | Date: Dec 18th, 2006 4:13 PM

k. thanks (: that makes me feel better. i figured it was fine. but im really starting to show now and my stomachs getting really hard, so i guess i was just being paranoid (: before i started showing i wasnt too worried about things like that. but now that i am i get worried too easy (: i guess its normal for a mommy to be to be that way lol thanks though for the hlep (: ↑

Name: Melissa | Date: Dec 18th, 2006 5:38 PM

my doc told me once i started showing not to do the missonary postition any more. a little pressure on your stomach is ok for a little while but if it hurts then tell him. that is your body's way of telling you not to do it like that. i don't think it will get him out of the "mood" by telling him to move a little. ↑

Name: mommyagain | Date: Dec 18th, 2006 7:45 PM

Yep just fine... if it isnt fine, you will know and you wont be able to just lay there and not say onything. I have finally gotten to the point that I cant have him on top, no way no how but at about 6 months yeah it was uncomfortable but I manged without saying too much. ↑

Name: nicole miller | Date: Dec 19th, 2006 1:07 AM

I'm sort of the same as Coartney... actually, worse, lol. If something is uncomfortable then I just say "Off!" or "Okay... we're done."

But as for it actually hurting the baby, I'm sure it didn't. They're pretty well protected in there, and if you haven't already had the doctor check for fundal height... the doc pushes away at your tummy like it's no big deal. Before anything can hurt the baby you'd feel it first - and it would hurt. Nature would let you know that you need to stop. ↑