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Name: Minta

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i have had two boyz and after them this is my 2ed pregnancy. my last pregnancy didnt go well at all at 8 weeks my babys heart beat stoped and didnt know till i was 14 weeks as i started bleeding then went for a scan and that is when i found out. i am pregnant again and im REAL worried that it is going to happen again i am due on the 1st of april but am wanting to talk to ppl who have been through this or something like this, (a pregnancy that didnt go right and getting pregnant again after)
plz help anyone ↓

Name: Kristy84 | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 9:41 PM

So your first pregnancy was with twin boys, and you miscarried on your second? I was kind of confused by your post and just trying to get things straight? How far along are you now? ↑

Name: Minta | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 9:45 PM

no my first was a boy who is not 9, 2ed was a boy now 4, 3ed miscarried and now pregnant again due 1st of april ↑

Name: Minta | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 11:47 PM

is there any one out there that has been through what i am going through ↑

Name: Kristy84 | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 11:51 PM

I wish I could help you, but this is my first pregnancy. My grandma had 3 misscarriages and 1 "tubal pregnancy", and she ended up having 4 healthy boys. I'm sure that there are women in this room that have gone through this. I hope that you can find the support you're looking for, and best wishes. ↑

Name: ladyblueblood | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 11:53 PM

I haven't been in your position, but I do want to say congratulations on your babies you've already had. I don't know of many women that don't fret about miscarrying, even if they haven't before. Just try to be positive and don't stress yourself over it. Do everything you can to protect the precious little one inside of you, eating healthy, not smoking.. all that good stuff. Just take heart in knowing that most miscarriages are a factor of something being wrong during conception and the actual biology of the embryo, nothing that you personally did or did not do. Pray for the best. ↑

Name: Minta | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 11:57 PM

thank you kristy 84 and ladyblueblood for your input it is real hard for me at the mo as all i can think bout is my last baby i still not sure i am over it. i have a midwife already and she says that i will go through some hard times ↑

Name: nikkie_cool_girl | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 2:42 AM

My first pregnancy ended in a stillbirth. I was worried with my second pregnancy if it would happen the same way but I had a healthy baby girl. My blood pressure was high and the placenta ripped from the womb and I bleed. I just get my blood pressure checked alot when I am pregnant. I am pregnant again and worried it might happen again but I know it won't. ↑

Name: Kristy84 | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 5:27 PM

nikki,
How far along were you when it happened? I'm so sorry to hear that; that must have been anincredibly traumatic experience. How far along are you now? ↑

Name: nikkie_cool_girl | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 8:20 PM

I was 28 weeks along when it happened. I am now 13 weeks along. ↑