| Name: christina | Date: Mar 14th, 2006 10:29 PM |
| i have boobs and i am bult but i feel fat and im not satticfired!!! ↑ |
| Name: Kris | Date: Mar 15th, 2006 5:47 AM |
| My names Kris and im nearly 16 years old. Let me tell all you girls that are becoming anorexic something. I started at 120 lbs and began loosing weight. You may think you'll stay at around 90 lbs once you reach that. That's what i though. I was so scared of gaining weight that i kepy eating little and that made me drop to a low of 76lbs. I can't even begin to explain what you are getting yourself into. Your body and personality will deteriorate. You will look absolutely disgusting and bones will be popping out all over your body. you will have the chest of a sever year old girl and you will come close to death. You will be constantly cold and in pain no matter where you are (even if your lying in bed). Your eyes will also be dark and sunken. You will also be tired all of the time and feel incredibly depressed. Is that what you girls what? Please don't fall into this. I'm back to around 114 lbs and i actually have a real body now. I will help you girls if you'll let me. Please e-mail me at [email protected] and you can trust me when i say that you need help and if you fall into this you will regret it forever. ↑ |
| Name: Rianne | Date: Mar 16th, 2006 9:16 PM |
| I don't have a reply, but i think i'm WAY too fat..... i'm 14, 4'11'' and i weigh 95 lbs. i skip breakfast and lunch every day, and i try to exercise as much as i can but i can't lose weight..... my friends say i'm skinny but i think i'm really fat-- what should i do?? ↑ |
| Name: Stace | Date: Mar 16th, 2006 9:59 PM |
Christine,
I use to be bulimic when I was younger, I will not lie it was very hard to stop because it was such a strong addiction and high to lose weight, yet in my eyes I was still fat. I was so bad that I would even make myself sick after drinking a coke. My health was going down hill quick, My gums would continuely bleed, I would catch colds easily, my hair was falling out, etc. However, I went to the doctor for my anual check up and he notice I was much skinner - he then phoned my mom to secretly tell her I was bulimic. Now, I did not tell him - however he notice my throat was so damaged because of the acid and reflex.
I knew I didn't want to die and at that point I realized I was just killing myself, hurting others and living life to throw up. I will tell you, IT WAS A HUGE BATTLE TO STOP. But I had family, friends and a great doctor to help me battle this addiction.
I think your in the right step you know it's bad and you are most importantly TALKING ABOUT IT. Just take this farther and get help.
You are not fat and please know your life is important . I'm here if you want someone to listen or talk! :) ↑ |
| Name: brittany | Date: Mar 16th, 2006 10:01 PM |
| i jsut started becoming bolimic and im loosing weight it makes me stat feeling really good. and i think i can keep controol of it.. my frriedns thinkks im skinny but i weigh 115 and i feel fatt... they think im goign to stare myself what should i dp ↑ |
| Name: Katie | Date: Mar 16th, 2006 10:16 PM |
| Name: brittany | Date: Mar 17th, 2006 12:48 AM |
| mt y body i feel fat adn ove weight ↑ |
| Name: To Brittany | Date: Mar 17th, 2006 2:39 PM |
| Please read Stace message - do you want to lose your hair, your gums bleed, feel sickly? Do you realize when you throw up the acid is destroying your throat? You think you have control, but you don't. It is like a drug, you do get a high from losing weight and you think it's all under control - it's not. Don't let it destroy you! Think about the people around you who love you, you are hurting them as well as yourself. Read up on this disease and see the damages - it will blow your mind! It only get's worse! PLEASE, PLEASE STOP! You are not fat! ↑ |
| Name: Margaret | Date: Mar 18th, 2006 2:31 AM |
| look you are not fat. u need to realize that it isnt about being skiiny and looking PEFECT its about the friends u have and being happy. i am 5'7 and i weigh 117 pounds. that probably seems like a lot to you but i used to be 103. then i got into counseling and it really made me realize there is more to my life that being obsessed about food. u need to realize that tooo ↑ |
| Name: Alicia | Date: Mar 18th, 2006 5:23 AM |
Well, I just turned 16, and I used to be anorexic, too. I made myself throw up about 22 times in the past, but i have learned how bad it can be for you. I started when I was 13 and i stopped about 6 months ago. I have a lot of support because I finally, after 3 yrs of suffering, allowed myself to tell my family about it and i feel much better especially now, since it is off of my chest and all. I feel very strongly about how ppl nowadays have so much stress and if you really wanna talk about this problem, i might be able to help. We could talk sometime if you really want. Remember, I don't judge anyone. I have done SO MUCH research into this stuff, and I have researched everything under the sun, just about. Not saying i know everything, i am not even close. But I know a lot about anorexia, besides, i have been there before. I wouldn't jude neone and i would keep things confidential. I plan on being a psychologist, or an attorney some day, and in order to be either of those things, i hav to keep things confidential. I just love helping ppl and making a diff in lives. I have friends who say I should be a psychologist, because i can help them through their issues well. So, if u ever do wanna talk, or anyone else who reads this as well:
AIM: Princesschattie1
MSN: [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Kara | Date: Mar 19th, 2006 7:51 PM |
Well i used to think im fat! To tell you the truth! Girl your under weight! you dont believe then you beter go see a doctor or something cuz, girl thats not good! I play soccer and soft ball! Im ''5'' '4' and i weigh 98 pounds! im suppose to weigh 117, but i dont want to! So go see a doctor or look online at girls fitness health! You will get alot of information from there! Yes you need to gain weight! If you dont want to gain a whole lot then exercise! To me you sound anerexic! ok! Thats all i could say so hope it goes well for you! Oh and im alomost 14 to!
