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Name: Dean
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I know this is a site for mums but i have no where else to go... My girlfriend insists on losing weight when she doesnt need to, i have told her i love her just the way she is and that she doesnt need to lose weight but she wont listen... Can anyone help??
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Name: kamala | Date: Oct 8th, 2007 9:27 AM
Well, just keep trying to convince her by telling her she's too thin & how beautiful she already is - works for me anyway!!

If you think she's losing too much weight encourage her to seek help & maybe a checkup with the doc to make sure she's ok.
Just keep being a good bfriend & Whatever you do don't try to force her to do anything or you could make her worse. Let her make her own decisions. For some people anorexia is all about control so the more she feels like she is being controlled by you or anyone else she will try more & more to control her weight.
The only time when you should force her though is if her life is in danger & you think she's getting alot worse or if she refuses to do anything about it or see any doc.
I think if she really does has an eating disorder, you should learn as much as you can about the illness & help her as much as you can. 

Name: cherisalorraine | Date: Oct 8th, 2007 11:54 AM
thank you kamala for being helpful and positive 

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