im 16.. i might have gotton my g/f preg .. im not those type of guys that once thier g/f say they are preg they dont talk to them and leave them. i'd do anything within my power to help out get a job anything. my parents would stay by myside.. they really love me . i dun think her parents would approve. i dunno what they would do really.
right now i just need some advice.. i really am misreable.. tears comin down my eyes... sorry for my spellin jus typin this cuz i jus need some help.. ↓
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| Name: julie23 | Date: Dec 13th, 2006 5:45 AM |
| well Henry you have to look at it this way, if she is pregnant then what's done is done....really!!! Do you know for a fact she is indeed pregnant? were you haveing unprotected sex? If she hasn't had a positive pregnancy test or have not yet tested don't continue to have unprotected sex, use a condom. A parents love is unconditional, an tho her parents may not approve of her pregnancy they will love her anyway and life will go on. Do you know when her last period was? I hope it all works out for you two, good luck ↑ |
| Name: Henry92206 | Date: Dec 13th, 2006 6:01 AM |
| yea we had unprotected sex but i didnt use the pullout method or anything i jus stopped when the time was right and did my business else where.. today she said she felt qweezy and stuff but she did it eat food that she shouldnt have eatin her mom brought home pizza and she eat that and drank soda and some cookies later on thats normal she loves cookies a child at heart.. dont kno for a fact she is..shes gonna get a test asap. i really dun remember it was sometime during novemeber.. i remember that girls can only get preg certain days 13, 14, 15, or 16.i know its been a bit more than ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Dec 13th, 2006 6:05 AM |
| the female usually ovulates 14 days after the first day of her period. if she isnt late right now, wait until she actually is late b.c she could get a negative result and still be pregnant, and as for the queasyness most women dont get many symptoms until they're about 6 weeks, some earlier but not usually, plus if she is worrying or stressing over being pregnant, she can trick her body into thinking so even though she may not be. and as for the pulling out method, or going somewhere else, whatever, its not effective you still have pre cum that is actually more likely to get a girl pregnant b.c of the amount of little guys in that little drop lol crazy huh. anyways, calm down, breathe, both of you, and just wait til she is closer to missing her period. ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Dec 13th, 2006 6:07 AM |
| oh yeh and screw the condom theory, stop having sex until you do find out, then try getting her on birth control and using condoms, better safe than freaked the hell out all the time ↑ |
| Name: firsttimer | Date: Dec 13th, 2006 6:11 AM |
| i agree, she needs to be on birth control if yall are having sex, and she can get on birth control without telling her parents or even asking for their permission ↑ |
| Name: Henry92206 | Date: Dec 13th, 2006 6:11 AM |
| thank you, she was my first and i want her to be my last but just dont want a baby right now..im just gonna go try get some sleep... ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Dec 13th, 2006 6:16 AM |
| good idea. also if you or her are worried about cost, im sure there is a planned parenthood, and they can usually if in highschool give free or really cheap birth control, all you have to do well her is have an exam done, which on the sliding scale is around 40$ anyways goodluck ↑ |
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