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im 14 and 3 months preg and i am over the moon my mum is stikkin by me aswell i feel very lonely now though cause i lost all my friends i need 2 talk 2 sum 1 in the same situation as me plz write bk xxx ↓
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| Name: Lisa | Date: Dec 3rd, 2005 1:34 PM |
| My mother had ababy at 14. After abbout two weeks her mother forced her to give the baby to his 18 year old father. He remarried shortly thereafter and was raised by his father and stepmom. MY mother always regretted not raising him. She justdid not have the parentl support or means to do it. You are lucky to have that! Treasure that...it is a luxury and a blessing. I don't consider that there are illegitimate children..only parnets. You did someting really dumb...but that's the past. Time to move on...you're gonna be a mom. It will not be easy....at all...but this is not an impossible situation! You have to finish school. Life as a teenager is over. This precious baby is yours to raise and take care of...that means the folly of youth is over for you...that is not the end of the world though...you have just shortened that time in your life...not the worst ting that could happen...take being a mother seriousley...your baby deserves that much! Be grateful for your mother...she is taking on so much...never lose that gratitiude for her...good luck...take good care of yourself and use this experience as a launching pad, not a landing strip..it is not the end of the world! My mother has a rather estranged realtionship with her first son...he is now over 40...has had some issues with realtionships, etc. It breaks my mother's heart that she was not there to build the relationship with him that wasso critical to his emotional develoment...she will take this to her grave. SHe is now dying of lung cancer...life is REALLY short...make the most of what you have right now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: amer | Date: Dec 3rd, 2005 10:26 PM |
| Name: stacey | Date: Dec 4th, 2005 9:00 AM |
| yes i do have msn ma addy is [email protected] xxx ↑ |
| Name: mel | Date: Dec 6th, 2005 9:16 AM |
| hi im always eya 4 u 2 talk 2 x ↑ |
| Name: ELISA | Date: Jan 8th, 2006 1:35 AM |
| Hi stacey I was in the same situation has U I got pregnant when I was 14 same has U lost most of my friends and some of theme I see them like 3x a year .but let me tell U something friends come and go.and don't feel bad cause your baby feels everything take good care of yourself. ↑ |
| Name: Sharon | Date: Jan 14th, 2006 12:54 AM |
| Stacey, I had a baby when I was 15. Being pregnant and young is a devastating and lonely experience that I can relate to. It is a blessing to have the support and understanding from your mother. Hang in there- and know that this is not the end of the world. Raising my daughter was not easy- We had to do alot of "growing up" together. She will be 24 this year- and everything that we went through was worth it. I am not condoning teen pregnancy- I am just trying to give you some words of encouragement. ↑ |
| Name: Tapinga | Date: Feb 3rd, 2006 12:40 AM |
| I was sixteen When I had my daoughter, She's going to be 4 years old pretty soon. I can't wiat, though it's sad cuz shes growing up so fast. ↑ |
| Name: Tapinga | Date: Feb 3rd, 2006 12:51 AM |
| I forgot to say this, Sometimes its really hard, The father of my daoughter, wanted me to kill her, I lost lots of my friends, but to tell you the truth it hurts, not having anybody around when you really need them the most, but then they weren't really friends, my true friends stayed with me, though I see them about once I year,(they live to far away). And My family were always up in my face, calling me names everyday. But It does get better, a whole lot better. Just think of all the thigs you get to do with your baby. God most of loved me to give me My daoughter. Just hang in there. all things happen for a reason, though a lot of times we my never now why, it just means you were ready when it happens. ↑ |
| Name: e-mail me | Date: Feb 9th, 2006 6:53 PM |
[email protected]
I will talk to you okay ↑ |
| Name: twan | Date: Feb 12th, 2006 7:19 PM |