Kara Blevins ↑ |
| Name: Kara | Date: Mar 19th, 2006 8:01 PM |
Hey its kara again! Well i looked up on the weight stuff for women and teens! Well i went to teens and it said your suppose to weigh 117! I dont weigh 117! I weigh 98! So! Then it said it all depends on your height! If you really are ''5'' '4' then yeah! You need to gain quite a bit! like atleast get up to 95 pounds! trust me you dont want to weigh 87 pounds! When i was 11 i weighed less than everyone else and it suked real bad! I always got teesed and people called me an anorexia b****! They said go throw up more you Anorexia B****! So yeah! I never weighed less than anyone after that! So yeah! Well im done! I hope you really understand what we are all trying to tell you! You can die from stuff like this! ok! Like that one girl said! Its not about you its about everyone around you! You know! So have a great day! And yeah! bye!
Kara Blevins! ↑ |
| Name: Hattie | Date: Mar 20th, 2006 10:45 PM |
| No way you are not fat. 87 pounds is 6.2 stone which is clinically underweight for someone your height and age. I know because I'm 5'4 aswell, im 14 and i weigh 6 stone and have been told by my docotr that im clinically underweight and need to gain weight. I dont have an eating disorder, no-one knows why i weigh so little but if i dont gain weight i could become very ill. The average for our height and age is 7.5 stone which is 105 pounds, so you are fine, if anything you need to gain weight. ↑ |
| Name: kira | Date: Mar 23rd, 2006 6:50 AM |
| have you tried jim it may help i have the same prob and i am 13 and i way 59pounds so dont fill bad there are people hwo have that prob as well ↑ |
| Name: ??? | Date: Mar 23rd, 2006 9:18 AM |
| I know how you feel i never eat at all no breakfast no dinner and no Tea i am 2 ugly 2 live i have even took and overdose just to stop everything i get bullied just because i am small and they think i am FAT so i tried not eating it HASNT worked i have a mate to talk to but i cant always trust her coz she tells everyone ↑ |
| Name: ck | Date: Mar 31st, 2006 7:22 PM |
| Now you listen to me. I dont care what anyone tells you. 5' 4 and ONLY weighing 87 pounds is underweight. Dont be afraid to gain some weight. You are active in sports and it should help to keep your body healthy and toned. About the period thing..everyone starts at a different time but not getting proper nutrions may be affected that. I hope you get better and dont listen to the fools that are calling you fat. That is just a plain lie. ↑ |
| Name: ccc | Date: Mar 31st, 2006 7:24 PM |
| Trust me your lucky to be afraid of gaining weight. Your not fat trust me.. I know what fat is. Ive been struggling all my life to be thin. I am 13 5'4 and weigh 115. Now thats fat :( ↑ |
| Name: Taylor | Date: Apr 1st, 2006 5:44 AM |
| Hi, I feel the excact same and I play the same sports and people tell me the same thing and I am about to turn 14, too. My period stop coming back so we are really in the same boat. I fell like I am fat, too but people tell me I need to gain weight, and I feel like I am going to faint when I skip meals but I don't throw it up and if you do throw it upo you are going to gain twice as much weight and I don't want to take that risk of gaining all of it. So, you should stop soon. Email me at [email protected] if you still are here. This is so wierd because I never thought of someone playing the same sports as me and feeling the same way about my body like this. ↑ |
| Name: Danielle | Date: Apr 1st, 2006 8:05 AM |
I know what you are going through. I am 29 years old and have been a sufferer my own eating disorder since I was 10 years old. Just remember that you are not fat by any means.
