| this forum is not for this type of destructive questioning if you continue to post in this manner i will personally make sure that you are banned from the site ↑ |
| I think cherisalorraine should join a forum for obsessive compulsive disorder. She seems to be having a hard time leaving people alone here. ↑ |
its ok I mean I have been on and off ana and all the girls at my school are so thin my best friend is 90 pounds a size 0 she is my height so If I am 80 pounds I will be in kids I hope. Idk IU want to lose 4 pounds and I mean and I going to purge and I have to stay with my mom till I lose it all my dad makes me eat since the last time I puked after not eating for a whole then eating. So I mean I wake up do
200 sits ups
go to school and shake my leg the whole day
walk home which is about 1/2 a mile
get home
walk for an hour
get home do 500 sit ups
10 push ups
60 leg lifts ( each leg)
50 bench presses
then I rest for a while then do the same thing
500 sit ups
10 push ups
ect. ↑ |
OR
get home and do 2 hours of work out videos
sleep for a few hours and then get up around 6 pm do 2 more work out videos
My goal is to lose 60 pounds
I am 130 pounds right now I want to be 70
my gaol for Halloween is to be 115 pounds then my goal for thanksgiving is to be 95 pounds
then x mas 80 pounds
4 pounds a week for 15 weeks but when I am at my dads I will lose weight I wont eat breakfast or lunch just diner then play football and or soccer with my sister................
So About 4 to 5 pounds a week for about 12 to 15 weeks thats 3 months till I am 70 pounds. So thats around the end of January. ↑ |
sorry cheriselorraine but i ppl answered ppls ? and talked about it and got a long great now ppl are scared to say what they want to say becuase of what you are doing we cant get over out eating if we cant be honest.. that is what i meant to say...
sorry
lea ↑ |
| if you are honest about the disorder then you are making progress but when you are asking for help with the destructive behavior then it is not helping any one and the other people who come to this site dont need to be given destructive information. not all people that are at the same weight wear the same size clothes and if you tall some one that they should be in a certain jean size at a certain weight and their hips are to large for them to fit then they will continue to try to loose so that they can get into them because that was what they were told. i really dont know how that could be viewed as a positive. and also if any one read what this site was designed for they would see that it was designed for people who have children with eating disorders and finding help im sorry if you have a problem with some one trying to preserve the integrity of the site but i will not stand idle and watch people hurt one another or them selves. i dont have a problem with people being on here and supporting each other in a positive way but telling any one what size clothes they should wear or how to lose weight is not healthy.please understand that it is not a personal attack on any one person .the site if you scroll down and look was filled with a lot of destructive posts and i didnt want to scare any one i just wanted the forum to be used for its intended purpose. but i stand by what i said. i will continue be who i am and i think that every body is just the same some people have an ed some people have something else and i know that if it was me or my children came here for help and started reading some of these things they would not be helped and if the site manager had a problem with what i was doing then i think that i would have been banned by now ↑ |
| and you said that every one got along great before but did you stop to look at why they got along so well? we had this conversation before through my email ↑ |
| and judge judy i really dont think that you have any reason to come here and attack me. dont you get enough of your judgmental paranoid posts in the sahm forum?if you are not part of the solution you are part of the problem. and by trying to discredit people for being obsessive is relly silly. if you are truly trying to help people you dont just come along whenever you feel like it and say oh i wnder if i can do something today. you stick with it and let people get mad if they want but you dont give up because someone doesnt like it you must persist to achieve. if you would like to attack my character then would you please do it privately on one of my emails or at myspace or you know what i will give you my home phone number as long as i can do it without i becoming public information. but if you feel the need to do it here i cant stop you so have fun ↑ |
ok we did get along.. yeah ppl have distruxtive ?? but maybe that is to see if someone is there that wil help them and love them..... you dont no ppls situations..... i wanted to get over mine but i dont seem to be able to gain, so in my mind i have given up i cant gain so i might as well loose and get rid of this stupid thing for good start off in a new world where i wont have it.... i dont no how else to do it, i think i like the distructive ?? becuase i can finally let it go.... and go to a happy place..
i was not trying to be mean to you but iam so scared and dont no what else to do.. and whn i emailed you you did not email me back...
love ya though
and thanks for the help..
lea
lea ↑ |
| Eating disorders are mental illnesses. I really do not think anything anyone says on this forum will have any effect on whether someone ends or starts an eating disorder. Cherisalorraine I am afraid you are up against a brick wall with your mission to convince people of your point of view. That is like trying to talk a bipolar person out of a manic phase. I think that you are making your comments from the belief that an eating disorder is a choice and not an illness. These girls are mentally ill and need professional help. Your constant threats to report people do not help the situation. ↑ |
| it is a mental illness... yes. but people who are predisposed to it often start out just asking questions and wanting to diet. that diet turns into a lifetime struggle. ↑ |
i agree with you, june-clever
peace ↑ |
