I do think having a child at 18 is pretty young but more importantly you should ask yourself are you ready for the responsibilities, the sacrifices, the devotion in every way. I had my 1st child at 19 and I did it with the help of my parents. They provided a home for us to stay in. However, I was responsible in raising him and If I could do it all over again, I would spend as much time as I can with him. I didn't because I had to work, go to school, and regretfully, I went out a lot and had babysitters watch him. I thought at that time that it was ok, I thought to myself that I don't ever want to think that having him prevented me from going out, but now I wish I had spent more time together. So, I hope you have done many things you've wanted to do and feel settled enough to commit to a child. ↑ |
18 isnt to young to have a baby. ive been with my partner for 4 years aswell and we are engaged. we found out i was pregnant lastweek. we wernet trying for a baby and always said we would abort it if i got pregnant but when it actually happened we r over the moon. we are so excited. good lcuck. hope all goes well xxx ↑ |