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well i wantto move in with my bf because well it would make soo many things easier his parents said i could but now his social worker wont let him.. i dont understand why the hell not IM PREGNANT WITH HIS BABY. and my parents want nothing to do with him.. ↓
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| Name: punjabi | Date: Jun 4th, 2007 11:26 PM |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: Jun 4th, 2007 11:27 PM |
| well i would do what your parents want you to do since they probably have your best interest at heart. Iknow it seems bad and mommy and daddy are trying to punish you but you are 15 and pregnant...obviously you shouldnt be making your own decsions. And also if his social worker doesnt think its best then it must not be the best....listen to your elders. Also just because you "want" to do something doesnt mean its a good idea... ↑ |
| Name: .RoSey. | Date: Jun 4th, 2007 11:32 PM |
| yeh.. just like i WANT a donut.. but it isnt the best idea cause i will get fat =( ↑ |
| Name: kkarli | Date: Jun 4th, 2007 11:40 PM |
| yeah i know, but its stressful and im not saying its not stressful for anyone else because believe i knwo it is. but to see if this works out would not only be good for our relationship but the communcation and for me to be in a way better environment. ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 12:08 AM |
| OMG your 15...seriously i think you will be making a huge mistake if you completly leave your parents..if they dont want you with this boy they probably know what they are talking about..and if you have a good point to why you should be able to have contact or w/e then maybe you should sit down and talk to them adult like...which from what i have seen of you on this board is not something you know how to do. ↑ |
| Name: kkarli | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 12:40 AM |
| uh.. right so how am i like not acting like an adult? dont think im immature ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 12:51 AM |
| i said from i have seen of you on this site...as to other posts that i have seen from you. plus your 15 and pregnant...so..that doesnt lead me to believe you make the best decsions in the world ↑ |
| Name: lacirrom | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 12:52 AM |
| well just look at the way you phrased that sentence....that tells you right there alittle about your level of maturity ↑ |
| Name: Meggles18 | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 12:53 AM |
I'm sorry but most likely your parents are going to be paying for this baby so they have all the right to say that moving in with your boyfriend is not in your best interest.
Also if you guys have a communication problem, moving in is not going to fix that or make it any better. Work on school and your relationship with your parents becuase the are going to be there no matter what happens in your life instead of some boyfriend who has no clue what it takes to raise a family or to take care of himself for that matter. ↑ |
| Name: mamal | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 12:55 AM |
| I would say HECK NO! Just think about it this way you have only lived 15 yrs if you are looking at being with him and you live until 85 that's another 70 yrs. Does 70 yrs sound duable to you? ↑ |
| Name: .RoSey. | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 1:02 AM |
man.. i'd stay with my parents eh.. having a baby is hard work. and guys his age cant usually handle the stress very well... so you will prob be doing this on ur own anyways =\
ur mum has experiance.. she knows whats best ( believe it or not ) ↑ |
| Name: Alsgurl | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 1:02 AM |
| I agree with these girls Kkarli, i mean all teens think they know what they want. But when i comes to experience your parents have been there and they are only doing what is best for you and most importantly what is best for your child. You are going to need your moms help she has been there. I'm 21 and i am going to need my moms help. Look more into this before jumping in. ↑ |
| Name: lacirrom | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 1:07 AM |
| no matter how mature you are or how old you are it's very very hard taking care of a newborn....it's very very hard living with someone for the first time under any circumstances, much less with the added stress of a newborn in the house...i'm 24, have 2 kids already, and i've been married for 5 years and i would love it if i could live with my mom and have her help 24 hours a day lol!!!! enjoy the blessing that you are receiving! ↑ |
| Name: sheila | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 1:15 AM |
| You silly little girl...you have no clue about life...do you? ↑ |
| Name: kkarli | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 1:20 AM |
| yes like pfft.. hes 15 acts like hes 10 just how everyone was aying it will work out more if you two are together.. and i believe that but i mean i love my parents.. but i need him.. and im gonna give my baby up for open adoption. im not meantally or physically ready to take the responsibilty to raise a person. ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 1:20 AM |
| i dont know you sheila...but you made me smile...lol ↑ |
| Name: .RoSey. | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 1:21 AM |
yeh im 20 and im gunna need my mums help too !!
i know for a fact i wont be able to bring up this child without my mum.. i dont live with my mum.. but me and my boyfriend just moved into a house thats just down the road from her.. so whenever i need her help i can just go over and see her. ↑ |
| Name: .RoSey. | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 1:23 AM |
for god sakes.. i was 15 once ok? so was your mother !!
i made stupid choices when i was 15.. but at the time i thought i knew it all... all teens do !!!
For ONCE think about what your mother is telling you !!! shes not just doing it to be mean .. shes doing it because she cares for you and the baby comming into this world... Trust me.. it aint easy ! ↑ |
| Name: Meggles18 | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 1:23 AM |
That choice is all yours to make.
Take care of yourself and let your parents take care of you like they want to. ↑ |
| Name: lacirrom | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 1:25 AM |
| if you're giving the baby up for adoption any (which i think is a totally awesome and selfless idea !) why do you want to move in with you boyfriend anyway?i mean at 15 everybody is sooo in love with their boyfriend but that doesn't mean they should live together....like i said living together is very very hard even under the best of circumstances. ↑ |
| Name: lacirrom | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 1:27 AM |
| another question...why in the world do this kids parents what you to move in with their son? what the heck are they thinking? because it sounds like he lives with them so i would assume they support him....do they plan on supporting you too? ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 1:39 AM |
ok this is from lauren(aka zoey9810) her computer wont let her send responses for some reason
first off karli, im glad to see that you listened to you parents are are giving your baby up for adoption, because a few weeks ago you were determined to keep your baby, it seems like you are gaining your senses back, but then you want to move in with your boy friends parents??? not very smart, you need your parents more than any thing, and im telling you right now you may think that you are in love but you have no clue what love is at 15. and you made the comment that he has a social worker?? ?what for??? if he has one than thats not the best environment to be in esp. bing pregnant, when your hormones are in all different directions! listen to your parents, but i think you should talk to them about letting you stay at your school because you will need your friends too, what is your schools policy on pregnant girls, are they allowed to stay till full term?? ↑ |
| Name: 04nidak | Date: Jun 5th, 2007 2:18 AM |
| For just a minute, put yourself in your parents place, just say you end up having a daughter and 15 years from now, she comes to you tells you that she's pregnant and wants to go and live with the guy that knocked her up......imagine what you would think! For goodness sakes, you are their child and they want what any parent wants for their child, the best future they can offer and by allowing you to move in with your boyfriend at the age of 15 would not be giving you what they think (and probably most parents out there) is in your best interest. You've got plenty of time to move in with this guy down the road if you so choose, but right now you are a child and need guidance from your parents....pregnant or not! ↑ |
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