| just b-cuz yo mama had a child at the age of 14 it don't give u the right to make the wrongmistake that yo mama did.Why in the world u trying to follow yo mama foot steps.u need to make the right decicions.If u young and trying to have a baby u would wish u didn't have sex when u only 12 years old b-cuz when u get older u going to be like I wish I had listen to my mama when she told me to st5op having sex at a youyng age.Because when u have yo baby the father of the child be like that's not my baby she been sleeping around when I was going out with her and they is going to be like she's a hoe because she been sleeping with my brothers or friends.And also u going to be like I wish Ididn't have a baby b-cuz u ainit going to be able to hang with yo friends like u want to and u ainit going to be able to party because u have to take care of yo baby.Plus some kids that have kids they drop out of school because they can't find no baby sitter. ↑ |
| Name: Sarah | Date: Feb 25th, 2006 2:44 AM |
| Hi stacey, im 17 and 33 weeks pregnant. i was in the same boat and still am. all my friends ditched me when they found out i have no friends at all only my mum and my dad. but now im used to it, im having a beautiful baby girl in april. and i tell ya what she is definently worth loosing all my friends. because the simple fact is she will bring me more happiness than my friend ever could. ive had a lot of sad and lonely days by myself. but every time i feel low my baby kicks me and i feel happy. its as if she knows im sad and she's saying "dont be sad mummy ill be here soon" lol i know it sound silly but she always does it... ↑ |
| Name: Kristen | Date: Mar 6th, 2006 4:07 PM |
| it hutz bn preg & my bf is goin 2 school 2 get an education while i stay home & rest my mom won't even talk 2 me plz help me. w/b asap!!! ↑ |
| Name: lisa | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 10:22 PM |
| i had my first at 17 and i was scard but i had my mum to full on ↑ |
| Name: lisa | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 10:31 PM |
| hi kristen how old are u? i was 17yrs old when i had my first i was scard.. how do u feel? ↑ |
| Name: Jen | Date: Mar 8th, 2006 10:14 PM |
| Hey. Listen i noe it is hard to deal w/ this but you need to think your 14 yrs old. You are pregnant (if you even r) and you are "suposdly" going to have this baby. I mean you are yet a child yoursellf how can your raise another? ↑ |
| Name: Sara | Date: Mar 9th, 2006 7:47 PM |
| Hey i need to know if i can qwit school and get a Job! im 15 and i can't go to school and support my child! plz right me back ↑ |
| Name: Sara | Date: Mar 12th, 2006 7:50 PM |
Hey,
If your friends all ditch you then they are not real friends. I guess its a little different with me since I am 19, but in our group we have had a couple people have babies young (17 or 18) and they are STILL in our group. They cant come out and hang out with us as much anymore because they are busy; but they know if they have the time they are more than welcome. You will find new friends. This is not the end of the world. It is going to be difficult but just be thankful for those who are there to help you out, and dont worry about those who ditched you. They arnt worth your time anyways. ↑ |
| Name: hi sara | Date: Mar 29th, 2006 9:35 PM |
| how old are u and ur kids! ↑ |
| Name: lisa | Date: Mar 29th, 2006 9:38 PM |
| hi sara' how old are u and ur little ones! i am 22 with 2 little ones i have a 8month and a 4yr old! ↑ |
| Name: michelle | Date: Apr 4th, 2006 1:29 AM |
| Hey im 13 and i think im pregnate you can e-mail me at [email protected] or [email protected]! ↑ |
| Name: gail | Date: May 25th, 2006 10:04 PM |
| im 14 and im a month preg and my mom kicked me out im im leaving with my man and his aunt i lost all my friends cuz they said i cant do anything fun ↑ |
| Name: Siddhant | Date: Jun 23rd, 2006 8:10 AM |
| Just a sorry but if u r ready-abortion.if not run away and marry the boy ↑ |
| Name: lisa | Date: Jun 23rd, 2006 9:04 PM |
| hi stracey how is yr pregnancy? i have a 4 yr old and i had her when i was 18yrs old and i have not long ago had a little boy he is 11months old now! how mean weeks do u have to go now??? ↑ |
| Name: ShelbeLynn15 | Date: Apr 23rd, 2007 7:24 PM |
| Hey my name is shelbe i am 15 and i am doing a research paper on teen pregnancy could you answer a few ?'s. everything will be keep confindential if you would like. thanks shelbe ↑ |
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