We all suffer from an emotional problem where we do not feel in control of our own lives. The only thing we have control over is our bodies. Those helpless emotions are very difficult to process and so we take it out on ourselves.
Something that has helped me is meditation and self help therapy. If you can get a professional, do it. You may think other people will be disappointed in you, but that isn't true.
Dieting is allot like acoholism, you never fully recover but you can accept who and what you are. Concentrate on a hobby. I started making jewelry and it truly helped.
get your family invoved. Whether you know it or not, they are more worried than you are. The number one rule of recovery is to realize that this is an emotional problem, not a physical one.
I hope this helps you. ↑ |
| Name: Gene | Date: Apr 4th, 2006 8:56 PM |
| I'm not exactly fat but i really want to look good. I'm 13. I thought of just not eating but i don't want to become ill i just don't know what to do. I really would like to lose weight but do i stop eating? ↑ |
| Name: Roxy | Date: Apr 5th, 2006 7:10 PM |
| Your not fat!! Don't stop eating because this will just get you very ill. I'm 13 and i feel like that sometimes i want to look better but you have just got to stay healthy and eat correctly this will then just be good for you and should just give you a great shape. If you make not eating a habit then that will be dangerous. Just don't get sick. Hope that helps. ↑ |
| Name: me | Date: Apr 7th, 2006 2:37 AM |
| Name: me | Date: Apr 7th, 2006 2:38 AM |
| just gain weight u r gonna look gross just do it plz ↑ |
| Name: .... | Date: Apr 8th, 2006 4:09 PM |
| No! you're not fat! I'm 13, I'm 5'4" as well, and I way 91lbs! now I'm fat! ↑ |
| Name: Christine | Date: Apr 9th, 2006 7:21 AM |
| Its me I havent been on here in a long time.....but i have been 14 since early december and i have only lost a pound or so but i still havent started my period and we got our body fat percentages and i have 2% body fat........i still need help....... ↑ |
| Name: nicole | Date: Apr 9th, 2006 8:54 AM |
| i went to chat with only people who age is 13-14 ↑ |
| Name: kes | Date: Apr 9th, 2006 10:19 PM |
look at the girls you are trying to look like..they look like skeletons!
Rememnber the reason men like women and the reason women like men are the different shapes between the genders.
Who wants to go out with a supermodel skeleton who walks like a constipated pelican?....no one.Be yourself for gods sake and stop worrying about what people think.
When your on your deathbed are you gonna remember the times when you looked extra skinny in a dress?
Or are you gonna remember your friends and the good times? ↑ |
| Name: Joey | Date: Apr 10th, 2006 3:56 AM |
Yes I am a boy, 15, but WAIT. Im not a pervet Im here to help. First of all you are not Fat! it is the media which is telling you, that you are fat.
The media is a sick force which tells us, and espeacially girls how to act, feel, and look. The media is potrying something which is not real Melissa, what you are seeing are exploited girls, on paper, or on the tv.
Your more then a body mellisa, you have a personalitty Im sure. It doesn't matter what you look like, your a meaningful human being. No matter what you do your beatiful, and a unique individual.
Don't starve yourself. Your killing your self Melissa. You will be dead if you continue this behavior, it is foolish. It doesn't matter what you like when your dead. Don't do it, you have so much to live for.
I will hope that if this continues you will seek professional help.
My thoughts and prayers are with you girl, I hope you realize your true uniqne beatuty. ↑ |
| Name: xxx | Date: Apr 11th, 2006 10:17 PM |
| dont lose weight............u r too skinny ↑ |
| Name: Uceemag | Date: Apr 12th, 2006 4:07 AM |
| It's better i see u so that i with how to treat ur problems ↑ |
| Name: sarah | Date: Apr 14th, 2006 12:05 PM |
| im almost 15 and havnt started my period yet! but my mum and sisters started their periods when they were 14. why havnt i had mine yet? ↑ |
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